[Exactaking]

Saw a link on Heartiste's twitter about this article:

http://mobile.slate.com/articles/double_..._stop.html

This is gotta be the most sad specimen of a man I've ever seen. This is just the first paragraph:

Quote:

I’m a stay-at-home dad to twin 4-year-old girls who are already smarter than me, and my wife is a brilliant doctor who kicks ass and saves lives every day. I grew up with big sisters and a mom whose authority was unbreachable. I celebrate every inroad that women make into business, technology, science, politics, comedy, you name it, and I get angry about “slut-shaming” or “stereotype threat” or whatever is the affront du jour. And yet, in the caveman recesses of my imagination, I objectify women in ways that make Hooters look like a breakout session at a NOW conference.

Its one thing if you're one of those househusbands who manages to alpha it up (like that Tsarnev guy) and be like a lion or a pimp (bitch does all the work but still obeys you). But this guy puts the bitch in the kitchen bitch.

He's so concerned about ogling women, he consults the most masculine man he knows:

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I asked the often controversial feminist writer, Hugo Schwyzer, who teaches history and gender studies at Pasadena City College, if he knew of any research that had been done on how to avoid being “plagued by intrusive sexual thoughts.” His suggestion? ”The "affirm and redirect" strategy.

After that, I couldn't read anymore. I think Slate, Jezebel and Atlantic are just trolling the manosphere now.

[cardguy]

Slate used to be good. But it has gone downhill and has being shit for years.

But I do sense some trolling going on in that article. Like it started out serious, and then just turned into an excuse to be silly. Hoping to push somebodys buttons.

[Roosh]

His wife is cheating on him.

(Slate is owned by the Washington Post, btw.)

[placer]

The thing that annoys me about that article is that the man thinks it's somehow unnatural or wrong to look at other women as potential sexual partners. (Edit: Strange how feminism is moving us full circle to classic Christian values...the idea that "avoiding the visual stimulus could decrease the perverted thoughts" is something I would expect to come from a repressive fundamentalist country or a church tract) (Second edit: The guy from Sex Addicts Anonymous hit the nail on the head: "their program was designed to deal with dangerous and destructive behaviors, and that lessening the annoyance of “normal” fantasies was not in their purview". In other words, how you react to a hot 20-year-old girl in a miniskirt is normal and a bit different from having unprotected sex with prostitutes)

[Mage]

Phascinating how two people can go different ways from the same starting point.

For me and probably most guys here - discovering our desires led us to quest for answers that have brought us to manosphere, red pill and game.

For this guy - just the opposite happens, he makes a loser out of himself.

In game we have a 3 second rule (not that it is a strict rule but still) if you exchange looks with a hot girl do approuch in 3 seconds.

This guy also has a 3 second rule - do not look at women longer then 3 seconds. And that is what he considers among the greatest achievements in his life - to reduce himslef to a slave who dares not to gaze upon his masters.

The difference between him and us is like between aliens from different planets. Amazing.

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

These guys are so ridiculous and caricature-ish that I think it's the best to simply ignore them.

[HeyPete]

I bet he has a full beard and mustache.

[Wadsworth]

(05-30-2013 10:34 AM)Roosh Wrote:  

His wife is cheating on him.

Dear lord, I certainly hope so.

[Veloce]

(05-30-2013 10:25 AM)Exactaking Wrote:  

Quote:

I’m a stay-at-home dad to twin 4-year-old girls who are already smarter than me, and my wife is a brilliant doctor who kicks ass and saves lives every day. I grew up with big sisters and a mom whose authority was unbreachable. I celebrate every inroad that women make into business, technology, science, politics, comedy, you name it, and I get angry about “slut-shaming” or “stereotype threat” or whatever is the affront du jour. And yet, in the caveman recesses of my imagination, I objectify women in ways that make Hooters look like a breakout session at a NOW conference.

This sounds like a top grade, RVF-veteran-level troll job.

The reality is this guy is a shining example of the modern American man; completely ashamed and scared shitless to let any masculinity out whatsoever.

[Bacchus]

This is too rich not to be a troll. He has a blog called, wait for it, beta dad.

Here's his picture:

[Exactaking]

Based upon looking at his blog, it seems "beta dad" is not just submiting to his wife, he's surrendering to asian culture. The whole thing is a terrible metaphor for the what is wrong with 21st century America.

[Samseau]

(05-30-2013 10:34 AM)Roosh Wrote:  

His wife is cheating on him.

(Slate is owned by the Washington Post, btw.)

Cheating on him? He's a straight up cuckold!



These are "his" kids. Does they look mixed to you? Looks like she got knocked up by some Korean guy.

[Therapsid]

It's funny because he's a good looking white dude who, if he learned game, could bang younger and hotter Asian girls than his wife till the cows came home. But nope - he had to surrender his masculinity and pride.

The guy's pretty much screwed. Doctors have some of the highest divorce rates of any profession, but then you add the fact that in this case it's the wife who's the MD and the man is a castrated bum.

[Days of Broken Arrows]

(05-30-2013 10:39 AM)placer Wrote:  

The thing that annoys me about that article is that the man thinks it's somehow unnatural or wrong to look at other women as potential sexual partners. (Edit: Strange how feminism is moving us full circle to classic Christian values...the idea that "avoiding the visual stimulus could decrease the perverted thoughts" is something I would expect to come from a repressive fundamentalist country or a church tract) (Second edit: The guy from Sex Addicts Anonymous hit the nail on the head: "their program was designed to deal with dangerous and destructive behaviors, and that lessening the annoyance of “normal” fantasies was not in their purview". In other words, how you react to a hot 20-year-old girl in a miniskirt is normal and a bit different from having unprotected sex with prostitutes)

Exactly! Since Born-Again Christianity became declasse, the upwardly mobile have taken to feminism to push their Anti-Sex League agenda. This is insane. Redefining the appreciation of the opposite sex as "perversion" is perverted itself.

Ironic his wife's a doc, since he seems to have no understanding of basic biology.

[Exactaking]

Beta Dad is the most depressing blog I've ever read. This "man"'s life revolves around two girls who don't even look like him.


Here's a pic of the whole happy family:


Saddest blog entry is about his father and grandfather:

http://www.betadadblog.com/2012/06/makin...bitch.html

Grandfather: cowboy
Father: GI in Vietnam
Son: Kitchen Bitch.

[Mekorig]

I have seen a good number of causcasic/asian mixed kids, and those two girls does not look like "mixed". Yeah, i supposed the guy was cuckholded.

[Vicious]

I don't see the outrage here, this guy is doing better than 2/3 of the populace.

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

(05-31-2013 09:18 AM)Vicious Wrote:  

I don't see the outrage here, this guy is doing better than 2/3 of the populace.

Just because he is married doesn't mean he gets to tap that pussy (particularly as implied by his perfectly Asian children).

[MikeCF]

(05-30-2013 10:34 AM)Roosh Wrote:  

His wife is cheating on him.

This.

I would have no issue with reversing gender roles if it actually worked.

If a guy took care of the house while his wife worked and both were happy, good for them.

But it just doesn't work that way, and articles like that leave out the all-important detail that a wife who works while her husband stays home is an insufferable cunt who is getting bent over at the office by her boss.

[DBCooper]

Do you guys think there is any place for some sort of 'red pill' therapists? I'm no psychiatrist, but this guy sounds like he is in need of some kind of intervention to get to the bottom of why he is as he is. People like to say 'he's a product of feminism' but surely this can only be a contributing factor - I'm willing to wager a lot of us guys on here have had feminist ideas thrust upon us at some point, whether it be from parents, schools or society at large but we've chosen to reject it. What makes this guy different?

[The Beast1]

Who knows what is up with this guy.

It makes me sick. Even before I got into red pill stuff, i came to my own conclusion there are certain aspects of being a "man" that should be universal to every man. Unspoken rules that are learned through socialization with other guys.

This appears to be a man who had it beaten out of him or worse. Either way, i believe men like him are in the minority.

He looks to have been cuckold too. That's pathetically sad.

His blog needs some healthy trolling. Someone ask him if his kids are his and not some other asian guy's.

[SVK]

You know you (male feminist) took it too far when Jezebel is making fun of you:

http://jezebel.com/daddyblogger-controls...-510479470

[j r]

Feminists will always shit on manginas, especially when they try to express feminist ideas. The irony of that fact is quite beautiful.

The only male feminist to whom females respond positively are alphas, a la Bill Clinton or Hank Moody.

[The Beast1]

Read the comments from Jezebel. Even they think he's weird.

I think we found something both we and the feminists can agree on. This guy is a loser.

From what it seems like, beta males will continually get shat on no matter what they do and alpha males will always rein supreme even if the alpha males drink the feminist theory kool aid.

Interesting.

[Teekay]

Yeah, this guy is getting slaughtered by his own.

First, read the comments under the Slate article. Example:

Quote:

The first reason I don't like this article (whether it was intended to be humorous or not, I have no idea) is because it suggests that a male feminist should be embarrassed about a perfectly normal thought pattern, thus insinuating that the idea of women being equal somehow makes it so they can't be objects of sexual desire as well. The second reason I don't like this article is because this guy is attempting to go all 'thought police' on...his own brain. How ridiculous.

Then he gets taken down at Jezebel.

Then some cunt has his balls in her teeth over at the NYMag.

Which forces him to explain himself ("It was a JOKE!!!"). Oh Jeeesus.

I hope it'll instill dread & doubt in manginas all over the world.