hey,
my brother, who is a really good successful guy, is locked in a really unhealthy marraige with his hot, bitchy wife. she freaked out in front of our whole family the night before the wedding and i regret not talking him out of marrying her. now, 3 years later, they have a kid and she wants a bigger house before having another. he is well-off, but has still not sold the house theyre living in now. she wants to move closer to her parents, so they can move in when he goes away for work. she doesnt work. she hates my parents and recently had a huge blow up with them via-email and sms. she is 7 years is junior.
what do i tell him without directly attacking her? we arent super close, but this morning he wrote me an email saying hes thinking of buying the house in the suburbs which would leave them 2 minutes from the in-laws. i wrote him a lengthy email telling them that while the in-laws are nice people, everything has its limits and i didnt think it was a good idea, that they should talk it through and maybe even visit a couple's psychologist. i hope he doesnt get angry, but the regret i continue to feel for not talking him out of marrying her made me speak up this time around. he does all the work, and she treats him like shit and i really dont like her.
what should i say?
my brother, who is a really good successful guy, is locked in a really unhealthy marraige with his hot, bitchy wife. she freaked out in front of our whole family the night before the wedding and i regret not talking him out of marrying her. now, 3 years later, they have a kid and she wants a bigger house before having another. he is well-off, but has still not sold the house theyre living in now. she wants to move closer to her parents, so they can move in when he goes away for work. she doesnt work. she hates my parents and recently had a huge blow up with them via-email and sms. she is 7 years is junior.
what do i tell him without directly attacking her? we arent super close, but this morning he wrote me an email saying hes thinking of buying the house in the suburbs which would leave them 2 minutes from the in-laws. i wrote him a lengthy email telling them that while the in-laws are nice people, everything has its limits and i didnt think it was a good idea, that they should talk it through and maybe even visit a couple's psychologist. i hope he doesnt get angry, but the regret i continue to feel for not talking him out of marrying her made me speak up this time around. he does all the work, and she treats him like shit and i really dont like her.
what should i say?