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Girl starts talking about future dates?
01-03-2013, 05:48 AM
Is this a shit test?
I just met this chick like 2-3 weeks ago and we had sex for the first time like 1 week ago but she is already saying things like "in the summer time you can't suck my neck" and she has said a few other things referencing us during the future like talking about after I get back from my trip and that will be in about 2 months.
I have a feeling that this is a giant shit test to see how I respond but so far I have done pretty good at just ignoring it. I'm guessing this means she wants a ltr but it also might be just another crazy test to try and bait me in and make me commit or something.
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01-03-2013, 06:29 AM
is this your friends wifes friend? sounds like she's doing future projections, this is what I do with women when I actually approach them for the first time haha
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01-03-2013, 07:18 AM
usually it is not considered crazy behavior, to future project, in a non joking manner, for a date that is one and a half time as long away in the future, as you've known each other.
net-net: she's psycho
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01-03-2013, 08:21 AM
I don't think it's that crazy or necessarily a shit test, I get girls that do this every once in a while. Usually just means they're really invested in you, and are feeling you out to see if it goes both ways. I like to joke around with them about future dates, but absolutely do not talk about it as much as they do and I never really get serious about it. If a conversation like this starts to drag on or she's getting really serious about it and trying to make actual plans, change the subject. Just be cool. Don't make a big deal out of it either way.
When girls start expressing dread about me moving on, I like to tell them some variation on "Hey, worst case scenario, I'll remember you when I see your name in my phone when I'm inviting people to one of my parties next year and you can come and meet my new fiancee." They realize I'm joking and see how silly planning that far in the future is.
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01-03-2013, 10:54 AM
Don't approach this logically.
A man who said such things would mean literally that - he intends to keep dating you.
A girl who says it is just giving a fleeting, distorted glimpse of her momentary emotions.
I say distorted, because girls like role-playing. She may be just toying with the idea of you being a couple. And she may be shit-testing you, as you suggested.
It means almost nothing. Before I took the redpill I heard this kind of line from girls who dumped me two weeks later.
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01-04-2013, 06:57 AM
dont get holed up with her
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01-04-2013, 10:18 PM
Sounds like you're doing alright mate. I take anything a girl says as a shit test and advise you do the same.
"In the summer you can't suck my neck". If a girl says don't do something, do it or tell her you're going to do it. Agree and amplify.
"I'm a vampire. If you're not wearing a scarf in the summer then I'm sinking my teeth into whatever part of your neck is showing". Some shit like that. They like conflict mate, always remember that.
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01-04-2013, 11:36 PM
No it means you're running tight game.
Just agree and placate. Then Bang and don't follow through.
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01-04-2013, 11:42 PM
I just fucked up and I even knew I was fucking up when I did it.
She wanted to hang out this weekend and I said either friday or saturday. I couldn't think of any good bullshit to say why I was busy so I gave her the option of either day like a fucking dummy.
I wont do it again!
I'm going to either push for anal or her to swallow a load. We talked about it last night and she let me record us during sex even though it was only our 3rd time. When I talked about anal I could tell that she had tried it before but she didn't want to do it but then I also talked about nutting in her mouth and she was totally against it and said she had never done it before. (I kind of doubt that)
Her period is still totally fucked up so she is still bleeding everytime we have sex so I'm trying to think of alternatives to pussy sex.