I've been seeing this girl on and off for maybe 6 months or so. We've never become official, and I've always viewed it as a FWB situation. About a month ago the condom broke while having sex, and we found out later that she was pregnant. Long story short we both agreed that abortion would be best, and I took her to the clinic a couple weeks ago.
Since the abortion she's become VERY clingy. She wants to talk to me several times a week (We've gone weeks without talking before) and she now wants to see me once a week. She's been referring to me as her boyfriend, and expecting me to take her out to dinner and do all this other crap.
I saw her last night, and it was unbearable. We were going to meet up with some mutual friends, and she showed up really late. Then she caused a fuss about not wanting to leave to see them immediately. Then she kept trying to get me to buy her drinks. Then she started asking me if other girls at the bar were prettier than her. Then she asked me who certain girls are who either liked or commented on my Facebook statuses. Then she started talking about marriage and how she'd want me to get her a gold ring. Then she asked if I was cheating on her or thinking of leaving her (Jesus, with shit testing like this how could I not get the urge???). I wanted to leave her there, and when I said that she got really sweet and said she didn't want me to go and acted normally the rest of the night.
She never used to act like this. All girls are nuts to a certain extent, but she was fairly normal. Ever since the abortion she's been really clingy and just driving me nuts. I've been trying to be supportive, but this behavior from her is just pushing me away. This isn't what I want, and it seems like the more I deflect her shit tests she keeps throwing more at me. It's so mentally tiring and I can't take it any more. I've been thinking of dumping her ass, but any time I try to do it she huffs and puffs and cries and refuses to do so. What would be the best way to either get rid of her, or at least get her to stop acting like such a bitch?
Since the abortion she's become VERY clingy. She wants to talk to me several times a week (We've gone weeks without talking before) and she now wants to see me once a week. She's been referring to me as her boyfriend, and expecting me to take her out to dinner and do all this other crap.
I saw her last night, and it was unbearable. We were going to meet up with some mutual friends, and she showed up really late. Then she caused a fuss about not wanting to leave to see them immediately. Then she kept trying to get me to buy her drinks. Then she started asking me if other girls at the bar were prettier than her. Then she asked me who certain girls are who either liked or commented on my Facebook statuses. Then she started talking about marriage and how she'd want me to get her a gold ring. Then she asked if I was cheating on her or thinking of leaving her (Jesus, with shit testing like this how could I not get the urge???). I wanted to leave her there, and when I said that she got really sweet and said she didn't want me to go and acted normally the rest of the night.
She never used to act like this. All girls are nuts to a certain extent, but she was fairly normal. Ever since the abortion she's been really clingy and just driving me nuts. I've been trying to be supportive, but this behavior from her is just pushing me away. This isn't what I want, and it seems like the more I deflect her shit tests she keeps throwing more at me. It's so mentally tiring and I can't take it any more. I've been thinking of dumping her ass, but any time I try to do it she huffs and puffs and cries and refuses to do so. What would be the best way to either get rid of her, or at least get her to stop acting like such a bitch?