1. Cute mexican/white chick (I call her Rose) that I've been dating for over a year that I rather enjoy dating, but who is likely going to figure out or ask if we're exclusive and not like the answer to. I see her the most, we are both busy, but she studies near my house so I often have her stop by afterwards. Petite, nice brown girl body with amazingly perky tits and a super tight vag that I've figured out how to get off very easily when before she'd had major trouble. Just needed to figure out her head. Have a lot of fun with her, have to keep my distance because she wants to have too much PDA.
2. Italian, french and ??? (call her
Maria), cute white girl with awesome curly brown hair. Has a little bit of bug eyes her grill isn't perfect, but she's 5'9" and thin, is just starting a new gig as a fitness instructor which will pay additional dividends. Great lay, very submissive, very laid back. Moved into my neighborhood (walking distance away) when I was still dating her, she has since asked for the talk, gave it to her, we stopped dating, a month or so passed and now she is friends with benefits.
3. Italian/white? girl (Kay) who I've just recently started hanging out with but that I've known as the roommate of my good female volleyball playing friend for a while. Pretty, not perfect, but really nice body and smart/funny. I'd socialized with her previously when my friend had brought her over to my place or my town for partying/dancing. Finally realized I was an idiot for not pursuing (not from fear, just generally not thinking) her as she's definitely attractive.
This is how I started it off, the next free night I have (possibly tonight) I'll be having her
bring the movies. I actually told her I'd bring the wine, but she wants to bring that too. I am starting to dig this girl and I need to be careful as I haven't been able to escalate the physical much due to hanging out with her where we didn't have hardly any privacy and for other reasons. This next time I hang out with her I have to escalate or I'm screwed.
I am worried with this new girl Kay that there's a higher possibility of fucking it up due to various circumstances and that I'm pretty damn into her. I cannot wait to get her naked. I've had this main girl Rose going and Maria on the side as FWB, but I've not expanded my harem in too long (and the rest of the options died). I feel like I am at risk for harem collapse, but I am going to avoid or build it back up if I have to. The sex has been really, really good with both Maria and Rose and I've been lazy with that being the case. As an example, this morning I banged Maria for a while, went down on her and made her cum hard, then fucked her for a while longer before busting hard enough that I was shuddering hard from it. Then we laid for a bit and she got ready for work (she works earlier than I do), but I was hard again and she sucked me off for a bit then told me she needed to run home, call her boss and say she needed to come in late, then she could come back before work because she wanted so badly to ride me. I told her not to be late for work (it's good to set the girl boundaries, especially because then they can't do some hamster shit and blame you for making them late), but made her suck me some more before heading out, telling her she could think of that for the day while she's working and I'd let her know when to come finish riding me and sucking me off.
I think that 3 in a harem is perfect, any more and it's too much work, but even if you have 3 you should be working on prospects occasionally because 3 can become 2 or 1 REALLY fast.
Having 2 means that it's likely you will have some times that both girls are on the rag or they are busy. Having 3 usually always leaves 1 option available any given day of the week.