Quote: (04-09-2013 11:00 PM)RawGod Wrote:
Kane, how long have you studied Chinese?
How would you recommend a guy go about getting the 8s and 9s with beginner Chinese? I would guess that the girls who speak English and go to clubs and online are generally 5s to 7s.
Ok here we go:
1.
I've learnt Chinese by myself by always talking to girls/people every day all the time.
Every time i buy some food, it's always from a Chinese person which presents me with an opportunity to practice my spoken Chinese.
My second month here i bought an electronic translator which i used to start sending and reading text messages in Chinese (the translations were pretty bad but it still helped me learn a lot as i could write the characters and it would teach me the stroke order).
2. Getting the higher level girls:
This depends on what you define as a '8,9,10'.
Some guys say someones 10 is another person 5, when i hear this i usually just think one of those people is deluding themselves....
I will post some photos of the girls i've gamed in the last 3 or 4 days and you can tell me what you think of them (i'm not overly fond of the number system but for the sake of answering your question we can use it).
Generally getting access to the best girls in China requires one of two things:
1. Good Game: Good language skills, easily conveyable value, good sarging logistics
Speaking Chinese well helps a lot because a lot of the high end girls don't need to learn English very well (Some do as it's important to the 'face' of the family or they want to live over seas so they can help their family immigrate, usually their English level would be a 5 out of 10 which is conversational with some bumps) as their life plan is to go to ktv, sing, eat, drink, wake up, go shopping, have some more delicious meals, take a rest and repeat.
Easily conveyable value: Get a job at a bar as a bar tender or ANYTHING.
Have a job in a real company instead of teaching English (being a manager or anything at a decent company is gonna help a lot).
Good sarging logistics i.e ACCESS TO THE GIRLS.
This is the hardest part as the hottest girls usually go to more private places, you can find them by running around the mall but it's not easy, there are also more 'upper class' shopping centres i should check out.
2. Social circle.
Most important thing is knowing people.
I would seriously suggest meeting people everywhere all the time and just becoming one big connection freak.
If you can make friends with the majority of people you meet you will stumble across a decent social circle eventually.
You could also go hit up Universities that have rich chicks:
I picked up a girl last night who is high class (very different from the majority of Chinese i meet - most are middle class) and you can tell the difference in how they look at the world, treat people and behave, these girls aren't very common though as most of the time they are surrounded by their social circles and are very very hard to get access too.
This girl last night is studying in a University that produces graduates destined for the entertainment industry (tv, movies ect ect ect)
She wants to be a director rather than a model or singer or actor simply because if you're a model, to climb the ladder you have to do it with your legs open (or have extremely mad connections....which is very hard to have).
She had an Iphone5 that had the pink enamel around it (custom made or limited edition or something) and told me a lot about herself which led me to understand her family is super super well off.
When i met her it was on the street at about 3am and she was crying, so i opened her, showed a lot of concern and stayed with her for like 4 hours, its a long story and the point here is this:
I could only get this girl because she had very recently had a foreign BF who she had just broken up with hours before she met me and she was alone and not with her friends who were inside the club (she'd gone outside to answer the phone), lastly because she was really friendly and outgoing whereas most girls of her status aren't super interested in foreigners (being with foreigners is a loss of face for a lot of high end Chinese, we have less money and we usually can't speak the language very well)
I would also suggest you go to bars that aren't the standard 'Chinese' clubs. (Shanghai: Zeal, Mint, Bar Rouge, Richy)
As at these clubs you usually find the richer people (anywhere with a cover charge).
So I've mentioned a bunch of different things that help you get higher end girls, if you aren't super great in one area then leverage the others as much as possible.
Pics in the next post.