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06-01-2013, 04:13 PM
You approach a girl and she is not interested in you as a guy.
Obviously, if she doesn't see you as a potential, you shouldn't give a damn about her and move on.
But what about trying to be friends with her?
I hate to see when 'PUA' guys talking about how it is BETA to be just friends with a girl.
(If you are treating her like a GF, you are not hitting on other chicks because you want to be faithful to her, then you are a beta)
Anyways, if she is not interested in banging you, you can still use her (we all use each other in our society, it's called 'networking') to meet her friends, just to kill times, to learn about women's behavior, to use her as a social proof etc.
The thing is she wouldn't take it as 'I just want to be your friend' even if I emphasize we should this and this (common interest) together as 'friends'
Is it because I am conveying my sexual interest in her without realizing?
You initially hit on her but you realize she either has a bf or she is not interested in you. So you want to be friends with her for future leads. (eg:you are car sales man. she doesn't need a car but she might have a friend who need one)
how do you become friends with her?
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06-01-2013, 06:45 PM
Guys shouldn't be friends with girls. The earlier in life you realize this the happier you will be.
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06-01-2013, 11:54 PM
You should be friends with anyone whose friendship you find valuable and fulfilling. Girl, guy, antelope....doesn't matter. Friends will take care of you when you're down, advise you when you're confused, and contribute to your life in a myriad of other ways. Girls are great for that.
Just don't settle for friendship when you know it will not satisfy your desire for the other person.
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06-02-2013, 12:58 AM
I have enough friends and don't need some broad I'm not banging to make my life more difficult. I barely have enough time in life for my friends and family which is why very few women are allowed into my airspace.
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06-02-2013, 05:57 AM
Men in your social circle are (mostly) your friends. Women are your associates. Treat them accordingly.
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06-02-2013, 03:35 PM
Some guys have this fantasy going on where they befriend a hot girl and she introduces him to all her hot girlfriends and doesn't cockblock and actively helps him get laid.
In reality, they just end up as one of her many orbiters, whether they realize it or not.
Here's a quick guide: if you're hanging out socially with a single girl who you're not related to or who you're not fucking, you're her orbiter. No exceptions.
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06-02-2013, 03:36 PM
Never and I repeat NEVER befriend a girl.
Always make your intentions clear from the beginning.
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06-05-2013, 03:31 PM
Who has time for female friends?
I tell this to EVERY girl I meet at some point in the interaction, whether I haven't fucked her or I have:
"I'm either going to fuck you; or I don't know you. I don't need someone to go shopping at the mall with sweetheart."
I've used this for years and it's worked very well because it establishes FRAME in an ironclad way. Ironically, I've had girls decide to fuck me after I say this and later rationalize it with, "Well I figured we're not going to be friends so I may as well".
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07-23-2015, 11:25 AM
I can have female friends has long as I do not have desire to fuck them, and they have desire to fuck me.
A woman can do anything for a man she likes, just like a beta orbiter does the same for a girl. (see Bond and Miss Moneypenny)
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07-23-2015, 11:39 AM
Good luck networking with hot babes who don't want to fuck you. I second Rocha, if you want to fuck her and she doesn't (regardless of whether you've banged her before or not), you aren't networking. Chics rarely give you anything if they aren't interested (feel free to test...you'll find out the hard way).
Interesting volleyball was brought up...
I play coed volleyball throughout the year. To me, the only thing a girl would be potentially useful for, as a friend, is volleyball. It's nice having good volleyball playing hot chics on your team.
Even then, who cares if you can't fuck them. Hot chics don't look across the court and think, wow, that guy has some babes on his team, I'm going to ask him if I can suck his cock later.
This is why "approach" is so important. I put that in quotes because I just mean pushing the interaction toward sex in any number of ways in any point in the interaction. This can be simply saying hi (she didn't notice you before, now she does), to teasing her a little, to asking her to hang out, to getting her number, etc, etc.
You can be a great player with hot babes on his team, and you'd still be better off just approaching chics at the grocery store.
You might get a little more respect bringing hot babes around...but it's minor compared to the respect you get by simply being respectable.
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07-23-2015, 02:06 PM
When you need friends, you have the boys, who will always be there for a beer and some life advice.
When you need sex, you have the girls, who are there for sex / gaming.
Don't mix both.
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07-25-2015, 01:05 AM
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