[Parlay44]

Say you've been dating girl for a while and you're cool with the couple thing and getting along ok.
Suddenly she starts introducing vibrators or toys during your sex sessions.

Is this a good or a bad thing? Is this a way for her to revive or spice up the sex life a little or does
it mean the intimacy is dying and the relationship is on its way out?

Are you guys into it or is it a turn off?

Thoughts?

[thegmanifesto]

(02-25-2013 03:24 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

Say you've been dating girl for a while and you're cool with the couple thing and getting along ok.
Suddenly she starts introducing vibrators or toys during your sex sessions.

Is this a good or a bad thing? Is this a way for her to revive or spice up the sex life a little or does
it mean the intimacy is dying and the relationship is on its way out?

Are you guys into it or is it a turn off?

Thoughts?

Depends on a lot of factors. Generally a positive.

I think there would be plenty of other signs to let you know "the intimacy is dying and the relationship is on its way out".

Quote:

Are you guys into it or is it a turn off?

Why would it be a "turn off" unless you are gay?

I don't think there is a straight guy on earth who is "turned off" by a hot girl using a vibrator.

This is like asking "Are you guys into two girls giving you a blower at the same time or is it a turn off?™ "

[Jaylow]

Could be a sign that she is comfortable with you enough to introduce these things.

I dream of buying a sybian and breaking in a girls ass while shes riding it...

[Parlay44]

(02-25-2013 03:27 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

Quote:

Are you guys into it or is it a turn off?

Why would it be a "turn off" unless you are gay?

I don't know. It's fun for a bit. I just see it as a novelty for me.
Not something I'd like to do all the time.

[Sphere]

Depends on how they are introduced I suppose and whether they are new or used. If she says 'hey, why don't we try this, I'll get XXX' then why not? If she pulls out an old butt plug from a drawer at her house you might want to think twice about the implications.

[thegmanifesto]

How about this one:

"Hey guys, I just banged a Ukrainian Model Girl in a stairway in Toronto. Would you guys be into that or is it a turn off?™ "

[Tuthmosis]

(02-25-2013 03:24 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

Are you guys into it or is it a turn off?

Monumental turn off.

[Parlay44]

(02-25-2013 03:32 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

How about this one:

"Hey guys, I just banged a Ukrainian Model Girl in a stairway in Toronto. Would you guys be into that or is it a turn off?™ "

Sarcasm recognized

I see what you're saying G. Maybe I'm just splitting hairs here.
I just wanted to hear back from the Manosphere.

[thegmanifesto]

Hey guys, these two twins just gave me a blower this morning. Is this a turn off?™

[soup]

(02-25-2013 03:40 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

Hey guys, these two twins just gave me a blower this morning. Is this a turn off?™

2/10

[thegmanifesto]

Hey guys, I went to the doctor for a pulled thigh muscle the other day. My nurse ended up giving me a blower in the doctors office. Is this a turn off?™

[el mechanico]

I love them. Where they at? Which drawer? C'mon I know you have something, break it out!

[Parlay44]

G ...I think you're missing my point. A girl busting out a vibrator during sex is like
a guy busting out a vibrating pocket pussy or putting on a porno.

It's an artificially induced orgasm. It's like saying "You're not doing it right" or
"I need help to get off".

[el mechanico]

(02-25-2013 04:08 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

G ...I think you're missing my point. A girl busting out a vibrator during sex is like
a guy busting out a vibrating pocket pussy or putting on a porno.

It's an artificially induced orgasm. It's like saying "You're not doing it right" or
"I need help to get off".

They get used to beating the fuck out of their pussy for years. Can your dick spin and vibrate at 3200 rpm? No. Don't worry about it and use the toys to lay a hurting on them.

[Jaylow]

(02-25-2013 04:08 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

G ...I think you're missing my point. A girl busting out a vibrator during sex is like
a guy busting out a vibrating pocket pussy or putting on a porno.

It's an artificially induced orgasm. It's like saying "You're not doing it right" or
"I need help to get off".

Comparing guys to girls in this situation isn't the same considering girls have different ways to cum, plus its usually a lot harder to get them to that point compared to a male orgasm, PLUS most dudes don't like their asses being played with whereas a lot of dudes like playing inside a girls ass. Ive never stuck my dick inside a pocket pussy but I am just going to assume its nowhere near as good as the real thing where a fake dick vibrates and adds something to the situation instead of trying to replicate.

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[RCron]

I've never been put off by them and think they're great to keep the momentum going while Jr. recovers between pops. Most of the time the woman will want you to use it on them so I've always looked at it as another...ehm...tool in the chest

[Sphere]

Two stories that are relevant:

1) my last LTR dumped me when she found my Roosh handle and saw what I had written. She returned every gift I gave her on her way out the door except... a really cool glass dildo I had bought her. I guess she knew she could still go fuck herself.

2) my current LTR is a little kinky. Turns out one night when I was pinching both her nipples a little harder than you ought to she really liked it. She's into pain a little which lead me to wonder whether she might be into other stuff. I told her I wanted to tie her up. I don't do Valentines Day and I told her so straight up. On Feb 14th I sent her a text saying something like 'happy valentines day, maybe I should buy you some rope'. She went out and bought some rope. We'll see where this goes. Bottom line, toys can be fun and worst case scenario, you might have a good story to tell later on.

[Tuthmosis]

(02-25-2013 04:33 PM)Sphere Wrote:  

1) my last LTR dumped me when she found my Roosh handle and saw what I had written. She returned every gift I gave her on her way out the door except... a really cool glass dildo I had bought her. I guess she knew she could still go fuck herself.

I want to know more about this. Why didn't you just deny-deny-deny?

[Menace]

(02-25-2013 04:33 PM)Sphere Wrote:  

Two stories that are relevant:

1) my last LTR dumped me when she found my Roosh handle and saw what I had written. She returned every gift I gave her on her way out the door except... a really cool glass dildo I had bought her. I guess she knew she could still go fuck herself.

Yes, please explain this. Did she just see you logged in and then go through your posts, or what?

[thegmanifesto]

(02-25-2013 04:08 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

G ...I think you're missing my point.

I think you are missing the point.

You are way over thinking this.

I think this comes with time in The Game. You stop sweating the small stuff.

And you only care about things like "which nightclub is best in South Beach on a Tuesday night?" etc.

Now back to the original question:

Hey guys, I went to North Dakota and ended up getting swooped by 25 coeds. Is this a turn off?™

[Sphere]

(02-25-2013 04:39 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

(02-25-2013 04:33 PM)Sphere Wrote:  

1) my last LTR dumped me when she found my Roosh handle and saw what I had written. She returned every gift I gave her on her way out the door except... a really cool glass dildo I had bought her. I guess she knew she could still go fuck herself.

I want to know more about this. Why didn't you just deny-deny-deny?

(02-25-2013 05:19 PM)Menace Wrote:  

(02-25-2013 04:33 PM)Sphere Wrote:  

Two stories that are relevant:

1) my last LTR dumped me when she found my Roosh handle and saw what I had written. She returned every gift I gave her on her way out the door except... a really cool glass dildo I had bought her. I guess she knew she could still go fuck herself.

Yes, please explain this. Did she just see you logged in and then go through your posts, or what?

Yes, gentlemen, I failed to follow the time-honored strategy. She found an excuse to be alone with my computer and accessed the browser history. There was no reasonable way I could deny that it was my account.

I live my life as I choose and I am willing to be only so devious. It is impossible to stop a single highly motivated individual and she was that individual. If it had not been this it would have been something else so my posts on the Roosh forum were as good as an excuse as anything else for her to give me the heave ho. She did me a favor as I had had enough of her by that time anyway. The bottom line for me is that I do what I do and if a woman is stupid enough to go snooping where she doesn't belong and she finds what she finds then so be it. I got the one before her, I got her and I have the one after her. There is no shortage of women that want to be with me, whether they know it or not. No great loss.

So, in summary, rather than deny, I brazened it out, told her that, yes it was my account and that was the end of that. And she can go fuck herself.

[Jaylow]

(02-25-2013 09:12 PM)Sphere Wrote:  

Yes, gentlemen, I failed to follow the time-honored strategy. She found an excuse to be alone with my computer and accessed the browser history. There was no reasonable way I could deny that it was my account.

I live my life as I choose and I am willing to be only so devious. It is impossible to stop a single highly motivated individual and she was that individual. If it had not been this it would have been something else so my posts on the Roosh forum were as good as an excuse as anything else for her to give me the heave ho. She did me a favor as I had had enough of her by that time anyway. The bottom line for me is that I do what I do and if a woman is stupid enough to go snooping where she doesn't belong and she finds what she finds then so be it. I got the one before her, I got her and I have the one after her. There is no shortage of women that want to be with me, whether they know it or not. No great loss.

So, in summary, rather than deny, I brazened it out, told her that, yes it was my account and that was the end of that. And she can go fuck herself.

Your roommate/friends laptop broke and was using yours. Musta been him. Your computer has been hacked and acting weird lately. Etc etc.

[Fatless]

Quoting Daniel Rose' Sex God Method here.

Quote:

Consider this: there are hundreds of different sex toys on
the market. Women can buy vibrators, dildos, vibrating dildos
– anything their hearts desire to give them absolutely perfect
physical stimulation. In fact, many women do buy these toys
to use for times they can’t get sex. But, ask any woman and
you will find out that these toys are a poor substitute for the
real thing. Women don’t fantasize about buying a dozen
batteries for their rabbit on a Saturday night and vibrating
the shit out of themselves. They fantasize about sex.

It should be obvious that the key to becoming great in bed
does not lie in ways to stimulate the body; it lies in ways to
stimulate the mind. While physical technique has its place,
what will really drive a woman crazy is knowing how to
arouse her on all the psychologically. Combine this arousal
with basic physical technique, and you have a recipe for great
sex.

PM me if you want the PDF e-book. There's nothing wrong with your girl busting out toys in bed, but just make sure it's not because you're boring her in bed.

[MikeinMKE]

I'm lazy as fuck when I'm in a LTR (why I try to avoid them) so I'm all for it.