[Beyond Borders]

Test was, "Do you like her for more than just her pussy?"

Hence her looking "sad."

You failed the test.

But since you just wanted to bang anyways it doesn't really matter, though a little patience and less eagerness and it probably would have happened in the morning. She doesn't sound like much fun anyhow. Doesn't do BJs? Even with a boyfriend? Fuck that...

[EasyMoney]

So I ended up getting the bang...lemme see if I can flesh out whatever lesson there may be here.

We left off on a thursday, with me leaving her house in a rush. On saturday she texts me to say " i hope you got the law school news that you wanted." I didn't respond because I decided to just write her off.

Exactly 11 days later I text her and I say "yes i did, i got in. want to celebrate with me?" I figured she wouldn't respond, but less than 3 mins later she says " congratulations!! I was actually just about to text to to see if we were ever gonna see each other again."

Looks like my decision to just freeze her out for nearly two weeks worked. We made a date for the upcoming friday.

I picked her up at 10, we went to a bar next to a comedy club in a hip part of town that does a free midnight show of sketch comedy. I figured if it sucks, we bounce, if its good we stay and get entertained for free. It ended up being great, and afterward we left around 1:15. I decided that instead of taking her back to her place and coming in, i would skip a repeat of this failing strategy and we would go back to my place where I would make us a couple drinks and then make it happen.

She put up almost no resistance to the bang. Within 20 mins I was fuckin her.

I owe the credit to my red pill female friend who said blowing her off will make her think that she made a big mistake in not giving into you sooner. She'll start to think he has other options, and that will get the hamster spinning. She may have been onto something

[Menace]

Nice to have a happy ending so to speak.

[Avarence]

Was great to hear you'd gotten the bang. Some of the play-by-play of her resistance was straight-up painful to read.

(12-17-2012 02:12 PM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  

I think A&A is the way to go because, even if it wouldn't help much in this situation, it still gives YOU the peace of mind.

"Who says I have a cock?"

Lmao. Stealing this.

[UgSlayer]

Well played. Reading the first post, I would have ignored same as you. From what you wrote, she seemed like she didn't want to come off as a slut to you, but when you left and you didn't respond she kept second guessing her decision.

Anyways, from my experiences the best part in building up to actual sex is two steps forward, one step back. It builds the tension perfectly. I enjoy the foreplay, getting her wet, and all of that shit, so that tactic fits right into my personality.

Of course, if the tension is already built up before we get to the bedroom I just go caveman style on her.

[Avarence]

Related:

[Dulceácido]

"I love the smell of napalm in the morning... Smells like... VICTORY!"

[Beyond Borders]

(12-17-2012 11:59 AM)EasyMoney Wrote:  

I have a super red pill female friend who said wait a couple days and then text her something real cocky - if she responds then shes down to bang and if not then, well, you know what that text really meant. What do you players think?

(01-10-2013 12:05 PM)EasyMoney Wrote:  

I owe the credit to my red pill female friend who said blowing her off will make her think that she made a big mistake in not giving into you sooner. She'll start to think he has other options, and that will get the hamster spinning. She may have been onto something

Your friend sounds awesome. Every player should have a woman like this on his team.

[DarkTriad]

"no wonder most men say fuck it and just pin her down and start thrusting"

Most guys don't do this, don't buy the feminazi bullshit. You're about as testonerone laden and unplugged as they come, and on your worst day, YOU didn't do it.

[MrXY]

Quote:

I owe the credit to my red pill female friend who said blowing her off will make her think that she made a big mistake in not giving into you sooner. She'll start to think he has other options, and that will get the hamster spinning. She may have been onto something

It's almost always a mistake to take advice from a woman on how to seduce a woman but in this case your friend is correct.

If a girl is being difficult in any way, a takeaway is often the most effective tactic

[EasyMoney]

Thanks for the positive words fellas.

(01-12-2013 02:46 AM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  

(12-17-2012 11:59 AM)EasyMoney Wrote:  

I have a super red pill female friend who said wait a couple days and then text her something real cocky - if she responds then shes down to bang and if not then, well, you know what that text really meant. What do you players think?

(01-10-2013 12:05 PM)EasyMoney Wrote:  

I owe the credit to my red pill female friend who said blowing her off will make her think that she made a big mistake in not giving into you sooner. She'll start to think he has other options, and that will get the hamster spinning. She may have been onto something

Your friend sounds awesome. Every player should have a woman like this on his team.

Definitely. Shes 37, kind of like the older sister I never had (I'm 25). Shes first generation Phillipino American, really amazing person and completely understands how women work.

(01-12-2013 09:51 AM)DarkTriad Wrote:  

"no wonder most men say fuck it and just pin her down and start thrusting"

Most guys don't do this, don't buy the feminazi bullshit. You're about as testonerone laden and unplugged as they come, and on your worst day, YOU didn't do it.

You bring up a good point, it kind of is femnazi bullshit.

(01-12-2013 03:23 PM)MrXY Wrote:  

Quote:

I owe the credit to my red pill female friend who said blowing her off will make her think that she made a big mistake in not giving into you sooner. She'll start to think he has other options, and that will get the hamster spinning. She may have been onto something

It's almost always a mistake to take advice from a woman on how to seduce a woman but in this case your friend is correct.

If a girl is being difficult in any way, a takeaway is often the most effective tactic

Very true, I am lucky to have her to bounce my game related questions off. She hasn't let me down yet with any of her analysis or advice.

[EasyMoney]

After a month of banging (plus one moment of accidentally slamming it into her butt mid coitus) she called it off - kind of caught me by surprise but shouldn't have. I thought I was doing a pretty good job keeping my game strong, but go figure. Game doesn't exist in a vacuum afterall, so on to the next