[BahamaPapa]

I can’t believe these responses. For me a single mother is a must for a rotation. You just have to pick the right one. 2 years ago I dated a single mom for 6 months before I went and fucked things up for an anti-Christ. When we first met she told me she wasn’t looking for a new dad for her kid and she wasn’t lying. I never so much as caught a glimpse of her kid. When we first met she said she wasn’t having any more kids and I raw dogged the hell outta that pussy starting from the very first time. Her period was never late. Poor and classless? Her tilt had way better furnishings than mine and she had her own car. She worked at the local hospital. We would have arguments over who would pay for dates. Of course after “twisting my arm” I’d let her pay. It was a great arrangement because I always knew where she was. This allowed me to plan how I was going to creep. I could go on the hunt on a Wednesday and Thursday night and know there was no way she would catch me in the act because she was at home with her little one. I knew once she sent me that good night text I could invite another broad from my rotation over and she wouldn’t just pop up unannounced. Maybe I have the luck of the Irish but my diet usually has a heavy supplement of single moms. Of course if you pick up a hood rat single mom that’s at the club every night doing blow there’s going to be problems. You just gotta keep in mind that the kid doesn’t create those problems, the mom does. When it comes to single moms, in the beginning you set the rules of how things are gonna go and you stick to that. If she wants to change the rules after that you hand her the pink slip: just as you would if your number 2 sandbag without kids gave you the relationship ultimatum.

[CaptainChardonnay]

Its a hole to put your dick in until something better comes along

[TheMan]

Don't

[RCron]

Some of the best sex I've ever had has been with single moms. In fact one of the tightest pussies I ever had was from a white, 47 year old with four kids! The only time I've ever gotten into trouble with these women was when I became beta and tried to make them girlfriends (pre-game). If you keep things casual and set the expectations early on, single moms are a must for any player's rotation as BahamaPapa said.

[Kwisatz]

I keep one or two in my back pocket for lazy weeks when I am too busy with work for a higher maintenance girl. Just like all women, they have a use. It’s just up to me to figure out what that use is.

[DarkTriad]

(12-16-2012 05:04 AM)kdolo Wrote:  

u guys are cold!!

not saying that you are wrong, just cold !

Not nearly as cold as the horrific things they've done to their families already. The horrific things they'll do to you if you give them the chance. This is no joke, this is deadly serious business.

With everyone else saying single moms are the martyrs of the 21st century, you've got to have someplace that gives you the straight dope.

[Waqqle]

Bang her maybe if she is still holding herself together well and you employ defensive tactics to prevent impregnation and/or spermjacking so you don't become the source of her next child support check. Don't date them seriously though as they already destroyed at least one child-producing relationship, permanently traumatizing and disadvantaging their spawn in the process.

Widows get a pass because it is not their fault if they were doing everything right and their husband just up and died somehow but, if nothing else, the kid(s) will most likely never see you as their dad unless they are too young to have remembered him. If the dad is still alive, he will always be around somewhere, forever a threat who could just walk in at any time and either replace you. He is their father after all and the single mother in question will likely see him as more high status than you, the desperate beta who scraped up and paid for his leftovers. At the very least, his existence will be a never ending source of stress, especially if she maintains some form of contact with him and/or he tries to contact her (this will almost certainly happen).

[Max RNR]

The only single mothers that I've banged were the mothers of my daughters... well, except for that other one. Not a good idea, in any case.

[Hypugamy]

Date her if you want to lose your sanity and experience painful drama like you’ve never imagined. The mind games are impressive, the sex is some of the best you’ll ever have. I would say that unless you have kids yourself, avoid. Too many other women out there.

Everyone says spin them as plates, but, it is hard not to get sucked into their game. A single mom approaching the wall has a strong incentive to lock down her beta provider. They are almost always hot, and will pussy-bomb you, probably from the first date, and put you into an irrational state where you think you can manage a serious relationship with her.

Before I found the red pill, I had oneitis for a hot single mom and it nearly killed me. Learn from my mistakes and do better for your future self.

[BlackFriar]

Just say no. Do not drink from a polluted well.

[Spectrumwalker]

I'll probably catch some flak for this, but I wouldnt necessarily disregard single moms for LTR material. That is if she tried to do the right thing, and obviously observing her to make sure she ain't nuts. But if a girl got knocked up on a tinder date gone wrong or some dude she was casually banging, then no fuck that. She's a slut of the first degree, should continue to be pumped and dumped and dserves to end up alone.

If I met a girl who has a kid, and the situation with the kids father was at least on honest effort to do the right thing and the kid wasn't an "oops", I got no problem with that. As she long as she wants more kids, then that's cool.

Obviously it's not an ideal situation. But the pool out of there of women who are sane and would make good wives and mothers is pretty small. Also there is a plus side to a girl with a kid. Kind of like cows. First time momma cows, the heifers, it's a bit of a gamble. You'll never know what kind of momma she'll make until she has her first calf. Heifers can turn out to be great mommas. Or they can be terrible and abandon their calves or stomp on em and kill em. As opposed to the cows you already know what kind of mommas they are.

So I look at girls the same way. As long as it was an honest effort and I can see she's a good mom and has the values and personality to go along with it and wants more calves...I mean kids... I got no problem.

[Zoso]

(12-31-2018 03:08 PM)Spectrumwalker Wrote:  

I'll probably catch some flak for this, but I wouldnt necessarily disregard single moms for LTR material. That is if she tried to do the right thing, and obviously observing her to make sure she ain't nuts. But if a girl got knocked up on a tinder date gone wrong or some dude she was casually banging, then no fuck that. She's a slut of the first degree, should continue to be pumped and dumped and dserves to end up alone.

If I met a girl who has a kid, and the situation with the kids father was at least on honest effort to do the right thing and the kid wasn't an "oops", I got no problem with that. As she long as she wants more kids, then that's cool.

Obviously it's not an ideal situation. But the pool out of there of women who are sane and would make good wives and mothers is pretty small. Also there is a plus side to a girl with a kid. Kind of like cows. First time momma cows, the heifers, it's a bit of a gamble. You'll never know what kind of momma she'll make until she has her first calf. Heifers can turn out to be great mommas. Or they can be terrible and abandon their calves or stomp on em and kill em. As opposed to the cows you already know what kind of mommas they are.

So I look at girls the same way. As long as it was an honest effort and I can see she's a good mom and has the values and personality to go along with it and wants more calves...I mean kids... I got no problem.

I think it is one of the most sensible points of view. And that does not repeat like many other members as if it were all white or black.

An error can be committed by anyone. In this way, even the most careful person can contract STIs or have a child, just for one single neglect. The fact that someone has decided not to abort the fetus can be positive.
In addition, the qualities of a single mother may be different / better in some aspects such as caring, valuing time and rest, etc ... Obviously not all of them are like that and not all women are affected in the same way by motherhood, but I think you can find something decent even with a child in between.
I do not say at all that the one who has a child is better, anyway it is still a negative point, but some women will tend to compensate that in a good way.

[quaker13]

who gives a fuck so long as you aren't trying to wife them and strap up. There just as good as no kid having club sluts

[camy9000]

(12-21-2012 01:41 PM)RCron Wrote:  

Some of the best sex I've ever had has been with single moms. In fact one of the tightest pussies I ever had was from a white, 47 year old with four kids! The only time I've ever gotten into trouble with these women was when I became beta and tried to make them girlfriends (pre-game). If you keep things casual and set the expectations early on, single moms are a must for any player's rotation as BahamaPapa said.

yeah i agree weird some of the tightness pussies i had have been single moms and they can be good horny fuckers

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(12-16-2012 03:33 AM)bacon Wrote:  

never date or make a girlfriend

but if you bang be cautious because if she were to become pregnant its clear from past experience she will not get an abortion.

Nailed it, be careful with these women. I just had one that said they would get an abortion if she got pregnant after unprotected sex. I texted after that, don't trust these hoes

[Thot Leader]

I've had two single moms that straight up wanted to bang. I turned them both down (and I haven't often turned down attractive women, which they both were). It just felt... wrong. Partly because both struck me as bad mothers, and nothing about a woman's character is more off-putting than being a bad mother. Looking for dick from a random guy like me, imagine if you were a kid and your mom was doing that!

[lunchmoney]

Just banged one to kick off the new year last night. She's a nice girl and all, but at 31 with a 7 year old, I don't have the desire to be a step-dad. To her credit, she's kept herself in great shape for her age and can fuck like a pornstar.

[Zoso]

I would reject a hoe for LTR whether she has children or not.
That is not the point of the topic.

[LatinaLova]

Bang yes. I reject all girls for LTR let alone single moms.