[Giovonny]

(07-16-2013 12:18 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

(07-16-2013 12:13 PM)A War You Cannot Win Wrote:  

rope and ball-gag on the first date.

That has to have backfired before, right?

This move has only back fired on me once.

Many times, I have pulled toys out for the 1st or 2nd bang.

Ball-gags, dog collars, cucumbers, hand cuffs, etc.

Girls rarely have a problem with it. Of course, the "frame" I set is important. I play if off like its just good, clean, fun. Lighthearted sexual experimentation. It's important to remain calm and not get all excited like a weirdo.

I just calmly say -- "lets role play".

One time I tied a girl up on our first bang date and she loved it. She said -- "I didn't know you were so kinky".

I gave her the freedom to be kinky.

It often turns them on. Lets be honest.. Girls want to experiment sexually. They want to push boundaries. They are fascinated by it.

Do I have to mention to popularity of "50 Shades of Gray" and "The Girl with The Dragon Tattoo"..? You already know that girls love this books.

Girls want to try it.

If you present yourself properly, not like a weirdo, most girls will have no problem with it.

It makes them curious about you. They get a taste of your dark side. A combination of a little scared and a little excited. They have rape fantasies and submissive fantasies. Few men ever take them to this place.

Another girl, I tied up and put on a leash. At first, she said -- "I'm a little scared". I replied -- "thats why its fun". She loved it.

When I first started doing this stuff, I was a little worried that I might scare some girls away. Now, I think that I might scare girls away if I don't do it.

I like to offer a contrast. I am handsome, I dress well, I speak well, but behind closed doors I will do dirty, disgusting things to you. I like to play around with that contrast. I want them to love me and fear me, in a playful way.

Girls are crazy. They are followers. If we offer them a new and exciting experience, they will often enjoy trying it. They like to be reminded that they have no physical power over a man.

[JayMillz]

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(07-16-2013 01:10 PM)A War You Cannot Win Wrote:  

She eventually got it that I alluding to rope and tie her up with. She said I was all talk and I wouldn't bring anything. Girls love to challenge you and see how you respond. She works so much and feels compelled to do so she longs for a guy to just take her away from it, even if only for a few hours. Jack pot.

I have gotten this from multiple girls when I allude to light bondage during a first date [talking about new experiences, trying something different, how do you avoid boredom, what's your fantasy, etc]. They absolutely will get interested & challenge you on it for the reason you mentioned: they want to see if you're a man or omega.

The more highly educated they are, the more successful I've been with this during pickups and initial dates. They are the ones craving new experiences the most and willing to live out their fantasies.

If they don't react, I just move on. The hamster wheel is spinning regardless.

[Brian Shima]

Bump because I want to get my main girl a toy but not sure what to pick! Basil Ransom what's that toy labeled as that has a reputation for making girls squirt??

[Brian Shima]

The Cadillac of Vibrators LOL

wikipedia.org/wiki/Hitachi_Magic_Wand

[MrXY]

The squirting toy is the N Joy Pure Wand.

[Brian Shima]

Mr X Y have your girl(s) given it high reviews? What makes that one specifically so good for squirts!?

[MrXY]

I haven't bought one, I rely on the Spiderman hand technique.

I have researched it though with an eye toward buying. It gets crazy good reviews, with women saying it made them squirt when they hadn't before or squirt a lot more.

I can see how it would do this, since its design allows the user to do the heavy, targeting hitting of the G spot you need to bring on a squirt. Likely more effective than fingers.

Buy one and post a data sheet!

I would be wary of the Magic Wand. It's very powerful and girls have told me it desensitized them to lesser stimulation. Its really for women who have difficulty orgasming.

The Rabbit vibrator is a good vibrator a lot of girls like.

Or if you are balling financally buy her a Sybian or one of those robotic arm fucking machines ha.

[Brian Shima]

Another that is supposed t o work well for squirts
http://www.amazon.com/WildFire-Slimline-...B000EHIX76

[Sonoma]

Huge turn off.

Girls who use sex toys are more promiscuous. So if it's a one night stand than whatever, if it's anything else, no thank you. Vibrator doesn't make my dick feel better, and I'm not down for pegging, soooo

[Lizard King]

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