To make a long story short.. I hung out with her, had a fun interaction, kissed her during date. Second date, which was today, we had fun, played mini golf, went sight seeing, and then I escalated in my car in a private area.
She was receptive, but resistant to my advances. I kept doing two steps forward, one back. The most I got was her top off and a blow job. And not matter how hard I tried to get her aroused, she wouldn't let me.
I kept reinforcing to her 'we won't do anything you don't want to do.' At first, she was VERY resistant to any body touching during makeout, as I would find later she's had some issues in the past with guys taking it too far with her, so she was really uncomfortable. I was patient and reassured her I literally wasn't going to do something she didn't want me to. I still tried to arouse her as much as possible, but it wasn't going to happen.
We had a talk. She told me she's been a fuck buddy in the past before, and doesn't want to do it again. She asked me what I wanted. I said I'm not looking for anything, but that doesn't mean I'm not open to something.. that I am just playing things by ear. She told me she is looking for a relationship. I told her I can't make any promises, but that I like her so we will play it by ear.
We cuddled for sometime and shared stories.. had some deep conversations. I feel she really trusts me now, and I do legitemately like her. I haven't been in this position before.
In case you were wondering, I am 19 and she is 18, we both go to same college.
How should I play this off? Try a date 3 with her in a week (to which she is open to idea) and retry then? And did I play this scenario off right?
Suggestions/feedback welcome.
She was receptive, but resistant to my advances. I kept doing two steps forward, one back. The most I got was her top off and a blow job. And not matter how hard I tried to get her aroused, she wouldn't let me.
I kept reinforcing to her 'we won't do anything you don't want to do.' At first, she was VERY resistant to any body touching during makeout, as I would find later she's had some issues in the past with guys taking it too far with her, so she was really uncomfortable. I was patient and reassured her I literally wasn't going to do something she didn't want me to. I still tried to arouse her as much as possible, but it wasn't going to happen.
We had a talk. She told me she's been a fuck buddy in the past before, and doesn't want to do it again. She asked me what I wanted. I said I'm not looking for anything, but that doesn't mean I'm not open to something.. that I am just playing things by ear. She told me she is looking for a relationship. I told her I can't make any promises, but that I like her so we will play it by ear.
We cuddled for sometime and shared stories.. had some deep conversations. I feel she really trusts me now, and I do legitemately like her. I haven't been in this position before.
In case you were wondering, I am 19 and she is 18, we both go to same college.
How should I play this off? Try a date 3 with her in a week (to which she is open to idea) and retry then? And did I play this scenario off right?
Suggestions/feedback welcome.