[Nonpareil]

I'm sure we can all relate to this; have you ever noticed that your friend who thinks that every girl wants to fuck him (we've all got at least one) gets laid the least or gets the lowest quality?

I'm totally a realist; I know that if 10% of girls want to fuck me then its a good day.

I'm 'lucky' enough to have two buddies who are like that; one I've never seen with anything higher than a 6 that he invariably ends up getting into LTRs with, and the other claims a body count of over 200 and he's always going on about 'these hot, crazy girls that he knows' but he hasn't once called me up like 'Yo Nonpareil, I'm at the bar with four chicks, come down!'.

It should follow that if every girl wanted to fuck you the last thing you should do is end up in a relationship, although this guy is a functional retard; he's the type of guy who at the gentleman's club goes on about 'this stripper fucking loves me man!' (he is not custom suited either).

Just like if you've banged over 200 girls, you should have a pretty stacked rolodex of girls wanting to hang out with you at all times. I'm not saying its your job to get me laid (I have gotten both of these guys laid before), but why are you telling me this shit and not delivering? It's infuriating.

I'm not trying to infer anything here; one of these guys I don't hang with anymore and I see the other about once a month so there's time, but I can smell the bullshit a mile away.

Having a positive attitude is important for game, but is being a little too positive actually chick repellant? I think girls are better at detecting bullshit than they're given credit for.

NP

[thegmanifesto]

There are a lot of fake players in The Game.

That is part of the reason I roll Dolo almost always.

[Mrs. Chocolate]

I had a friend like this too, who thinks that all men want to hump (sorry) her, and the ones who does not is because they are gay.
Insecure people.
I also know that even 00000000,1% of the men on Earth rated +7 would like to date her.

[Nonpareil]

(06-21-2010 05:49 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  

I had a friend like this too, who thinks that all men want to hump (sorry) her, and the ones who does not is because they are gay.
Insecure people.
I also know that even 00000000,1% of the men on Earth rated +7 would like to date her.

Well it is sort of different for girls than guys; if a girl is legitimately attractive (like an 8 or higher), than chances are pretty high that all guys (except the gay ones) do want to fuck her.

The inverse of the real question is what you touched on; all guys who are straight might want to fuck an 8+...but how many of those guys would stick around and date her?

[Giovonny]

65% of the people out there are fake. They lie to themselves and others on a regular basis.

[OGNorCal707]

(06-21-2010 06:08 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

65% of the people out there are fake. They lie to themselves and others on a regular basis.

Seems like a pretty precise percentage, but you're probably right for the most part.

[thegmanifesto]

(06-21-2010 06:51 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

(06-21-2010 06:08 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

65% of the people out there are fake. They lie to themselves and others on a regular basis.

Seems like a pretty precise percentage, but you're probably right for the most part.

Remember, 87.6% of all statistics are made up on the spot.

[Nonpareil]

Thanks everyone for the perspectives.

It seems to me that there's a negative correlation between how much a guy talks about girls and how often he gets laid. Don't get me wrong I love chicks and I love beating it up as much as the next man, but I have caught myself getting a little carried away with the talking. There are other things in life that are more interesting and more important to know than who's bed you woke up in this morning.

If you try to make getting laid your sole focus, you're going to let some bad game and desperation out with it. I can see how the attitude is essential to have (to a small degree), but really...see that blonde with the glasses over there that you say wants to fuck you? Why don't you go over and make it happen?

By far the most annyoing of the two is the second friend, Mr. 200. I have actually mentioned the first guy before, and he's a disloyal, ingrateful self-deluding little pussy...but I cut him after his histrionics so I can live with the knowledge that he's still out there, lying to himself on the daily.

Talking about how many girls you fuck is very dangerous if you aren't really fucking as many girls as you say you are, it makes you look weak, and if you're lying it means you are weak.

As I said, it's not your job to get me laid and my game is decent, we're like Lions here; normally I only have enough to feed myself, but if I kill an elephant and you're in the my pride, you're more than welcome to help yourself to the bounty. I've been with girls who had attractive, fun friends, and as long as I know one of my boys won't make an ass out of himself, I'll always try to get him an introduction.

There is a reason that I keep most of my dealings with women on the D-lo. If you're going on and on and on about the hot babe you're fucking and her six hot friends (who all want to fuck you, of course), don't be shocked when I say "Then why aren't we hanging with them right now? Call her, right now..."

...And don't be shocked when you don't come through with it (when I've helped you in the past) that you begin to notice I call you less and less.

65%? Everybody lies to themselves and others...some just do it more often and to greater degrees than others.

[AlphaQup2nite]

Dont talk about it. Its the simplest thing. I never quote out my numbers anymore, nor do i brag about girls i laid unless im out with a bunch of my guy friends and it turns into one of those story swap nights. Let it show from who you are. When i go out to events such as parties i always have a different chick, and i know half the chicks there, just go up and talk to them. That speaks more loudly and accurately anything else you could possibly say.

I personally dont hang out too often with guys who brag about notches. I mean really, if the guys you are with can only talk about chicks, that puts a damper on anything you might be able to pull off that night. The only time ill discuss my sex life with a chick in any detail is after ive already decided that i dont want to sleep with her, but shes cool enough to keep around. Instead just keep photos on your phone if you feel you need too. The more i play the game, the more i tend to insulate myself from talking about myself. I just let my actions, pictures, stories do the talking for me. Its much more laid back and it almost totally cuts out the trying too hard aspect out of the your game. I mean really, how can someone be trying so hard if its like pulling teeth to get much personal out of him? Those are the kinda guys i look to game with.

[Mrs. Chocolate]

(06-21-2010 06:03 PM)Nonpareil Wrote:  

(06-21-2010 05:49 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  

I had a friend like this too, who thinks that all men want to hump (sorry) her, and the ones who does not is because they are gay.
Insecure people.
I also know that even 00000000,1% of the men on Earth rated +7 would like to date her.

Well it is sort of different for girls than guys; if a girl is legitimately attractive (like an 8 or higher), than chances are pretty high that all guys (except the gay ones) do want to fuck her.

The inverse of the real question is what you touched on; all guys who are straight might want to fuck an 8+...but how many of those guys would stick around and date her?

Her body is awesome, but not much the face, I like her but sometimes she wants all the attention for herself. I'm not this kind of girl. I'm waaaay more on my thing.
I guess that due her attitude man wouldn't had a night stand. The thing is that she does not believe that a man would choose someone else besides her. See what I mean?

[beebopaloo]

(06-22-2010 11:47 AM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  

(06-21-2010 06:03 PM)Nonpareil Wrote:  

(06-21-2010 05:49 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  

I had a friend like this too, who thinks that all men want to hump (sorry) her, and the ones who does not is because they are gay.
Insecure people.
I also know that even 00000000,1% of the men on Earth rated +7 would like to date her.

Well it is sort of different for girls than guys; if a girl is legitimately attractive (like an 8 or higher), than chances are pretty high that all guys (except the gay ones) do want to fuck her.

The inverse of the real question is what you touched on; all guys who are straight might want to fuck an 8+...but how many of those guys would stick around and date her?

Her body is awesome, but not much the face, I like her but sometimes she wants all the attention for herself. I'm not this kind of girl. I'm waaaay more on my thing.
I guess that due her attitude man wouldn't had a night stand. The thing is that she does not believe that a man would choose someone else besides her. See what I mean?

What is her phone number?

[Tony Snow]

@ Nonpareil- your friend is obviously a Simp (urban dictionary it is also used by Pimp C from UGK the rap group)

-G Manifesto hits the nail on the head a lot of people think they have tighther game than they have and they overate the girls they get with.

[Giovonny]

(06-21-2010 07:20 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

(06-21-2010 06:51 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

(06-21-2010 06:08 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

65% of the people out there are fake. They lie to themselves and others on a regular basis.

Seems like a pretty precise percentage, but you're probably right for the most part.

Remember, 87.6% of all statistics are made up on the spot.

A few years ago, I was talking to a freind of my fathers. An old street smart dude from San Francisco.

He told 55% of guys are phonys. They talk a good game, but they are really full of shit.

He also told me 55% out of girls are sluts. They pretend they are not.

I have to agree with this. In fact, I think its worse nowadays because everyone worships fame and celebrity.

Thats why I say its more like 65%.

[OGNorCal707]

(06-22-2010 03:01 PM)Tony Snow Wrote:  

@ Nonpareil- your friend is obviously a Simp (urban dictionary it is also used by Pimp C from UGK the rap group)

-G Manifesto hits the nail on the head a lot of people think they have tighther game than they have and they overate the girls they get with.

Fuck yeah, nice screen name, UGK is the shit, "Dick Cheney, Tony Snow, the King Comitee is now in session." Pimp C, was the definition of a "boss player", RIP.

[IshGibbor]

(06-22-2010 02:21 AM)AlphaQup2nite Wrote:  

Dont talk about it. Its the simplest thing. I never quote out my numbers anymore, nor do i brag about girls i laid unless im out with a bunch of my guy friends and it turns into one of those story swap nights. Let it show from who you are. When i go out to events such as parties i always have a different chick, and i know half the chicks there, just go up and talk to them. That speaks more loudly and accurately anything else you could possibly say.

I personally dont hang out too often with guys who brag about notches. I mean really, if the guys you are with can only talk about chicks, that puts a damper on anything you might be able to pull off that night. The only time ill discuss my sex life with a chick in any detail is after ive already decided that i dont want to sleep with her, but shes cool enough to keep around. Instead just keep photos on your phone if you feel you need too. The more i play the game, the more i tend to insulate myself from talking about myself. I just let my actions, pictures, stories do the talking for me. Its much more laid back and it almost totally cuts out the trying too hard aspect out of the your game. I mean really, how can someone be trying so hard if its like pulling teeth to get much personal out of him? Those are the kinda guys i look to game with.

good job

[Mrs. Chocolate]

(06-22-2010 01:18 PM)beebopaloo Wrote:  

(06-22-2010 11:47 AM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  

(06-21-2010 06:03 PM)Nonpareil Wrote:  

(06-21-2010 05:49 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  

I had a friend like this too, who thinks that all men want to hump (sorry) her, and the ones who does not is because they are gay.
Insecure people.
I also know that even 00000000,1% of the men on Earth rated +7 would like to date her.

Well it is sort of different for girls than guys; if a girl is legitimately attractive (like an 8 or higher), than chances are pretty high that all guys (except the gay ones) do want to fuck her.

The inverse of the real question is what you touched on; all guys who are straight might want to fuck an 8+...but how many of those guys would stick around and date her?

Her body is awesome, but not much the face, I like her but sometimes she wants all the attention for herself. I'm not this kind of girl. I'm waaaay more on my thing.
I guess that due her attitude man wouldn't had a night stand. The thing is that she does not believe that a man would choose someone else besides her. See what I mean?

What is her phone number?

Hahaha... dude she is trouble. She is married to a police officer with two kids and ninfomaniac. Once she went to the beach by herself and friends and dated a man for the hole weekend and when she arrived at home had also sex with her husband. (=owwnnn I missed you... hahaha)

[Feo]

I'm probably the prime example of what you're talking about. I brag about pretty much every girl I get with to my buddies, usually because it was worth noting. I hear shit about it all the time, but I guess I'm just an ostentatious fuck.

But I totally know what you mean about buddies who talk a lot of shit with nothing to back it up. I only have 1 or 2 buddies that I can think of like that, but I keep those guys on the backburners until that one day when they are tired of lying to themselves and actually WANT to go out and get something going. I don't de-friend someone I was friends with, doesn't matter how much of a lying pussy he is.