[brosenthal91]

The majority of black men in Europe are African immigrants, and based on my experiences in Europe, I don't think that women are attracted to these guys. However, if your a good looking black guy, have style, game etc. I'd imagine in some parts of Europe (e.g. Scandinavia), you would do great. The reason being, as previously stated in this thread, is that many European girls are into hip hop culture and also like the appeal of black guys being exotic.

One thing that I find kind of sad is the fact that many women will date/hookup with a black guy simply because he is black. On the surface this may seem like a good thing for black guys, however, I feel that it is very insulting to them. I mean, if I was black and a chick liked me solely for the color of my skin, I would be insulted that she could care less what kind of a person I am.

[Global Baller]

(07-24-2010 04:29 PM)brosenthal91 Wrote:  

One thing that I find kind of sad is the fact that many women will date/hookup with a black guy simply because he is black. On the surface this may seem like a good thing for black guys, however, I feel that it is very insulting to them. I mean, if I was black and a chick liked me solely for the color of my skin, I would be insulted that she could care less what kind of a person I am.

It depends on what the brotha is looking for. If it's a long-term relationship...then it should go way beyond skin color, and be about the person.

On the other hand, if a brotha is just out to play the numbers game...then, the fact that his skin color gives him an edge ain't a bad thang. Look -- there's a lot a of comp out there for the hottest chicks, and whatever gives an individual the edge -- in my opinion -- he should feel blessed.

[playa_with_a_passport]

Back on topic, I have never really been interested in going to scandinavia because enough of them come thru NYC, I never seen the need. But with Global baller's reports I might have to checked it out. It reminds me of the tales my buddies who were stationed in the Army in Germany used to tell me about German chicks. Even if only half the shit they told me was true, Germany must be an amazing place to live. I once banged a German au pair in NY and she told me that she didn't like telling Black guys she wasn't attracted to that she was German because they automatically assumed she was a black cock loving slut(She was, LOL) If you are in NY during June, there's actually a Swedish mid summer festival with tons of Scandi cuties. Its easier to find them online though and trust me on this, don't tease them by telling them they look Russian. For some reason they have a deep seated hatred towards Russians. Sexuality wise, I don't find them any different from other Northern European chicks I banged who are into everything except fisting and Golden showers.. I know, I know.... I am a Perv but with Game. They do like it raw, but then again so does every other chick out there.

P.S. @Brosental, White guys have been getting ass all around the world ONLY because of the color of their skin for decades.

[Global Baller]

(07-24-2010 05:28 PM)playa_with_a_passport Wrote:  

White guys have been getting ass all around the world ONLY because of the color of their skin for decades.

Tru dat. Particularly, Asia.

[ManAbout]

(07-24-2010 02:42 PM)Global Baller Wrote:  

(07-24-2010 04:42 AM)Quasi Wrote:  

I personally know alot of scandi women that never would be with a black guy, not talking latino or arabian but black black

Tru dat...but, I don't need to bang every chick in Scandinavia. However, I smash more than my share

I think this is an important point not just for Black guys but for anybody. There are a lot of girls out there who would never be with an Indian/Asian/Bald/Older/Any Other Adjective etc. But, there are enough girls out there who would, you can't bang everybody. As long as you bang your fair share, that is what matters.

[beebopaloo]

Come on, guys. An analysis based on race is too simple. Well, it is true that to a certain extent it might be better to have blue eyes in Brazil and pink eyes somewhere else, but that is just due to the fact that girls are attracted to 'high value'. 9 out of 10, a girl will chose a guy who is high value in her society and is able to make her feel comfortable. That is the reason cold approaches are harder than knowing a girl from school or work. She doesn't know how much of a high value guy you are, but once she realizes, it is piece of cake.

I guess girls in Scandinavia aren't negative about hooking up with a 'brotha', but is is not like they are fantasizing about it either. It is more like 'wow, here we have an interesting dude, let's see what he's got to offer', and if you are able to keep a good interaction going for more than 10 minutes you're probably way further than half the way.

Women aren't very much like guys. I can dig a woman solely based on race (I prefer a fine mulatta or asian!), a BMI less than 20 and a symmetrical face. But girls don't have the same ability.

In Scandinavia you don't have TOO (and I say 'too', because still there is some...) much stigma associated with who you are hooking up with, so girls can feel free to choose whatever guy they like. In my opinion it ought to be like that everywhere in the world, but I am afraid it is not. I guess the bottom line is that if you go to Scandinavia and you are a cool dude, you can have a very good time and meet some nice chicks. Skin color doesn't have very much to do with that.

[brosenthal91]

(07-24-2010 05:07 PM)Global Baller Wrote:  

(07-24-2010 04:29 PM)brosenthal91 Wrote:  

One thing that I find kind of sad is the fact that many women will date/hookup with a black guy simply because he is black. On the surface this may seem like a good thing for black guys, however, I feel that it is very insulting to them. I mean, if I was black and a chick liked me solely for the color of my skin, I would be insulted that she could care less what kind of a person I am.

It depends on what the brotha is looking for. If it's a long-term relationship...then it should go way beyond skin color, and be about the person.

On the other hand, if a brotha is just out to play the numbers game...then, the fact that his skin color gives him an edge ain't a bad thang. Look -- there's a lot a of comp out there for the hottest chicks, and whatever gives an individual the edge -- in my opinion -- he should feel blessed.

True true. When it comes to a long term relationship, race is definitely not the most important factor.

And @ playa, I guess I am being hypocritical; the color of ones skin can be very appealing to certain people as it gives of this kind of exotic vibe.

[speakeasy]

(07-24-2010 04:29 PM)brosenthal91 Wrote:  

One thing that I find kind of sad is the fact that many women will date/hookup with a black guy simply because he is black. On the surface this may seem like a good thing for black guys, however, I feel that it is very insulting to them. I mean, if I was black and a chick liked me solely for the color of my skin, I would be insulted that she could care less what kind of a person I am.

Insulted? Hell no. That's a nice problem to have! Hey I only wish Colombian and Brazilian girls were throwing themselves at me left and right just because they want some black shaft. You won't see me complaining.

[MiXX]

(07-24-2010 11:56 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  

(07-24-2010 04:29 PM)brosenthal91 Wrote:  

One thing that I find kind of sad is the fact that many women will date/hookup with a black guy simply because he is black. On the surface this may seem like a good thing for black guys, however, I feel that it is very insulting to them. I mean, if I was black and a chick liked me solely for the color of my skin, I would be insulted that she could care less what kind of a person I am.

Insulted? Hell no. That's a nice problem to have! Hey I only wish Colombian and Brazilian girls were throwing themselves at me left and right just because they want some black shaft. You won't see me complaining.

True. True. We don't get to pick what race we are born, but we do get to pick what race works best for us to integrate with to maximize reproduction potential.


I am born a latin man, but heck if I was born black, chinese, or white..Id be playing whatever card I am dealt.


As a Latin man, mid 30's, black hair, tan skin (not brown, but like a natural suntan) here is my best (and worst) stats:

I find out top 10 of the best countries/cities (in order of most attention, with Little to ZERO effort or game required from me as a latino) like:

1. Small Town USA! - That's right - I go to places like: CO, MN, or OK or Wyoming and Idaho and I clean house on every blonde college girl and soccer mom I meet! It's very rare these women get to see a trendy, clean-cut, educated and well-dressed latino from Miami. They are used to Mexicans who look like they just crossed the Rio Grande. So, when they see me, I just smile, say hi and approach - we are banging by nights end. However, places like MIA, TX or LA I have to pull out my A-game since there is a huge pipeline of latins to go around.

2. Canada - especially Ottawa, and place like Alberta.

3. Scandinavian/EE countries..I've dated lots of girls from Latvia, Bulgaria and France.

4. Colombia - (I have to make sure I clarify to girls that I am NOT Colombian)

5. I just found out about Israel - I have facebook gamed a few girls and most instantly respond the minute they see I am a Latin guy from MIami.

6. Argentina - women here LOVE my accent in spanish..they speak a lot different than I do - and it gets me laid!

7. Dominican Republic - I am considered "upper-class" latino as I have light skin, good hair and speak English...go figure - it gets me laid.

8. Spain - they LOVE suntan skin latinos form other countries!

9. New York City - hell New York girls LOVE to fuck and have a good time, and be gamed by confident men - they really have fun, and enjoy being chased and courted - and reward those bold enough to show their A-game!

10. Phillipines....this was spanish ruled for a long time...and women enjoy getting a notch on their belt for an authentic latino.

Now, Places I do worst - and have to struggle because I am just not sought after - so, I avoid.

1 - Brazil in general- Rio de Janeiro/Sao Paulo - I did not get laid here ONCE with anything above a 5! And I only banged 2 girls in a 6 month period! Latinos are not a novelty in Rio, and having suntan skin with black hair means nothing! Brothas may have the same issue unless of course you are an American hip-hop star that is well known like Ja-Rule or Snoop. Keep in mind I am not speaking about P4P girls...only non-pros. I did very well in Brasilia however!

2. Puerto Rico - Unless you are Puerto Rican too, they usually only go for white, or blacks....if you're latin from another country....it's not a big deal, and has no social value. However, I do really well with Puerto Rican girls from New York...of course, I was raised there and know how to game them.

3. Mexico - same shit....unless I walk around in a custom suit to go grab a cup of coffee, I am considered another poor spic with no social value - result - no bangs.

4. Panama, Peru, Ecuador, Cuba - I have to constantly prove I am high-class and not another poor bastard trying to make it to the promised land.

So, there you have it - My best and Worst countries based on my own race....play the cards you're dealt and have a good time

So, I stick to mostly white suburbia for highest success rates.

Anyone else recommend places a suntan skin, black wavy hair latinos may do well just on race alone?

Mixx

[Badstuber]

Quote:

black hair, tan skin (not brown, but like a natural suntan)

Same as me, lol.

[ManAbout]

(07-25-2010 09:22 AM)MiXXmaster27 Wrote:  

2. Canada - especially Ottawa, and place like Alberta.

Anyone else recommend places a suntan skin, black wavy hair latinos may do well just on race alone?

Mixx

I think you would kill in Toronto as well. We have a well established Latin scene, salsa dance clubs and all. But, Toronto is not over run with Latin guys. There is a large Italian population. Very large. Girls here love the Italian looking guys. But, as a Spanish speaker you would immediately stand out. You would do very well at the bars in Little Italy on College Street as well as at the Salsa clubs.

[InternationalSwagger]

Norway is dope having a homecooked meal prepared as I type this message. Tons of beautiful women walking around very friendly in the streets and the clubs. Haven't had time to holla at other chicks because I'm banging the one I'm staying with but man it's some real chill nonchalant women here with no attitude. Very sophisticated and educated it's extremely expensive here!

[brosenthal91]

(07-25-2010 12:36 PM)InternationalSwagger Wrote:  

Norway is dope having a homecooked meal prepared as I type this message. Tons of beautiful women walking around very friendly in the streets and the clubs. Haven't had time to holla at other chicks because I'm banging the one I'm staying with but man it's some real chill nonchalant women here with no attitude. Very sophisticated and educated it's extremely expensive here!

What are some cool cities to check out in Norway besides Oslo?

[Luckystar]

(07-25-2010 12:47 PM)brosenthal91 Wrote:  

(07-25-2010 12:36 PM)InternationalSwagger Wrote:  

Norway is dope having a homecooked meal prepared as I type this message. Tons of beautiful women walking around very friendly in the streets and the clubs. Haven't had time to holla at other chicks because I'm banging the one I'm staying with but man it's some real chill nonchalant women here with no attitude. Very sophisticated and educated it's extremely expensive here!

What are some cool cities to check out in Norway besides Oslo?

Bergen - second biggest city

Trondheim - big university town

[Global Baller]

InternationalSwagger is a brotha. He just reinforced what I have been posting about Scandinavia. Nordic women are #1 for brothas.

[Badstuber]

because their fathers told them not to get along with black people. now they are doing the opposites. same with racist fathers all over the world btw.

[Global Baller]

(07-25-2010 02:43 PM)Badstuber Wrote:  

because their fathers told them not to get along with black people. now they are doing the opposites. same with racist fathers all over the world btw.

[Caramel Communist]

(07-25-2010 02:43 PM)Badstuber Wrote:  

because their fathers told them not to get along with black people. now they are doing the opposites. same with racist fathers all over the world btw.

Haha.....there is some truth to that...rebellion. This athletic trainer I kick it with in DC, her parents ain't but a stone's throw away from joining the KKK....She's white-Italian. I can not wait to go home with her for the holidays....

[Rocco81]

Yeah the whole dynamic of racial stratification in dating is huge. It certainly cannot be summed up by some horny dudes on a game forum with any true accuracy (myself included) ...though what is brought here is pretty telling in people's opinions of things.

Many times people see what they want to believe. In this case as someone stated, if you are black in Sweden you will probably meet women, of course to someone who wants to see it one way, will view that 1 in 20 Swedish women that wants him simply because he is black as ALL Swedish women want him because he is black. This is his reality and its not really innacurrate for his particular viewpoint because ALL of the ones approaching him on the street and talking to him online, do want him probably for that reason. Chances are he will never see or here from the other 19 that do not care to meet him. This is his nitch, they are looking for him and he for them. Same could be said of a different group of women who like blue eyes, very tall guys, Asian guys whatever. Then you have the % of women no matter what country who really are open minded. They might find you cute of friendly or interesting (game) regardless if you are mixed, white, black etc. Most women really don't have a physical preference as much as men do ..(you got to remember that even the horniest of girls usually aren't sitting around fantasizing of one particular kind of dude and juts waiting to fulfill their desire like we do...compare that to guys and our nitches of porn Asian, thick, thin, teen, white , black , Latin...etc)

Of course looking different gains attention. Its a novelty and its great for going and meeting new people, getting laid and having fun. However like we are discovering here the novelty wears away very quickly. For the white boy traveler in Colombia, he is now charged different prices, assumed to be a sex and/or drug tourist, and really people want his cash more than anything. The Colombian girls are becoming more and more wise to this game and play it well. Medellin is full of partiers and sex tourists (also there is a good amount of normal travelers dudes too) ... same with black men in Sweden or other Parts of Europe. Time goes on and you're less unique. They realize you are not all 50 cent, you don't all play pro basketball, and the rest of the internet rumors are bunk etc..(these are the things that young Euro girls see as urban and cool and the same things that strike up the interest) Same as Colombian women assuming all white boys from the US are well educated and wealthy. Its BS.

[MiXX]

The educated women of Colombia who are well traveled do not even look at white boys or any foreigner. I've always said that women who are top tier models, and have a 3,000USD/month condo in Poblado would not be caught dead with a gringo - unless he was famous, or was part of her tight social circle, but that's another story. I am going to assume the same can be viewed in any country.

Just like an educated Colombian can go down to trailer park America and be viewed as higher value by the white girls that live there.

Now, can we please get back on topic and discuss Scandi women, and how to bang 'em?

Mixx

[Rocco81]

*You're right Mixx...a Rich or super high status girl in pretty much any country are almost always paired up with other rich socialites of that same country. Family ties, social circles etc. always have a long list of dudes waiting to see these chicks. I did date one high status Colombiana living here (she was some sort of Engineer and had $$ too) but she sucked in just about every area you can imagine ,except her looks...she was fine, but no personality, not caliente , nothing, just boredom.

Back to the point: I gamed 2 Finnish girls off the bat when I was there in June. I also passed one of to my friend after I was done, and her friend (too young for me) was in the room while both of us did our thing (different times) Its not really hard at all Mixx. Its just a different dynamic. I found the same with German girls too. They like you they tell you. Its not odd to have them finish a drink or two and walk home with you. On the same token if they don't like you, they don't really beat around the bush, as you won't be getting a curtousy smile or anything like with American or Latin women. If you are gaming a chick here and she isn't interested, she may giggle or smile and politely decline. Over there I def. go the "Im not ammused, could you shut the F up.." look a couple times and I was only bieng friendly/joking. You got to be careful about this too, it can easily get you caught up and put you in funk.

[Global Baller]

(07-25-2010 06:37 PM)Caramel Communist Wrote:  

(07-25-2010 02:43 PM)Badstuber Wrote:  

because their fathers told them not to get along with black people. now they are doing the opposites. same with racist fathers all over the world btw.

Haha.....there is some truth to that...rebellion. This athletic trainer I kick it with in DC, her parents ain't but a stone's throw away from joining the KKK....She's white-Italian. I can not wait to go home with her for the holidays....

This thread is about Scandinavian women. I seriously doubt that parents in Sweden, Norway or Denmark are telling their daughters not to date/marry Black guys.

[kindredspirit]

(07-26-2010 08:29 AM)Rocco81 Wrote:  

Yeah the whole dynamic of racial stratification in dating is huge. It certainly cannot be summed up by some horny dudes on a game forum with any true accuracy (myself included) ...though what is brought here is pretty telling in people's opinions of things.

Many times people see what they want to believe. In this case as someone stated, if you are black in Sweden you will probably meet women, of course to someone who wants to see it one way, will view that 1 in 20 Swedish women that wants him simply because he is black as ALL Swedish women want him because he is black. This is his reality and its not really innacurrate for his particular viewpoint because ALL of the ones approaching him on the street and talking to him online, do want him probably for that reason. Chances are he will never see or here from the other 19 that do not care to meet him. This is his nitch, they are looking for him and he for them. Same could be said of a different group of women who like blue eyes, very tall guys, Asian guys whatever. Then you have the % of women no matter what country who really are open minded. They might find you cute of friendly or interesting (game) regardless if you are mixed, white, black etc. Most women really don't have a physical preference as much as men do ..(you got to remember that even the horniest of girls usually aren't sitting around fantasizing of one particular kind of dude and juts waiting to fulfill their desire like we do...compare that to guys and our nitches of porn Asian, thick, thin, teen, white , black , Latin...etc)

Of course looking different gains attention. Its a novelty and its great for going and meeting new people, getting laid and having fun. However like we are discovering here the novelty wears away very quickly. For the white boy traveler in Colombia, he is now charged different prices, assumed to be a sex and/or drug tourist, and really people want his cash more than anything. The Colombian girls are becoming more and more wise to this game and play it well. Medellin is full of partiers and sex tourists (also there is a good amount of normal travelers dudes too) ... same with black men in Sweden or other Parts of Europe. Time goes on and you're less unique. They realize you are not all 50 cent, you don't all play pro basketball, and the rest of the internet rumors are bunk etc..(these are the things that young Euro girls see as urban and cool and the same things that strike up the interest) Same as Colombian women assuming all white boys from the US are well educated and wealthy. Its BS.

Best post in this thread so far. Agree 100%.

[Caramel Communist]

(07-26-2010 12:14 PM)Global Baller Wrote:  

(07-25-2010 06:37 PM)Caramel Communist Wrote:  

(07-25-2010 02:43 PM)Badstuber Wrote:  

because their fathers told them not to get along with black people. now they are doing the opposites. same with racist fathers all over the world btw.

Haha.....there is some truth to that...rebellion. This athletic trainer I kick it with in DC, her parents ain't but a stone's throw away from joining the KKK....She's white-Italian. I can not wait to go home with her for the holidays....

This thread is about Scandinavian women. I seriously doubt that parents in Sweden, Norway or Denmark are telling their daughters not to date/marry Black guys.

sorry for the thread derailment, Global...I agree I doubt nordics are teaching that like they do in the U.S......

[Luckystar]

(07-26-2010 11:08 AM)Rocco81 Wrote:  

*You're right Mixx...a Rich or super high status girl in pretty much any country are almost always paired up with other rich socialites of that same country. Family ties, social circles etc. always have a long list of dudes waiting to see these chicks. I did date one high status Colombiana living here (she was some sort of Engineer and had $$ too) but she sucked in just about every area you can imagine ,except her looks...she was fine, but no personality, not caliente , nothing, just boredom.

Back to the point: I gamed 2 Finnish girls off the bat when I was there in June. I also passed one of to my friend after I was done, and her friend (too young for me) was in the room while both of us did our thing (different times) Its not really hard at all Mixx. Its just a different dynamic. I found the same with German girls too. They like you they tell you. Its not odd to have them finish a drink or two and walk home with you. On the same token if they don't like you, they don't really beat around the bush, as you won't be getting a curtousy smile or anything like with American or Latin women. If you are gaming a chick here and she isn't interested, she may giggle or smile and politely decline. Over there I def. go the "Im not ammused, could you shut the F up.." look a couple times and I was only bieng friendly/joking. You got to be careful about this too, it can easily get you caught up and put you in funk.

Rocco, how was the quality of girls in Finland? Heard its a bit substandard compared to the rest of the Nords.