I feel like I made a major mistake today. It is true that I don't know what would've happened if I stayed.
I got to the bar at 11:30 (last call is 1 am).
I approached those two girls. they were pretty nice in talking to me.
The one girl kept trying to argue with me in a playful way though.
(she later kept telling me you never tell a girl 'you are adorable')
I wasn't sure which one I should go for. we were talking but there wasn't a strong hook (seductive eyes or other connotations) I felt like I was just entertaining them.
I didn't want to waste time so I told them, I gotta find my friends and I will catch you guys later.
Later, I saw them dancing with some guys.
The bar was closing. one girl was with a guy and I was trying to talk to other one. they discussed about something and decided to split up.
there was actually a guy waiting for the other one in the back. they left bar together.
So basically they were DTF and came to a bar looking for a mate just like guys.
I mean it happened to me many times. I talk to couple girls for a while and they decide to leave the bar together. (it's obvious they were not DTF since they could just ditch me and try to find a better guy) I was just a good conversation partner for them.
If I got blown out in first few approaches, I think I would've stayed. but since my first approach went well, I thought I could do better.
how do you know you are not wasting your time?
I guess it's something hard to tell. you just gotta be experienced in reading whether they are really interested....?
(like an experienced sales person who can tell this customer would buy something)
In the end, I should've asked them if they would go to dance floor with me or go outside the patio which shows strong interests.
I got to the bar at 11:30 (last call is 1 am).
I approached those two girls. they were pretty nice in talking to me.
The one girl kept trying to argue with me in a playful way though.
(she later kept telling me you never tell a girl 'you are adorable')
I wasn't sure which one I should go for. we were talking but there wasn't a strong hook (seductive eyes or other connotations) I felt like I was just entertaining them.
I didn't want to waste time so I told them, I gotta find my friends and I will catch you guys later.
Later, I saw them dancing with some guys.
The bar was closing. one girl was with a guy and I was trying to talk to other one. they discussed about something and decided to split up.
there was actually a guy waiting for the other one in the back. they left bar together.
So basically they were DTF and came to a bar looking for a mate just like guys.
I mean it happened to me many times. I talk to couple girls for a while and they decide to leave the bar together. (it's obvious they were not DTF since they could just ditch me and try to find a better guy) I was just a good conversation partner for them.
If I got blown out in first few approaches, I think I would've stayed. but since my first approach went well, I thought I could do better.
how do you know you are not wasting your time?
I guess it's something hard to tell. you just gotta be experienced in reading whether they are really interested....?
(like an experienced sales person who can tell this customer would buy something)
In the end, I should've asked them if they would go to dance floor with me or go outside the patio which shows strong interests.