[AlphaQup2nite]

The issue i have with dating online is just the simple numbers games. Ya you can contact lots of women over a short peroid of time. But so can anyone else, and you lack the chance to make a really good connection, and plus your framing yourself as looking at least at getting laid. I dont like putting myself in those kind of situations.

Like i got a good friend of mine who tried the online dating route, she met with lots of guys who seems charming and awesome, and then as soon as they met is was all like, get drunk, in my pants, no game tools. So she got jaded. I dont want girls like that, nor do i want to be one of the drooling pack of followers. No thanks, id much rather meet on the street on in a club, chatting up what i want, and keeping it all a mystery, plus getting real time verbal and body language ques as where to go. I like running a really tight game where i know exactly what goes off. I am not a fire and forget carpet bombing, more like a precision strike.

That being said, i meet and nail a surprising number of women from online contacts, but none of those come from dating sites. Almost all of them are from interest forums, such as now-gone aznmp3.com for Asian music, to Chinese city forums, to fucking Omegle of all places. Its just like me going out, i do what im normally doing anyways, and if i meet an interesting chick, well my friends, Game on! Its like going to a speed dating session. Anyone who has ever tried it knows its one of the most awkward and strange kind of way to meet new people ever. It just feels so forced, which is exactly why i hate dating sites, you take out all the personal connection out of the picture, and throw up a wall which just makes both people feel like losers.

Seriously, online game is like shooting fish in a barrel. If you got any sort of game, you could, but it takes the fun out of it as well. Anyone with decently good talking skills or who is creative in the least, you will get laid off of an online dating site. But for me, its just one step above a prostitute. Ill rather get blown out all night then get a freebie from some messed up chick who thinks shes hot b/c all these idiots are beta-ing her into an overblown ego, and then decided to go for the alpha. Sorry, i dont like damaged goods.

[hydrogonian]

(06-06-2010 12:00 PM)playa_with_a_passport Wrote:  

I know some playas and macks look down on online dating, however, getting ass online can be just as challenging and even more so than talking to chicks on the streets because of the M/F ratios are all fuck up. If you are aiming on meeting quality women (6 and above) you are still going to need some tight game to close the deal. If you live in a major US city I would just skip the online thing and use it only sparingly during dry spells or when money is tight. However, if you live in a small or medium sized city in the US online gaming might be your only option. Here a few pointers from personal experience.

1. Stay away from free websites (Okcupid, PlentyofFish, Myspace, etc) You literally do get what you pay for. Women on those websites are attention whores and can afford to have a bitch shield because there is no real cost to blowing you off. Also, dudes on those sites are not known for being selective so they have even fat bitches thinking she's a Tyra Banks. If a chick is hot, she will literally get hundreds of messages so a lot of them don't even bother reading their mail.Therefore, that's like spitting good game at a deaf bitch.

2. Do some reconnaissance, go to Myspace and look for a girl who is a little above average in looks and body department but not so much that she looks unapproachable. Steal her pictures. go to Plenty of Fish or okcupid and put up an ad pretending to be her in the city in which you are going to put your ad in. 95% of the responses you are going to get are going be garbage but 2 or 3 of the emails are going to be on pure gold. Use those Mackish lines on the next point.

3. Sign up for match.com. Match is the largest Dating website in the US. There are a tons of girl in there and chances are you are going to find something you like. Now Match.com is not free and is actually quite expensive. Last time I was a member 3 years ago, it was $40.00 a month. On the plus side, women pay the same fee. So this ensures that chicks are serious about meeting dudes online and are very willing to meet after a couple of emails and not drag out the interaction because they want to get their money's worth. Also, the high monthly fee weeds out Attention whores, Au Pairs looking for green cards and hoodrats. The only thing about Match.com is that they marketed it as a place for women to find LTR. You can bypass this by saying something beta like "I have been hurt in the past and I want to take it a day at time" Whenever she brings it up. I usually sign up for a month at a time, you can realistically go on 3 to 5 dates a week and bang 1 or 2 of those chicks in a week. My goal was usually to bang as many chicks as possible before the month subscription was up. When you start contacting the female use the same lines lines that you got from cats who responded to ya fake ad. At least you know that you are 95% better than the other dudes out there. She might bite even if she's not that attracted initially.

4. Don't reinvent the wheel, Let someone else do the work for you. Search for a dude who is clearly Alpha on match.com on the opposite side of the country and plagiarized his profile. For example, if you live on the East Coast copy the profile of someone whose from California and looks like he swims in pussy. I literally only change his name to mines. Demonstrate higher value with pictures. Have pictures on vacation (the more exotic the place the better), one picture with you at a party(makes you social able), a picture of you holding an instrument(just say you haven't played in a while) and one of you suited and booted. A picture with you dog is ok, a picture with a cat is not. If you have a tight profile and pictures you don't even actively have to look for females, they are going to contact you first. which means its your notch to lose.

5. Only hit up 6.0 and above, don't fall into the trap of going after substandard women because you think they are going to be easier to bang. At least online they both take the same amount of work. Avoid women with kids, look for multiple pictures in different angles and lighting(to detect girdle wearing fatties) The girls with the following pics on their ads are usually open to fucking bang on the first date; Visible Tatoos, a lot of pics of her on vacation, party pics, pics in bathing suits. A side tip to the Brothers, if a white chick has pictures in the Caribbean or anywhere in Africa you are in there like swim wear, even she has "looking only for white" option. Some white women have told me that they literally get a lot of hate male("your daddy would be so proud") from racist Betas online when they are actively said they looking for Brothers.

6. Don't become a penpal, you are not there to be her buddy and write bullshit back and forth, let a Beta do that. Your goal should be to drive the interaction from online to the real world ASAP. 2 Emails should be more than enough to built comfort and prove to her that you are not a psycho. I tell her I am going to (whatever place) and she should join me. Don't plan the date more than 1 to 3 days in advance to decrease the chances of her flaking. Once in person game her like you would any other girl. I like to plan my dates an hour before it gets dark so if all goes well I can get a blow job in the car in some desolate street.

I have been doing the above on and off for years and it never fails. Never solely depend online dating sites for your only source of pussy because there is such thing as overfishing. and you can quickly exhaust all the fuckable girls in your surrounding area if you are there too long.

lol...THATS what im talking about...haha..good post man. obviously, you have some online dating experience. lots of great tips. I love the stolen profile technique, because Im right there with you, its a numbers game and what gets you the date isn't really important, as long as you get it. And posting a female profile is HILARIOUS, great toward the end of saving your time and effort, and just smart...

To come clean, the profile I had put up to get my last gf was stolen (but somewhat modified) from a hilarious profile that I had seen on "best of craigslist". Long story short, it got me the interview... Even though she was suspicious, and always asking me if I made the profile up myself, or stole it...haha didn't matter either way... That was one thing about her, I couldn't get away with shit...its better we're not together, because thats a recipe for disaster, imo...

also, lots of great input from everyone else...

[thekiller]

Sounds like we have a lot of haters to Online Game. Seriously though if you tried it and got no or sub par results you only have yourself to blame. There ARE quality women online who are tired of the bar scene and/or just too busy for it. YES they get inundated with 1000s of emails from tools with names like LongJohn12inches and WookieBallz who say things like "wat up? Wanna hook up yur so fine 2nyt!?". Don't be that guy.
1) Insider Internet Dating pioneered the "recon profile" long ago and it works. Grab a photo online of a hot chick (not a known star) and make a profile and just read the emails that come in, 99% of them are what you DON'T DO.
2) Your screen name counts, don't make it pornographic or nerdy, but try to be imaginative.
3)Get some professional photos done, barring that, always make sure you have a spread of photos that convey your interesting lifestyle. NEVER brag about yourself in your profile, but you can let your photos do some bragging for you. If you travel throw travel photos in there, but REMEMBER, your photos should tell the story of your interesting and cool life. Convey it, don't say it as Brent always says. Also, have some photos of you with other pretty women for some social proof (no, not you with Hooters girls).
4)For your main picture, pick 3 or 4 that you think are best and then throw them up on Hot or Not, and see which one gets the highest rating, it may be brutal but you'll have the best picture to appeal to women.
5)In your profile make sure you say who your NOT looking for. Have standards, make women qualify themselves to you. Even if the standards seem too high to you, women will notice you actually HAVE standards. This is a good thing. Some I give are l'm not looking for druggies or drama queens. Also state who you ARE looking for: active, intelligent, brunette, etc.
6)Remember that women are motivated by emotions, your profile should inspire emotion and a call to action on her part. Things you want to inspire in her are Romance, Adventure, Fun, Excitement, and Danger. Write your profile so she could see herself in that Romance, Danger or Adventure WITH you. There was an ebook called Net2bed that had the BEST info on writing like this.
7)Once your emailing don't do it too much before you meet, you lose too much mystery that way, don't give out your life story in one email either, women LOVE to sleuth details out of their men.

[AlphaQup2nite]

I dont hate on the online game persay. I just dont like it. Why bother? I on average meet many more quality girls irl then online anyway. Why should i go out of my way to make time for it. The pick up for me is something that happens when im doing whats natural. I will very rarely go out and look for a hook up. Why do things online. Online is still the place for the socially awkward imo, the people who cant make it out in the real world.

Plus, i dont want to bother with a chick who thinks shes all that b/c shes a semi-decent chick on a dating site who gets 100's of contacts from lonely guys. I thrive off the experience, the game itself. I love talking to chicks, and watching them smile, flutter their eyelashes and know its b/c im a charming intersting guy. And at the same time i love to get rejected. A girl rejects me i 1) learn something new about females, and 2) screen out girls that i wouldnt want to date or hang out with anyways. To me, the pickup is a very personal process. Why feed it though a bunch of tubes? No thanks, ill take the face to face meeting any day.

And, its not that i have problems getting chicks online if i want to. Like i said, ive hooked up with chicks off Omegle and Chatroulette, message boards and what not. I just prefer not to.

[speakeasy]

(06-07-2010 04:50 AM)AlphaQup2nite Wrote:  

I dont hate on the online game persay. I just dont like it. Why bother? I on average meet many more quality girls irl then online anyway. Why should i go out of my way to make time for it. The pick up for me is something that happens when im doing whats natural. I will very rarely go out and look for a hook up. Why do things online. Online is still the place for the socially awkward imo, the people who cant make it out in the real world.

The online thing just isn't for you then. To each his own.

One other reason I can think of for going online is if I'm trying to target a very specific type of girl I rarely encounter IRL. Like say I want an Asian girl who does capoeira, a black girl that loves anime or some other unusual type of girl, I can do a keyword search and find girls who mentioned those things.

[playa_with_a_passport]

(06-07-2010 05:30 AM)speakeasy Wrote:  

(06-07-2010 04:50 AM)AlphaQup2nite Wrote:  

I dont hate on the online game persay. I just dont like it. Why bother? I on average meet many more quality girls irl then online anyway. Why should i go out of my way to make time for it. The pick up for me is something that happens when im doing whats natural. I will very rarely go out and look for a hook up. Why do things online. Online is still the place for the socially awkward imo, the people who cant make it out in the real world.

The online thing just isn't for you then. To each his own.

One other reason I can think of for going online is if I'm trying to target a very specific type of girl I rarely encounter IRL. Like say I want an Asian girl who does capoeira, a black girl that loves anime or some other unusual type of girl, I can do a keyword search and find girls who mentioned those things.

This is a good point and a major draw to Online game, Major U.S. cities are actually very segregated despite their diversity. There's no such thing as a melting pot, Everybody sticks to their own. Online dating sites give you access to girls that because of circumstances or the social circle you belong to you would not have been able to approach let alone bang them. For example, Asian guys who are into Black chicks or Black dudes who are into Koreans, White guys who are into Arab chicks. Whenever I see an exotic(other than black/white or White/Asian) interracial couple 99% of the time they met online. Case in point, right now I am on Jdate a Jewish dating website working on getting my Hasidic Jew flag. That's right, my Game has no boundaries.

Online dating isn't for everyone. However, I believe every mack out there has to be proficient in all different types of Gaming whether is day Game, bar Game, online Gaming or Telepathy. Personally I feel NLP and hypothesis are crock of shits but I am currently reading a tutorial about NPL in case I am wrong. I don't want to miss out on quality poon just because I am being closed minded and not willing to try new things.

[Kona]

My little brother brought a girl to happy hour he pulled off of plentyoffish.com. She was maybe a 7.5 to 8 but a little on the hippie side. He just turned 22, she was 27.

I talked him up to her quite a bit, but I think he could have closed without me. When they left, I told him to let me know what happens asap.

He just texted me "I hit".

It sounds like this match.com type stuff is passing my by, and I'm missing out on easy lays?

The only part I'm worried about is putting my picture on those things. Is there any possible way to work the online stuff without doing that?

Aloha!

[dlmelvin86]

there aint no way to talk to grls without a pic. best bet is to get one that is alil vague. but still shows ur overal appearance

[hydrogonian]

(06-08-2010 03:16 AM)Kona Wrote:  

My little brother brought a girl to happy hour he pulled off of plentyoffish.com. She was maybe a 7.5 to 8 but a little on the hippie side. He just turned 22, she was 27.

I talked him up to her quite a bit, but I think he could have closed without me. When they left, I told him to let me know what happens asap.

He just texted me "I hit".
Aloha!

haha..hippies in their twenties are almost always easy-ish... so when you get a cute one, its like found money.. and with that age difference between her and your brother..damn, he better "hit". lol

[Quasi]

I mostly do online, been doing it for years might do a writeup.. its fairly easy and no challenge once you have the right setup in place everything is almost laid back interest... but there is alot of online going on here in cold Denmark

Things that make a difference, an interesting job.. brain scientist for my behalf..
Good looks, a muscular tanned body presented in a classy way...
A funny cocky, interesting profile tekst making her contact you..

From there is laid back standard bla bla bla, not screwing up...

[hydrogonian]

(06-04-2010 11:23 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

Check out okcupid.com

I set up a profile there, but haven't put anything into it yet. I just wanted to browse and see if it was worthwhile. After doing so, it seems pretty cool... They get real into the psychology profiles of everyone. Its kind of interesting. I might see where it goes.

They have different voluntary psych tests that you can take. I just took the 'dating test, to see what type of dating profile I was, and I scored as the "Playboy Random Gentle Sex Master". Nice! I guess I'm validated now. sweet. I can die.

Take that bitches who wouldn't let me get tittie in the 7th grade. You missed out on the Random Gentle Sex Master.

According to the website:

The Playboy
Random Gentle Sex Master (RGSM)

Clean. Smooth. Successful. You’re The Playboy.
You’re spontaneous, and your energy is highly contagious. Guys therefore find you fun to be around, and girls find you compelling. You have lots of sex, and you manage it all without seeming cheap or being hurtful. Well done. You probably know karate, too.
It’s obvious to us, and probably everyone else, that you’re after physical rather than emotional relationships, but you’re straight up with potential partners. And if a girl you want isn’t into something casual, it’s no big deal. You move on. BEFORE sleeping with her. Usually. At least you try to. Such control is rare.
If you’re feeling unfulfilled, maybe you should raise your standards. New conquests will only be satisfying if there’s a possibility of rejection.

[hydrogonian]

Here are some other dating profile types from okcupid.com. Some are pretty funny. There are a shitload of them though. These are a few:

(This first one was a favorite of mine because this is a good example of a personality that guys learn game to change)

The Backrubber
Deliberate Gentle Sex Dreamer (DGSD)

Lusty but indirect. Kind, but also using friendship as a means to sex. Oh, that feels gooood. You are The Backrubber.
We call you “The Backrubber” because you straddle that fine line between coming on to someone and just treating her nicely. Backrubs are just one example; you’d meet for coffee, or talk about books/movies, or even argue a little bit, all the while mostly preferring to screw.
Your indirect approach is not some evil trickery, but rather a result of your open mind. You’d enjoy either love or sex, but the latter definitely doesn’t require the former. While you are responsible and ambitious, you absolutely DON’T have uptight views on relationships. So ultimately, you just enjoy a woman, and let things take their course. If she wants you, great. If not, that’s fine too.
Though you’re not thinking too much about Love at this point in your life, odds are, when the time comes, you’ll be very happy settling down. Your ideal mate is gentle and horny, just like you.

The Bachelor
Deliberate Gentle Sex Master (DGSM)

Straight-up. Studly. Congratulations, you are The Bachelor.
You’re an honest, good-thinking guy, and though you’re very sexually active, people don’t perceive you as a male-slut or man-whore or guy-dick-putter-inner or whatever. You have a sterling reputation.
You’re a careful person, perhaps too much so for your friends’ tastes, but girls like that in you. You probably don’t kiss & tell. And you definitely don’t brag. You know you don’t have to prove anything to anyone. It’s as if you believe in monogamy, so long as it’s with lots of different people.
Our guess is that you’ve got some kind of word-of-mouth going with the girls out there, and that in the future, your sex partners will get even more plentiful, and more attractive, too.
You will settle down eventually, and make an excellent husband. You seem like the type who is into the idea of making copies of yourself, so you’ll probably have kids. Bear in mind, meanwhile, this can get expensive.
ALTERNATE ENDING: You will die broke and alone. Vermin will feast on your ragged body for five days before the groundskeeper notices. The thing is, when somebody dies in a public restroom, the natural odor of his decomposing flesh is often masked by the feces smell.

The 5-Night Stand
Deliberate Brutal Sex Master (DBSM)

Compassionate, loving, and understanding, but only for one business week, you are The 5-Night Stand.
Sex is your primary objective, and you are a skilled manipulator. Therefore, you get LOTS of ass. Most likely, you juggle many women at once; you care about all of them a lot, but each of them a little. It adds up, right? One love.
You’re not dishonest with people, exactly. It’s unlikely, for instance, you’d actually say “I love you,” just to get laid; and you might even go as far as explaining “I’m not ready for a commitment” to a potential partner. Of course, when you say it, you’d smile that special smile, like you two have an inside joke. Her.]]
The secret of your success? Every nice person has an instinct to fix the broken dirtbag within you. Women especially have this instinct, because deep down they want their sons to be evil, a genetic advantage.
To wit, your most likely occupations are stock broker, lawyer, and photographer. You are a hard worker, because power and success turn you on.

The Mixed Messenger
Deliberate Brutal Love Dreamer (DBLD)

Just...take...the...fucking...flower...darling. The Mixed Messenger apologizes again.
You’re looking for love, but you’ll always maintain your independence. You’re prepared for a real commitment, but it’s also likely that you’re ambitious, which creates a certain romantic tension and ambivalence within you. So although you can be very affectionate to someone, you are also capable of pulling some dubious shit.
In a relationship, you’re usually the emotional leader. With your friends, you’re a little bit more part of the pack. You’re well-liked but you’re not the uninhibited type, so the spotlight’s often on someone else. In both social and romantic situations, however, you almost always get what you want. Influencing people is something you do very well.

[clr]

I also read an article that said guys that dont look at the camera in their photos were rated as more attractive, especially if they were with girls and not looking at the girls either.... girls are funny like that!

[hydrogonian]

(06-12-2010 04:25 AM)clr Wrote:  

I also read an article that said guys that dont look at the camera in their photos were rated as more attractive, especially if they were with girls and not looking at the girls either.... girls are funny like that!

Good advice. I have a great picture where a hot girl is kissing me on the cheek while I'm not looking at the camera. Maybe that will hook me a few fish.

[speakeasy]

(06-12-2010 10:15 AM)hydrogonian Wrote:  

Good advice. I have a great picture where a hot girl is kissing me on the cheek while I'm not looking at the camera. Maybe that will hook me a few fish.

I think one good approach to use is having a photo you took with girls, but cropping the girls out, yet leaving just enough of them in it so that it's obvious there were girls in the original photo. So you get the social proof, you get the mystique of these partially visible mystery girls, yet it doesn't seem like you're trying too hard since you mostly cropped them out. IOW you're not screaming, "Hey look at me, I have girls in my photo!" The key is, you have to strategically crop it so that it's clear there were girls in the photo with you, but not make it seem like you are trying to show off.

[clr]

HAHAHA speakeasy... I did this a few times, just left a bit of my ex's eye, even from just the sliver of hair and eye, I had girls asking me about her(she was gorgeous)

[Johnny Dakota]

My problem online is that anyone can post a couple of attractive pictures of themselves on a site but then look horrible in real life. An easy way to get around this and to avoid meeting up with a busted chick is to try and become facebook friends first. You can always delete her later but most chicks' pictures on facebook are recent and real and everyone has at least one tagged picture that shows what they really look like on a regular day. The sad thing is if you think of all the chicks that still look busted in their profile pics, can you imagine what they look like in real life??? I still would love to know how every fat girl online has somehow learned to take that one pic of themselves holding a camera above their head at that one angle that hides the fact that they're enormous and unattractive. Are instructions for fat girls taking pics handed out at Cinnabon?

[CJ]

(06-06-2010 12:00 PM)playa_with_a_passport Wrote:  

I know some playas and macks look down on online dating, however, getting ass online can be just as challenging and even more so than talking to chicks on the streets because of the M/F ratios are all fuck up.

Do some reconnaissance, go to Myspace and look for a girl who is a little above average in looks and body department but not so much that she looks unapproachable. Steal her pictures. go to Plenty of Fish or okcupid and put up an ad pretending to be her in the city in which you are going to put your ad in. 95% of the responses you are going to get are going be garbage but 2 or 3 of the emails are going to be on pure gold. Use those Mackish lines on the next point.

I decided to give this a try, partially because my current job is overnight, so I can only go out on Saturdays and Tuesdays (which are useless now that the college students have left town). Anyhow, my response is WTF, I put this ad up on plentyoffish exactly 21 minutes ago, and have already received 7 messages. Is the ratio that messed up? Lol, what the hell is the point of a site like that if the girls are getting hit with that many messages? How do they even read that many!

Pry be easier to get a new job and open up my nights for going out again, than this.

[Thesoloist]

I think with the popularity of "Tinder" now a days online dating has changed. I mean Tinder has a plethora of above average to hot chicks. The problem is most of the chicks just use it for validation or to smash the top 20% of guys. Personally online dating I don't care for it much if you're an average looking black guy in a white area like me it's basically super duper hard unless you look like Drake or find a chick with a BBC fetish

[TheWastelander]

A girl I went out with last night from OKC told me her friends make profiles solely to get compliments and it was partly why she made one too. I knew this already, of course. She also told me that she gets 50 messages a day and most are awkward attempts at hitting on her or complimenting her.

I've found that using Day Game-style tactics actually works pretty well online if you have decent pics and a profile. Add in a little teasing, play it cool, and you'll get the ball rolling.

[steve]

hi there guys! I've been quite a long time trying dating sites, but that one appears to be real scam, I've been texting back and forth with lots of ladies and when it comes to a meeting it appears they are fakes, who just used photos of some models. Looks like kinda translators write all those letters to me..(((that's horrible experience..((( pls be aware of those scammers and fakes...I've just spent lots of money for nothing!! they just took money, offering fake girls and poor services at same time.!!

[rockoman]

People who work in personnel have always taken a good look at the quality of a job application. They often believe the application itself will be the best work the candidate will ever do, as getting the job depends on it. First impressions count!

In a similar vein, I am often surprised by how bad women over 40 often look in profile photos. It makes you think "Surely she must have done her best for this picture, if she looks so terrible in this in the profile, then she must be really ugly in real life"

Adding to my generally negative impression of online dating is the attitudes of many of the women on there, wrinkly over-40s who think they can still afford to be as haughty and demanding as a 20-year old princess.

[XPQ22]

Online dating tips from a "Deliberate Gentle Sex Master":

Online dating is pretty good the way it is, and there's probably no perfect app. Use a couple. You can get lays there no doubt about it; the game level of your competition is shockingly low. If you get some good semi-pro pictures taken, or even just have some good "activity" pics your buddy snapped, are in decent physical shape, and can write a little bit and "spit" some decent text game, you're already light-years ahead of the competition. These chicks are bored off their rocker with chodes hitting them up with "Heeey nice profile u hott ; )" all day and are desperate to hand out their digits to a dude who can run some clever material on them.

Profile shouldn't be longer than a page, but interesting, funny, and well written. I'd avoid trying to go big baller and attempt to sell her on your fascinating money lifestyle. Mystery is better. My profile is about 30% "straight" references to my actual job and hobbies, and 70% wack-out nonsense. But it is some intriguing nonsense!
I put my income down as 40 or 50k, which in a good year is just about accurate. I'm headed into my late 30s and use my real age; I've gone on dates with girls as young as 25 and as old as 45. Not terribly interested in online gaming girls much younger than that, they're too flakey and annoying.

Only message girls who are smiling in their photos and look generally happy. Only message girls who don't come off as a cunt in their profiles and seem generally "relaxed" or "free spirited." Your dick will thank you. Never waste time with any chick who gets all meta about the nature of online dating, or rambles on about why she can't find a good guy, or says she's "just trying this out" or seems ambivalent about the whole thing.

If at any point before the date or on it she brings up other guys she's got meets scheduled with, or all the dates she goes on, it's probably time to leave. Only exception is trading a "What was your worst date ever?" story. That's actually some good game.

The girls you're after are gonna have some level of self-confidence, generally happy with their lives, have a sense of humor, aren't particularly interested in getting validated by Internet dudez, but say just moved to your location recently, are having a good time so far, and wouldn't it be even better to take some new cock to add to the fun? If you're fortunate enough to show up on the date dressed well and spitting some good game compared to the last two guys she met who just stared at the TV, she's gonna let you give it to her.

(12-15-2016 08:15 AM)rockoman Wrote:  

In a similar vein, I am often surprised by how bad women over 40 often look in profile photos. It makes you think "Surely she must have done her best for this picture, if she looks so terrible in this in the profile, then she must be really ugly in real life"

I've only been SIF-ed/catfished a few times, other than that I can't recall ever being terribly surprised at a girl I saw in pictures looking much different in real life.

Sometimes women seem to actually be lousy judges of what pictures make them look attractive. Look at all the chicks on the sites with that "thousand cock stare" and dead-eyed expression that I guess they think makes them look hot. There were a couple girls I was ambivalent about going in but flipped into solid WBs once I saw them in person dressed up nice, though maybe that was just my dick in the moment.

Most common situation is that a girl's face is better-looking in person, but she's got a few more pounds than her pics, which these days is a no-brainer to assume it's going to be that way. Only once was I ever seriously catfished by a SIF who was like 30 pounds heavier than her pics, though, and thankfully she didn't like me and ejected on her own accord.

[justbob]

I am going to join some dating sites in the near future. So far I am reading this adult sex dating blog but it seems like there are many scams in this industry so you need to be careful to not be fooled. I am going to post my own reviews in this topic as soon as I join some sites.