My general maxim with girls is 'make your intentions known' ... in other words, if your sexually interested in them, make that clear from the get go...
Even though the general advice on this forum is escalate as quickly as possible, I've noticed most of my hookups come on round two three, and not the first date. This is partially do to being a normal human being with a busy life, and partially living in a city that is somewhat small (150K).
I'm wondering about two points:
1) Is it really better to go for the kill on the first encounter/date, or should the goal here be to come off as interesting, cool, and physically attractive... and also aloof. Why give the girl the instant gratification of trying to hook up with her? Stepping back from full throttle and making the girl wonder how she came off, and then rewarding her a few days later with another invite to join your company.
2) Per topic of the thread.. how do handle girls that put out the conservative, sexually uptight vibe. I've found it true that even the most straight laced boring chicks are freaks when you get them in bed... but the process I'm pretty sure is different.
From my experience/knowledge of the world, there are girls out there that: a) haven't slept with that many guys. b) sleep with guys that on some level they imagine marryring/procreating with, and likewise may (but not always) be turned off by guys who give off a player type vibe/go for sex before the girl is emotionally there.
Thoughts?
Even though the general advice on this forum is escalate as quickly as possible, I've noticed most of my hookups come on round two three, and not the first date. This is partially do to being a normal human being with a busy life, and partially living in a city that is somewhat small (150K).
I'm wondering about two points:
1) Is it really better to go for the kill on the first encounter/date, or should the goal here be to come off as interesting, cool, and physically attractive... and also aloof. Why give the girl the instant gratification of trying to hook up with her? Stepping back from full throttle and making the girl wonder how she came off, and then rewarding her a few days later with another invite to join your company.
2) Per topic of the thread.. how do handle girls that put out the conservative, sexually uptight vibe. I've found it true that even the most straight laced boring chicks are freaks when you get them in bed... but the process I'm pretty sure is different.
From my experience/knowledge of the world, there are girls out there that: a) haven't slept with that many guys. b) sleep with guys that on some level they imagine marryring/procreating with, and likewise may (but not always) be turned off by guys who give off a player type vibe/go for sex before the girl is emotionally there.
Thoughts?