Quote: (04-03-2013 09:09 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:
Quote: (04-03-2013 09:06 PM)slubu Wrote:
Ha, I thought batting 50% in Vegas was pretty high, but there are always some much better than I.
I should have made it more clear. 50% of course is real good. I was referring to this:
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most beasts goes to Vegas (blackout drunk 2x).
I thought Vegas quality would have been higher than other cities and you would have ranked the city higher. No judgement.
What is your Game Style?
And what are you mostly doing? Nightgame only? Online? Only Day? All?
No worries and no judgment taken. Sometimes however you just get so drunk you don't even remember what happened until you wake up with a condom on the floor... Some of my higher quality has come in Vegas too.
Some of the guys here have gone out with me. I'll dress up, more suits in the past year which has been very effective. I'll drink, head out and post up at a bar or smoking area, or table depending on venue. If it's Vegas I go direct a lot of times. Last time for example, I was pocket square/suited down. Girl walks by and looks at me:
Me: What's your name?
Her: ***, you're sexy.
Me: And you're cute. (Slam her against wall and make out with her)
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Fast forward a few hours and I bang her. She was a cutie too.
But I'm usually not that direct. It's usually casual opener, cocky/funny joking matters, pick fun at her, and escalate touching as fast as I can. I'm pretty quick with my mouth. I do drink a lot, and am not afraid to escalate the party by getting shots going and crazy shit like that. It may be my dichotomy, because most think I'm just a very innocent looking unassuming guy. Maybe it catches them off-guard. I had a date recently where the girl thought I would be very quiet and boring. Then she was happily surprised when I tried to bang her that next date.
I'd say 90% night game, this includes when abroad. I'm just too hungover during the day usually, working, or too lazy to get all dressed up and go hitting on girls during the day. I really want to though, as I think quality attainable is higher. But what do I know since I don't do it. The other 10% is online game but I've recently given up on that. It's not all that bad really though, banged a cute 20yo for a while off okcupid here in LA. And it's more effective in other countries, like Ukraine for example. It was useless in Colombia for me at least.
Quote: (04-03-2013 09:15 PM)Merenguero Wrote:
Quote: (04-03-2013 08:51 PM)slubu Wrote:
G, if you want a comparison here it is:
Of my 10 nights in Ukraine, I banged 3 girls and got a BJ from a 4th.
Of my 10 nights in NYC, I banged 3 girls and had a few others on my bed.
Of my 16 most recent nights in Vegas, I banged 8 girls and 2 others on my bed.
Of my last 11 months in California, I banged 12 girls and I don't know how many more that got close.
Crazy isn't it? In about a month outside CA I have the same success as in about a year in CA.
Anyway, aesthetic quality goes in that order - Ukraine first (avg 7.4), then NYC (very close second) (avg 7), then Vegas then California. Personality goes in the same exact order, except California is way way on the bottom. Youngest was Cali (18), most fun was NYC (22yo carefree girl), most likely to be girlfriend was Ukraine (19yo virgin), most beasts goes to Vegas (blackout drunk 2x).
But realize Ukraine isn't for everyone. My friend who I went with those same nights only got 1 bang and it was on the last night. I got shutout completely in Scandinavia and Poland, both known as "easy" spots. Everyone's looks and styles will factor into the equation more than one thinks.
As VP pointed out, it's the ability to consistently attract and close higher quality girls that matters. I know by now that I can pull 6s, the occasional 7s, and the once in a while 8s in California. In NYC, that goes up 0.5-1 point. In Ukraine, while I don't have a huge sample size I believe it can go up 1 or more.
I'll be back there in June, see what a month and now having learned some basic Russian will do. To say I'm excited is an understatement.
Would you attribute some of your success in Ukraine and in the places other than California which you mentioned to the fact that you were on vacation in those other places and therefore had much more time to try to meet girls? For example, my home base is a place which almost everyone on this forum concludes is less than desirable. I work around the clock when I am here and never go out. When I leave here, I have plenty of time to approach and therefore have much better success in other cities and countries than I do in the D.C. area.
Well yes and no. I wouldn't say it was the time aspect - I actually go out a lot in LA. Not 10 nights in a row like in Ukraine, but I'll go out min 2 nights and sometimes 4-5x a week. Spread over 11 months like the timeframe I cite to above, my numbers should be a lot higher.
I have two girls in rotation here now, so I've been going out less. But when I do I do try, this past Saturday I ended up back at a girl's place who would mess around but not put out. Not surprisingly, she is flaking on going out again.
Maybe my vacation mindset has something to do with it (higher energy), but it doesn't change the fact that in Ukraine I'm perceived as higher value.
The two times I smile the most are when I think about my past travels to other countries, and about my upcoming travels to other countries. It really is that much better than America.