[texaschili]

You are not the only guy out there that deals with this bullshit. I forged a wonderful connection with a girl last sat night and she flaked on me...I just deleted her # and moved on. Today is already Thursday and I'm over it and I'm gonna work to get new girls tonite and so on.

Delete the # and move on. It is bizarre how many #s I end up deleting from my phone but I'm only average at gaming.

[Giovonny]

(06-30-2010 02:11 AM)Willy Wonka Wrote:  

(06-30-2010 12:57 AM)Nonpareil Wrote:  

the numbers game is the only way to negate flaking:

- You get twenty numbers in a given month.
- Ten girls will take your call.
- Five girls will agree to a date.
- Two girls will actually show up.
- You'll bang one.

It's all an upside-down pyramid scheme.

The sad thing is, those are basically my exact numbers right about now.... lol


That's the shit that annoys me.

Sad? Annoying? Your getting 20 numbers a month and banging a new chick every 30 days. What is so sad? 90% of the guys on this forum would love to have those stats. You are doing really well. Just because half the girls you meet flake on you doesn't mean there is anything wrong with them. You are a stranger. Do you really expect girls to just go and hang out with a guy they don't even know.

I say, if a girl does not want to see you, it is your problem. not theirs. You gotta build attraction and trust. If you don't do that, she will have no desire to see you. Your supposed to make her want you. Thats what this shit is all about. Calling girls you don't know and asking for dates is weak game. Call them, get them laughing, gently tease each other, find some common interests, get her to suggest or hint that you guys should hang out. Thats Game.

Saying she "flaked on me" is just a weak way of saying, "she didn't want to see me".

It means she has a better option.