[Ensam]

A month or so ago I met a 27yd 8 with an incredibly tight body who lives far away from me but travels to my city often on business. It was initially a pretty casual conversation but without me even really asking she gave me her number and told me she wanted me to show her around my city next time she's in town.

We've been texting back and forth. At first her response time was long, but I think I ran a reasonably tight text game and now she responds instantly to my texts. She sent me a 'saw something that reminded me of you text' out of the blue a week or so ago so I think I have her on the hook.

The problem is our schedules aren't lining up. I travel a lot for business as well and so far every time she's been in town I've been out of town. Fortunately I go to pretty cool places so there's some display of high value/mystery just in that. "Oh sorry, I'm not free that week I was invited to give a talk in London/Paris/etc."

I'm afraid if this goes on too long she'll lose interest. Does anybody have any advice on how to keep the long distance text game interesting for another month or two until our schedules line up? So far my strategy has been to send a picture of something related to our conversations every week or two. The end game here is just the bang, I'm not looking to establish a LD relationship or anything.

[Snowflake]

You should free up your schedule and find some time to meet her. Like someone on this forum previously said chicks have the attention span of a goldfish and to make matters even worse she's hot, which means she has tons of options and other guys are probably texting her right now.

If I were you I'd get her to fly her ass to your city asap, show her a few cool places, end up in a bar, pour a couple drinks down her throat then go back to your place to bang and call it a night.

[Ensam]

Unfortunately it's not really an option; I'm globe trotting until mid Feb., though she said she might be back here around then so hopefully that's not too long. For better or worse my career is more important than hitting it with any individual girl at this point. It's not the end of the world if it falls through but if I can keep it going long enough for us to meet up that'd be pretty sweet.

[Days of Broken Arrows]

You're doing the right thing. Keep on the periphery of her consciousness. I did this with a Russian girl for over a year and when we met we had sex within the first hour.

IMO talking to her on the phone at least one might help because it humanizes you (again).

(01-09-2013 04:56 AM)Ensam Wrote:  

Unfortunately it's not really an option; I'm globe trotting until mid Feb., though she said she might be back here around then so hopefully that's not too long. For better or worse my career is more important than hitting it with any individual girl at this point. It's not the end of the world if it falls through but if I can keep it going long enough for us to meet up that'd be pretty sweet.

[Ensam]

Update: She's been keeping it alive, A text discussing plans every few days this past week, she even made a callback to a bit I did when we first met. We found a day that'll work in a few weeks. Working out the logistics. Basic plan is hit 2-3 places quickly and bounce back to my place (which is between the airport and the town she's staying in).

[Samseau]

This is a layup, shame on you if you don't get the bang

[Ensam]

It continues to look like a layup. I texted her to confirm plans. I gave her two options, one out on the town and the other at my place. She jumped on the one at my place. So the logistics of getting her back to my place are taken care of. I spent all of 15 minutes talking to this girl in a bar 2 months ago and we've had maybe a dozen text messages since then so I'm not really sure what to expect vibe wise. My frame is that she's down and that it's up to her to convince me that I'm down.

My place is spacious: 2 floors, 7 rooms across 3 logical zones (dining area/kitchen, lounge/den, bedroom). And I live by myself. I'm planning on using each of the zones as a mini-venue and basically follow the Tuthmosis first date bang recipe. Logistically I've got about 6-7 hours to make something happen. This is a kind of situation that's worked well for me in the past, well before I knew anything about game, so I'm pretty confident that I can make it work.

[NewGamer]

2 floors and 7 rooms and you live by yourself? Sounds like a pussy pulling pad to me.

(02-02-2013 01:20 PM)Ensam Wrote:  

It continues to look like a layup. I texted her to confirm plans. I gave her two options, one out on the town and the other at my place. She jumped on the one at my place. So the logistics of getting her back to my place are taken care of. I spent all of 15 minutes talking to this girl in a bar 2 months ago and we've had maybe a dozen text messages since then so I'm not really sure what to expect vibe wise. My frame is that she's down and that it's up to her to convince me that I'm down.

My place is spacious: 2 floors, 7 rooms across 3 logical zones (dining area/kitchen, lounge/den, bedroom). And I live by myself. I'm planning on using each of the zones as a mini-venue and basically follow the Tuthmosis first date bang recipe. Logistically I've got about 6-7 hours to make something happen. This is a kind of situation that's worked well for me in the past, well before I knew anything about game, so I'm pretty confident that I can make it work.

[Ensam]

We'll see, it has potential for playing lifestyle game but the logistics aren't great. It's a 20-30 minute cab ride from the bars and clubs. So far I've just pulled girls who've come to visit me from out of town.

[Ensam]

And it was indeed a layup. Didn't even make it through the appetizer. First notch of 2013 in the books and the end of a 8 month dry spell. Also first notch since reading Roosh's material. Some token ASD but I plowed through it like the Ravens through the Niners defense.

Ran deep rapport game. Chick spoke therapy and I picked up on it. I'll have to do a write up on 'therapy game' at some point. I listened to a great podcast by Dr. Drew earlier in the day (http://drdrew.com/009-simone-bienne/) which helped me out a lot. Basic concept is that women experience arousal and desire separately. So it's not enough to just turn a girl on, you've got to make her want to fuck you too. The way you do that is with intimate conversation - i.e. deep rapport.

Cool girl, very red pill aware, basically told me she thinks feminism is making girls miserable and that she likes being dominated. I took the cue and ran with it. Hopefully our paths will cross again soon.

[bojangles]

well done lad, now get out there and start plundering