[jariel]

Quote:

- 1 in 3 said infidelity helped boost their marital sex life
- 73.1% of unfaithful women feel neglected by their husbands
- An affair makes it easier to stay in marriage say 57%

For most of us, an affair is the sign of a relationship that's faltering. But according to a new poll, a shocking one in three women say that having an extramarital fling can actually help keep their marriage alive.

Of those who do have affairs, 73 per cent said that they do because they feel neglected by their spouse or partner.

Among the women who said that neglect was the reason for their infidelity, many also cited not having their emotional needs met - a factor that played a significant role in their decision to find someone else.

'This is no surprise,' says Noel Biderman, founder of dating site ashleymadison.com. 'Many women lack attention and affection and it’s miserable to feel lonely within your own marriage.

'The reality is that many people can’t leave their partners for financial reasons and women in particular are usually reluctant to sacrifice their family life.

'So they are taking care of their needs outside marriage. They’re stepping into the male arena when it comes to infidelity.'

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However, for these women, it would seem that some good does come out of having an affair: 32 per cent said that cheating gave their sexual relationship with their spouse a boost.

'Men typically reach their sexual peak in their 20s. For women it is later, in their 30s or 40s when they feel more comfortable with their bodies,' added Biderman.

'This discrepancy is one reason for the lack of sex that these women are feeling. Everyone wants to be desired, who can blame these women for looking elsewhere?'

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[Cincinnatus]

[Hannibal]

Hahahaha

where are they getting this "sexual peak" bullshit?

When I read "women hitting their sexual peak", I didn't think "women hitting the wall".

[JimNortonFan]

This just in:

Men are:

Dicks
Wallets
Bank accounts
Insurance policies
Shoulders to cry on
Social positions
Houses
Cars
23 chromosomes

Take your pick from the above, but just remember, you're not a person, not to them.

[soup]

I've heard this from girls:

"An affair can help spice things up"

The only thing it's spicing up is her husband's mouth with another man's sperm... probably my sperm

[Therapsid]

All of those survey statistics amount to one thing - women following their evolutionary impulse to become impregnated with an alpha male and retaining their (beta) mate to raise his offspring.

90% of bird species were long thought to forge lifelong pairs... until scientists in the 1980's used then new genetic tests to reveal that anywhere from 10-70% of the eggs in the nests of bird pairs were sired by other males in extra-pair copulations. In other words, most female birds cheat.

[BLarsen]

if I went and replaced "men" for every instance of "women" I think many of you would agree with this article.

I say, don't get married, Fuck whoever you want, let her Fuck whoever she wants.

[Timoteo]

Actually BLarsen, many men that cheat will tell you that the side action helps them deal with what they face when they go home. That yes, the affair actually helps them stay married. Sometimes it actually DOES spice up the sex life with the spouse, but it can also work the other way - she'll suspect he's cheating because all of a sudden he's trying to do things sexually that he never tried before. There also the other clues - your spouse starts caring more about appearance, etc.

A minority of marriage counselors advise couples to NEVER confess infidelity. If you want to fix the marriage, focus on how to fix it, but don't confess to anything. Usually female counselors demand that the party that engaged in infidelity (they usually focus on men being the guilty party) confess, with all the details, then hand their balls over on a platter to "earn" back trust. Which is impossible. Confessing only leads to more questions about details, which in turn creates even MORE pain and makes it that much more likely that you can't rebound from it. Personally, I know married guys that have fucked around to be able to endure their marriages. They all still ended up divorced, but they were able to delay the end until they were ready to make the move.

[Double Salad]

intergalactic hamster

[kosko]

The Man will still go home and be a husband even if he is getting some tail on the side. He will still provide for his wife and family even if he does not really want to fuck his wife that often because she is a raspy old cunt. But on the flip the female going outside for some stuff on the side won't due her duties of nurturing her husband the same way as she would not feel compelled to do so if her husband was a worthy male in the first place.

The sexual peak shit is bullshit and just a trick to scam women in their best money making years. No 40 year old women is having more sex then a ripe 20 year old undergrad. You know its a scam because they offer lifestyles and products to these supposedly "peaking" women. Swingers clubs live of wealthy couples whom are willing to pay 3000$ a year to become members. They delude the 'confident' raspy women whom is 42 that she is liberated and in her right to plop down mad cash to fuck other women's husbands, but its all a scam. Because The tight 20 year old can fuck that women's husband too... for free.

If women sexually peak at 42 why do their pussies turn into sandpaper more and more as they age. Wouldn't there parts get better with age? When a man's erections, horyness, energy are at its highest he is in his prime.

Like I said in another thread once you can smell and see when a lady is 'ripe' she glows like hell and everything just looks hot, tight and nice.


Whom is more in their prime?




OR:

[BLarsen]

(05-07-2013 09:07 PM)kosko Wrote:  

The sexual peak shit is bullshit and just a trick to scam women in their best money making years. No 40 year old women is having more sex then a ripe 20 year old undergrad. You know its a scam because they offer lifestyles and products to these supposedly "peaking" women. Swingers clubs live of wealthy couples whom are willing to pay 3000$ a year to become members. They delude the 'confident' raspy women whom is 42 that she is liberated and in her right to plop down mad cash to fuck other women's husbands, but its all a scam. Because The tight 20 year old can fuck that women's husband too... for free.

If women sexually peak at 42 why do their pussies turn into sandpaper more and more as they age. Wouldn't there parts get better with age? When a man's erections, horyness, energy are at its highest he is in his prime.

Sexual "prime" is a fancy term for "When chicks are horniest", not when they're the most attractive. Female sexual prime is thought to be a biological "last gasp" to have babies before a woman becomes infertile.

[Timoteo]

Yeah...that sexual prime nonsense is also about women supposedly knowing what they want sexually, and being more comfortable with their bodies.

As for men, if they focused on staying fit, eating right and taking certain vitamins/supplements, they could stay strong sexually for much longer. Women often lose desire as they get older, while men on the average keep desire, but can't match the desire physically/physiologically. Dudes in the old folks home are still trying to feel up nurses, but couldn't do anything with it if they got the chance...HA HA!

[Kabal]

I actually agree with the PC-feminists on the woman's sexual prime thing...

...if one defines sexual prime as sexual easiness.

It's no coincidence that a woman's "sexual prime" is at an age right before menopause, when she is least able to command a man's investment, when it's hurry-up-offense-two-minute-drill for her to get a last dicking before she gets cast out to the sexual gulags.

I banged an older Colombian girl a few years back when I was in Bogota; sweet, smart girl. I feel saddened now that I see her post-wall Facebook pics on my newsfeed once in awhile. However, I also feel slightly giddy--like I sold off all my shares of MSFT right before the Tech bubble burst.

[Mage]

This is no hamster, it is true. Having an affair really makes it easier to tolerate the groveling of the beta hubby at home. Squeezing money from beta providers is a full time job on a second shift and a retreat to an exciting alfa male is necessary to do not burn out in this job.

[gamepadawan]

I don't feel bad for these guys at all, go to an infidelity forum and see what these guys put up with.. Most of them are such pussies that they take their wives back and still act like beta dorks. But don't think that these women's affair partners are any better. A good chunk of them are on their knees begging their wives not to leave them. Not all of them are alpha bad boys, some of them are just losers looking to get laid. I think Tuth has it right, he's not married, he fucks these women, and doesn't spend a cent on them.

[Quintus Flaminius]

Wait, if it's OK for neglected women to cheat on their husbands, then why is it not OK for your average Beta husband, that isn't getting laid(trust me, the sex stops immediately after marriage) at home, to hire a younger escort, what about that?
I'd want them to hamsterize this one.

[Tuthmosis]

Saying women are at their sexual peak in their 40s is like saying men's game is the tightest after last call.

[Quintus Flaminius]

(05-08-2013 02:08 AM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

Saying women are at their sexual peak in their 40s is like saying men's game is the tightest after last call.

Seriously?
They really are that desparate, aren't they?
I'm pretty sure a Sex in the city carousel rider is more experienced than her younger counterparts, but who'd wanna fuck them?
I'm pretty sure that a nerdy male feminist that loves reading books is more likely to get laid than these broads.

[Lemmo]

File this under: women will unconsciously justify to themselves anything that they want to do and anything that they perceive as being in their interest.

[jctennis123]

(05-07-2013 07:37 PM)BLarsen Wrote:  

if I went and replaced "men" for every instance of "women" I think many of you would agree with this article.

I say, don't get married, Fuck whoever you want, let her Fuck whoever she wants.

preach it brother

[Power_Ranger]

(05-07-2013 06:20 PM)soup Wrote:  

I've heard this from girls:

"An affair can help spice things up"

The only thing it's spicing up is her husband's mouth with another man's sperm... probably my sperm

And she probably garnished yours with Jim's seed from the DIY store.

[Monte Cassino]

"Women Believe Having Affairs Can Save Their Marriage." That's today's reason. Tomorrow it will be something else. They can rationalize anything that they do because they have no code. They need men to guide them correctly or they go feral.

[Veloce]

(05-08-2013 12:25 AM)gamepadawan Wrote:  

I don't feel bad for these guys at all, go to an infidelity forum and see what these guys put up with.. Most of them are such pussies that they take their wives back and still act like beta dorks. But don't think that these women's affair partners are any better. A good chunk of them are on their knees begging their wives not to leave them. Not all of them are alpha bad boys, some of them are just losers looking to get laid. I think Tuth has it right, he's not married, he fucks these women, and doesn't spend a cent on them.

Total agreement here. I'm a firm believer in "All's fair in love and war".

Too many guys see marriage as an escape from "playing games". That marriage is something secure and reliable. So they stop trying.

Of course, once you've been with enough women, you realize that they're ALL a complete pain in the ass. They're all high maintenance. It cracks me when women say, "I'm totally not high maintenance". These are girls that wear baggy jeans and converse. They think high maintenance means being a trophy wife that spends $5000 a week on hair, makeup, and clothing.

That ain't shit. If I was rich, I'd MUCH rather spend money on a bitch and have her be financially high maintenance if it meant she was emotionally stable and not annoying. Of course that's likely never the case.

High maintenance means ATTENTION-maintenance. Giving your girl enough attention. 100% of women are emotionally high maintenance, and most men aren't equipped to deal with that. The ones that are equipped to deal with women are highly unlikely to commit to just one.

[Norset]

Well.. humans aren't wired to be with the same partner for more than 4-5 years. Saying lifelong monogamy is natural is also a form of hamsterbation.

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

(05-09-2013 01:53 AM)Norset Wrote:  

Well.. humans aren't wired to be with the same partner for more than 4-5 years. Saying lifelong monogamy is natural is also a form of hamsterbation.

There is a difference between natural and beneficial.

It's no coincidence that all great civilizations were based on monogamy, even though it wasn't natural.