[ballparkrain111]

(03-28-2013 12:07 AM)SHANbangs Wrote:  

Pretty simple question. I know kegels help. Anything else? I know alcohol blunts the effects, but I'm scared now because i recently got whisky dick when i was trying to bang a virgin.

I don't really care about her pleasure. All that matters is you getting off. Women don't care if its 1 min or 1 hour you last. Have the mentality she's lucky she got me off.

[Rekk'd]

Condoms!

[questor70]

(02-10-2017 03:27 PM)ballparkrain111 Wrote:  

I don't really care about her pleasure. All that matters is you getting off. Women don't care if its 1 min or 1 hour you last. Have the mentality she's lucky she got me off.

That's terrible advice. IMHO, if a guy learns to last longer it's better for him too. What good is putting all the work into picking up chicks only to bust your nut in 30 secoonds? It's like waiting 3 hours at Space Mountain for cryin' out loud. Savor the experience.

[Rossi]

I think this is really about physiological.

I was in Paris last year for 3 weeks. I was banging two chicks that I met back in New York. Let's call them, Swedish and Czech. I was rotating them every week.

I was having sex with Czech girl, I just came within 10 minutes. I thought it was weird at first and then I had a dinner with Swedish next day at my place, I went for 40 minutes and she actually told me to stop for a bit. I didn't come at all. Later at night, we went another 20 minutes and I still didn't come. I thought it was a coincidence at that point.

Later on, I called Czech again later that week. I came within 10 minutes again with her but then when I have sex with Swedish, I can hold as much as I can.

Then I realized, everytime I had sex with Czech, it was 10 minute job but with Swedish, I can go on forever.

I have no clue how it happened like that.

[torridon747]

I've been on nofap noporn for a few weeks. Before that though I literally could not cum during/after sex. It was the most frustrating thing ever for me and it made a few women extremely self concious. Now if I make it past the 15 minute mark I'm good for an hour+ of being hard and steady fucking.

I think if you want to last longer all you have to do is beat your meat to qualify porn a few times a day and edge a little bit while you're doing it. Watch out though because that shit can also be a curse.

[Meat Head]

The first round is always short, no stress.

[Rawmeo]

I usually stop thrusting, get my dick out, and start doing something else like licking, etc. while thinking about something that is either a source of stress for me, or that is just plain unattractive. When I put it back in, I'm good for another 10 minutes, then I repeat the process.

I noticed that coming too fast happens with new girls as it's more exciting - after a while, plates make me last longer and longer.

[aeroektar]

You have to build up a bit of tolerance and training, be it through more fucking or edging.

I met a super fine 19 year old last week, I was sick all week and hadn't busted in a few days prior so the dick was extra sensitive, her pussy was super tight and felt amazing, I felt like I was going to cum after 30 seconds, tried to prolong it by giving it a break but it just wasn't happening, I couldn't last more then a few thrusts once inside. Kind of embarrassing.

We met up again last night, but I edged in the morning, and then when we met up I had some rum and cokes, I went a steady 30 minutes of hard fucking, we fucked multiple times today and I could go as long as I wanted each time, she just left and was already texting she misses me as soon as she got home.

I don't agree with guys who say who cares about her pleasure, how are you going to put effort into game but not give a fuck about your performance in bed? Sex is a huge part of game for me, not just empty, quick sex thats just about getting off, but a memorable sexual experience. A big part of my pleasure is seeing her in pleasure, seeing and feeling and hearing them cum while I'm fucking them, I enjoy that.

Edging helps me reset if I haven't fucked in a while, so I can control when I cum. Its essentially building a buffer, so your less sensitive, the point of no return takes longer to reach and is easier to feel coming so you know when to back off a bit. The longer you push it off, the longer you can last, to the point where you can go fast and hard for long stretches and not feel like your going to cum, and then when you want to force yourself to cum clench your PC muscle to enhance sensitivity.

I used to have the problem where I couldn't bust during sex, I'd go forever and have to fuck so hard and fast just to get to the point where you feel like you might cum, and half the time I'd tire out before I got there and have to take multiple breaks. It was from fucking and jerking it for years with my PC muscle clenched the entire time, once I stopped doing that, the problem went away, and I then realized that you can use your PC muscle during sex to control when you cum.

[questor70]

This guy above knows what he's doing. I think men understand that women's anatomy is complicated but they underestimate what their anatomy is capable of doing, probably because there's very little literature on it and porn doesn't demonstrate it.

I get it. Some people are more interested in the thrill of the chase than the kill. That's why it's called "game". Well, there's a whole world to explore in the bedroom besides whiskey dicks at 3AM after the club.

[Mentavious]

Am I only one who doesn't like to fuck all night?

30 min tops and I want to be done.

I would hate to have a hard time busting a nut. Busting a nut is the best part not sex.

[TooFineAPoint]

Sometimes you wanna listen to a Beach Boys single, and sometimes you want to put on a 3 disc bootleg of Zeppelin live.

[monster]

This tong balm stuff works great. You only need the amount of the tip of a matchstick. You apply it a couple hours before to the head.

[Fortis]

1. masturbate before a bang.

2. Cialis in the morning and then right before bang.

I just did this today and I banged a girl over a period of 4 hours and only busted 3 times. I actually think I may have banged her into submission. Not trying to humblebrag. Just giving evidence for my method.

[questor70]

(02-11-2017 11:46 PM)Mentavious Wrote:  

Am I only one who doesn't like to fuck all night?
30 min tops and I want to be done.
I would hate to have a hard time busting a nut. Busting a nut is the best part not sex.

If you just want to "bust a nut" you can wank off to porn and save yourself all the trouble of convincing a woman into bed with you.

Maybe it's because I have a low notch-count but having free and clear access to a woman's body is a special treat.

And it's not "having a hard time busting a nut". It's about extending the experience...voluntarily. Busting the nut feels good but it always feels disappointing afterwards, like the curtain closing on a good movie and needing to get up and walk out of the theater.

Sex is life's greatest pleasure. No matter what the context, I try to make the most of it, like it's the last time I'll ever have it.

[Advance]

Not to go off topic but for me it's sort of the opposite. I don't remember really when I was in need of prolonging. The few times it happens I didn't really care about it.
Often times I just pound away and still can't come. It gets kind of frustrating for me. I feel I defo need to come to go mission accomplished.

[Advance]

And yes sorry to answer your question probably try a condom. I get like instasoft and it pretty much makes sure I can't come.
I recently read there is quite a variety in thickness. So maybe start with a regular one and if you still come too early then chose a thicker one? Keep in mind though the thicker the condom the less fun it will be.

[rainy]

Interesting. I personally completely disagree on the masturbating. I'm less hard and last a lesser amount of time the more I masturbate or view porn.

What I've found is the best and longest sex I've had is when I abstain from masturbating altogether. My dick can get extra sensitive the first time having sex in awhile if I haven't masturbated or had sex recently but every time after that I last pretty much as long as I want.

So really I'd say, don't masturbate, don't view porn and have more sex.

[Fortis]

Weird. I'm one of those guys where, if I don't masturbate before a bang, I sometimes cum mega fast. It's great for my own pleasure but awful for the girl usually. I always masturbate if I know i'm getting laid. But hey, everyone's different.

It also depends on the girl. Some chicks just make me fucking steel-hard so it doesn't matter whether or not I masturbated.

[Smooth Operator]

(02-10-2017 07:21 PM)Rossi Wrote:  

I think this is really about physiological.

I was in Paris last year for 3 weeks. I was banging two chicks that I met back in New York. Let's call them, Swedish and Czech. I was rotating them every week.

I was having sex with Czech girl, I just came within 10 minutes. I thought it was weird at first and then I had a dinner with Swedish next day at my place, I went for 40 minutes and she actually told me to stop for a bit. I didn't come at all. Later at night, we went another 20 minutes and I still didn't come. I thought it was a coincidence at that point.

Later on, I called Czech again later that week. I came within 10 minutes again with her but then when I have sex with Swedish, I can hold as much as I can.

Then I realized, everytime I had sex with Czech, it was 10 minute job but with Swedish, I can go on forever.

I have no clue how it happened like that.

Czech girl probably has a tighter and/or more dry pussy than Swedish girl.

[Mochihunter]

Hey fellas. Here's the scoop of my situation. I'm in the process of setting up a threesome with two of the hottest chicks I've ever banged. So naturally I am nervous about cumming fast since I am plowing two nines and. I am rusty. I haven't had a solid long lasting bang in months. Anyone experienced in threesomes have any advice for me, tips of the trade heh.

[aeroektar]

(07-02-2017 06:43 PM)Mochihunter Wrote:  

Hey fellas. Here's the scoop of my situation. I'm in the process of setting up a threesome with two of the hottest chicks I've ever banged. So naturally I am nervous about cumming fast since I am plowing two nines and. I am rusty. I haven't had a solid long lasting bang in months. Anyone experienced in threesomes have any advice for me, tips of the trade heh.

If you can get two 9s to fuck you, you should be able to go out and find a 6 or 7 before the threesome so you can brush off the cob webs. or just jerk it a few hours prior.

[PapayaTapper]

(07-02-2017 06:43 PM)Mochihunter Wrote:  

Hey fellas. Here's the scoop of my situation. I'm in the process of setting up a threesome with two of the hottest chicks I've ever banged. So naturally I am nervous about cumming fast since I am plowing two nines and. I am rusty. I haven't had a solid long lasting bang in months. Anyone experienced in threesomes have any advice for me, tips of the trade heh.

Can you elaborate on how your "setting up" ? What makes you so certain this 9/9 3 is a going to happen?

[Sebastian]

There are positions that you find pleasurable (missionary, her head is under mine) and non pleasurable (girl on top) You would have to change positions smoothly without letting her know you are about to come (especially if you just met her) You can also just change the angle of thrusting so you get less pleasure. Stay away from missionary when you start. My 2 cents.

[Rawmeo]

When you're fucking, think about something that does not excite you. Take your eyes off the girl and think about anything not sexual: work, homework, or anything that worries you. It'll help you last longer.

[miggyme1]

Controlled breathing, focus on something u find enjoyment in thats not sexual.

For instance i ALWAYS last longer while watching sports or watching stand up comedy. Even find myself cheering/laughing while banging.