[iamdegaussed]

Oh of course. You're totally right. This feeling is normal, and it's probably why a lot of us found this part of the internet. I know it's what brought me here.

To get past that feeling completely would probably require a small level of sociopathy, but you have to do it if you're going to get better at this.

I think the stages are "How could she move on so fast?" to "Well she's just a slut and that will catch up with her in 5 years." to "who cares."

[Euphoric_Breeze]

It doesn't bother me at all , I'm commited to explore as many vaginas as I could .Remember That a man's Life span on sex is greater than a Woman's . As a woman becomes older around her 30's her value deteriorates . The opposite is for men , they can still go on with their game as they become more charming and enjoying a great integrity.

[BarryInSF]

(08-12-2014 05:43 AM)Euphoric_Breeze Wrote:  

As a woman becomes older around her 30's her value deteriorates .

That's a common misconception. The older you get, the better older women look to you. I never would have given a 40-something woman a second glance before I entered my 40's. Now they turn me on even more than their daughters do. Also, all the 40+ women I meet are super-horny, and immune to slut-shaming!

[pheonix500000]

(08-12-2014 02:14 PM)BarryInSF Wrote:  

(08-12-2014 05:43 AM)Euphoric_Breeze Wrote:  

As a woman becomes older around her 30's her value deteriorates .

That's a common misconception. The older you get, the better older women look to you. I never would have given a 40-something woman a second glance before I entered my 40's. Now they turn me on even more than their daughters do. Also, all the 40+ women I meet are super-horny, and immune to slut-shaming!

TROLL of course they are horny their looks are mostly gone when compared to when they are younger and most guys that want to fuck them are less than what they want.

[Days of Broken Arrows]

(08-12-2014 02:14 PM)BarryInSF Wrote:  

(08-12-2014 05:43 AM)Euphoric_Breeze Wrote:  

As a woman becomes older around her 30's her value deteriorates .

That's a common misconception. The older you get, the better older women look to you. I never would have given a 40-something woman a second glance before I entered my 40's. Now they turn me on even more than their daughters do. Also, all the 40+ women I meet are super-horny, and immune to slut-shaming!

Half true. Older women do look better when you're older and, yes, high school girls start to look like kids.

But women who hit the wall hit the wall. That doesn't change no matter how old you get. And there is no shortage of mature-looking high schoolers who transcend age (Bella Thorne).

If you're a fortysomething guy, a quick look at the Facebook pics of girls you knew in high school make this clear. If you're lucky 50 percent of them will look good -- and even with that there's a fall off from the way they looked back in the day.

The average woman does not have the genetics of Sofía Vergara (age 42). Esp. not American ones.

[Dusty]

I'm in my late 40s. Women my own age just don't cut it. There may be a handfull of 40+ chicks I could get a boner for, but it's rare.

There's also a big difference between an early 40s chick and late 40s. The deterioration is rapid and harsh. By the late 40s they have really ugly hands. Big knuckles and veins and all together not feminine.

[BarryInSF]

(08-12-2014 02:50 PM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  

(08-12-2014 02:14 PM)BarryInSF Wrote:  

(08-12-2014 05:43 AM)Euphoric_Breeze Wrote:  

As a woman becomes older around her 30's her value deteriorates .

That's a common misconception. The older you get, the better older women look to you. I never would have given a 40-something woman a second glance before I entered my 40's. Now they turn me on even more than their daughters do. Also, all the 40+ women I meet are super-horny, and immune to slut-shaming!

Half true. Older women do look better when you're older and, yes, high school girls start to look like kids.

But women who hit the wall hit the wall. That doesn't change no matter how old you get. And there is no shortage of mature-looking high schoolers who transcend age (Bella Thorne).

If you're a fortysomething guy, a quick look at the Facebook pics of girls you knew in high school make this clear. If you're lucky 50 percent of them will look good -- and even with that there's a fall off from the way they looked back in the day.

The average woman does not have the genetics of Sofía Vergara (age 42). Esp. not American ones.

Agreed. I should have said I find well put-together 40+ women super hot. Women who let themselves go are dead to me. And genetics is only half of it. Exercise, make-up and nice hair go a loooong way in my book.

[Rage_on]

It takes no skill (game) for a bitch to get banged. Men earn every notch they get. As well as everything else they have. You're superior to her in EVERY way. Men are badass warrior motherfuckers. Women are their comfort. Go and find comfort in another. And if you can't (for now), revel in being the very glory of the earth.

[Travesty]

(08-12-2014 03:01 PM)Dusty Wrote:  

I'm in my late 40s. Women my own age just don't cut it. There may be a handfull of 40+ chicks I could get a boner for, but it's rare.

There's also a big difference between an early 40s chick and late 40s. The deterioration is rapid and harsh. By the late 40s they have really ugly hands. Big knuckles and veins and all together not feminine.

Your description really scares me off cougars, the hands comment my God.

Not long ago I SNL with a 31 year old. Thin, great ass, yoga body a low 7 overall. She had the veiny knuckley hands and the big veins on top of the wrist and in the hands. Fuck, noticing that the next morning was just a boner destroyer.

It is like once I picked up on that every other physical flaw she had was magnified.

[Enjoythedecline]

Just focus on self improvement and achieving smalls goals. You'll gain confidence, while this bitch is riding the cock carousel and depreciating. Next you'll be way ahead of her with your life. Lizards comes and goes.

[Dusty]

(08-13-2014 03:05 AM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

(08-12-2014 03:01 PM)Dusty Wrote:  

I'm in my late 40s. Women my own age just don't cut it. There may be a handfull of 40+ chicks I could get a boner for, but it's rare.

There's also a big difference between an early 40s chick and late 40s. The deterioration is rapid and harsh. By the late 40s they have really ugly hands. Big knuckles and veins and all together not feminine.

Your description really scares me off cougars, the hands comment my God.

Jennifer Anniston is holding up pretty well in her 40s, but the hands are slipping:

[robreke]

(08-12-2014 03:01 PM)Dusty Wrote:  

I'm in my late 40s. Women my own age just don't cut it. There may be a handfull of 40+ chicks I could get a boner for, but it's rare.

There's also a big difference between an early 40s chick and late 40s. The deterioration is rapid and harsh. By the late 40s they have really ugly hands. Big knuckles and veins and all together not feminine.

I'm 44. Last week I dated a 34 year old lawyer. She works out all the time, etc. But, she's not a natural beauty. She's okay/sort of pretty and thin. Honesty, she just seemed too old for me. I almost started laughing typing this but I could just sense her physical depreciation even at 34 and I'm 10 frickin years older.
Been dating this cool 25 year old latina chica. During the second half of my date with the 34 yr old woman...I was just thinking of my 25 year old. I'll stick with the younger one.
I had two women in their 20s at a restaurant guess my age...one said 35-36. The other girl disagreed and said 33. Made me feel good, but the point is, as we all know, most men age better than most women.

[20Nation]

I think it's a good sign that you should thank god that she is your ex and not your current gf. You don't want a serious girlfriend that is like that.

[HawkWrites]

(03-08-2013 01:38 AM)JoyStick Wrote:  

i'm just curious where everybody else stand on this. it annoys the fuck out of me when my exes jump from dudes to dudes while i'm on a dryspell. i know it's easier for them because they have a vagina, but it still hurt the ego a little to know that they're doing great and i'm over here ranting on rvf.

Yep, that would be her feminine imperative at work. She's swinging from branch to branch if she doesn't think you're a suitable mate.

Stop ranting, start lifting, and get yourself out there.