Quote: (04-04-2013 01:26 AM)cardguy Wrote:
I think it is good that women are being honest with themselves about the sorts of guys they find attractive. Hopefully such self-awareness will help take responsibility for the fucked up relationships they scuttle in and out of. Racking up kids along the way.
And it is even better if men start to wise-up to this as well. The less deluded people in the world - the better.
Also - we have to be careful. Women shouldn't apologise for what turns them on. In the same way men shouldn't. I think we shouldn't hate or shame women for being honest about their feelings. The annoying thing is when their hamster tells people they want one thing, when clearly (by the way they act) they want the exact opposite.
True, it's healthy and natural for a woman to want a strong, decisive male. But it becomes perverse when women crave abusive or sociopathic types.
And the same for men. If a man starts placing too much emphasis on a woman's looks than on her personal qualities (supportive, feminine, sweet), then he'll be enslaved to beautiful, but poisonous and selfish women. This is definitely a beta quality: she's hot, so it's okay if she disrespects or uses me.
Yes, men value looks and women value bold masculinity. But men, mostly betas, need to learn to look beyond that in relationships. And women need to learn to go beyond their gina tingles for socipathic assholes. It's one thing to be attracted to brave, socially confident men, it's another to constantly seek out cheaters, abusers and criminals.
That's what we're doing here. We're growing and we know that bitches ain't getting our commitment. They're getting fucked by us and that's it. Most men don't think this way, it's sad but true. 50 years ago they did. But now everything's upside down thanks to feminism and it's beta enablers.
I'm just glad that some women are trying to be self-reflective about their base natures and realize their self-destructive folly.