Quote: (01-15-2013 06:02 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:
Quote: (01-15-2013 05:45 PM)UgSlayer Wrote:
Quote: (01-15-2013 05:39 PM)soup Wrote:
WIA, that's true mastery for sure, but isn't there something to be said for the guy who has so much gravity that he has women throwing themselves at him like asteroids? At that point, the notch isn't even relevant; he's won the game and it is up to him whether he wants to fuck them or not. It's like a king.
You show me a guy who isn't an A-list celebrity, MVP pro-athlete, semi-famous male model, a multi-millionaire/billionaire, or something of that nature who has random hot girls throwing themselves at him without him approaching and I'll show you a 55 year old female with breasts that don't sag, a tight body, no wrinkles, and is sexy as hell.
You can be a good looking guy that doesn't shave and dresses like a dirtbag and have women approach you. You can be an average looking guy with a nice car wearing a suit and have women approach you. You can be a singer in a shitty local band with zero chance of being famous and have women approach you. That's the whole point of game, charm, character, charisma or whatever you want to call it. It's the ability to project confidence and emotion at women and have them pick up on your "vibe". First you master your mind and learn how to control your emotions. Then you can master other's feelings and perception of you. That's how it works.
When I am "on", I do have girls approaching me like this at clubs sometimes. But, sometimes it builds, as opposed to having girls come up all at once.
One girl comes up and then another sees that one and thinks that I might be special/famous or something. Then it's preselection snowball where the hotter girls in the club are giving me proximity or making it painfully easy for me to open them or whatever.
And, this isn't me using my music or whatever. This is just me showing up at my usual spot on a crowded Saturday looking as best I can for the venue (with a little peacocking flair), and standing at the bar.
I sometimes get off more on this attention and the ease of the whole thing than when I've been in a state of desperation and banged out some hog to get me through a dry spell. Eddie Murphey said that Ritz cracker is going to taste amazing to the man who is starving, but I'm not sure this stuff is all relative like that.
There's a difference between being relieved and experiencing higher order types of joy that tap into a sense power, connectivity, and balance with world. Quality isn't relative. It's absolute.
Also, I think that focusing on style in just the right amount can help guys get their mind off of pumping up a girl. It's kind of like having a notch goal- it helps prevent your mind from freezing up in the presence of a hot girl because you are already focused on another object in your mind (a number). Girls can sense that they as individuals don't have as much power over you and this can help draw them in.
So, if you make gaming with style one of your goals, than you will eject from stinky situations more often, and girls might sense that you live by your own code and aren't desperate.