[Sketness]

So Im in the greek life social circle at my school, I have gotten a rather scandalous reputation ( just from hooking up with certain girls, and being forward with my intentions with girls) According to one girl "he just wants to get his nut" My question is, how much does reputation play in me getting future bangs in this social circle. Or will my "bad boy" image attract females

[Alpha Hunter Zero]

If you have to ask this you're obviously a newbie lol. To answer your question YES a reputation and bad boy image will greatly help you when it comes to girls. Think about it- who are girls attracted more to? Nice guys who dont challenge them or "bad boys" who dont put up with their shit? From what you wrote you seem to be doing pretty well, keep it up and keep reading this forum. Oh yeah and dont pay any attention to that girl who's complaining "He just wants to get his nut". She most likely is pissed off you arent paying her any attention and secretly wants you to fuck her.

[MrXY]

Yes it will help.

Of course you can expect to get bad mouthed by some but just laugh it off

[thegmanifesto]

(12-14-2012 03:13 PM)Sketness Wrote:  

So Im in the greek life social circle at my school, I have gotten a rather scandalous reputation ( just from hooking up with certain girls, and being forward with my intentions with girls) According to one girl "he just wants to get his nut" My question is, how much does reputation play in me getting future bangs in this social circle. Or will my "bad boy" image attract females

Wait, Sketness, I remember you.

You have been on here forever.

Didn't you used to post questions about "how to swoop at college" and stuff when you were mad young?

Now you got a huge rep at school?

Ha.

I love seeing my little brothers grow up.

Good work.

[RandalGraves]

(12-14-2012 03:30 PM)Alpha Hunter Zero Wrote:  

If you have to ask this you're obviously a newbie lol. To answer your question YES a reputation and bad boy image will greatly help you when it comes to girls. Think about it- who are girls attracted more to? Nice guys who dont challenge them or "bad boys" who dont put up with their shit? From what you wrote you seem to be doing pretty well, keep it up and keep reading this forum. Oh yeah and dont pay any attention to that girl who's complaining "He just wants to get his nut". She most likely is pissed off you arent paying her any attention and secretly wants you to fuck her.

I dunno, I think it's more nuanced than just "girls will either see you as a beta nice guy or an alpha cad who they want to fuck." Girls care a lot about perception and what other girls think, and as we know politics among women is very complicated. When girls see you as "the player that just wants his nut," it can go two ways.

- You are sufficiently DHV'd and generally desired that it will cause self-selection among the girls that like you and just want to have sex. Your game is so tight or effortless that, even if she's already heard that you're a player, she doesn't realize she's being gamed when you target her.

- ...or it can set off the "slut alarm" and cause girls to be more resistant when you try to game them because, yep, your reputation already set off a red flag. They won't turn off their logical side of the brain because they're wary of what you're trying to do.

I don't know what Sketness's skill level is. I think it's a bad idea to tell beginners that reputation doesn't matter, because that kind of stuff sticks with you and forces girls to make a judgment call about you even before you open your mouth to start gaming. Given that Sketness is in a fraternity, though, I don't think it'll hurt him that much--that sort of reputation is pretty much expected from frat guys.

[Excelsior]

(12-14-2012 03:13 PM)Sketness Wrote:  

So Im in the greek life social circle at my school, I have gotten a rather scandalous reputation ( just from hooking up with certain girls, and being forward with my intentions with girls) According to one girl "he just wants to get his nut" My question is, how much does reputation play in me getting future bangs in this social circle. Or will my "bad boy" image attract females

What you've said tells me that women are generally aware of the fact that other women find you sexually appealing and have been willing to hook up with you. The grapevine tells them that you're a sexually confident guy who other women find attractive (hence their willingness to have sex with you).

You're pre-selected. As far as your ability to attract more women goes, this is a good thing. When it comes to dealing with girls in your demographic (young, cute, western, middle class-ish; the kind likely to frequent your greek scene), there is very little downside here. These girls just want dudes who can a) have fun and b) appeal to their female peers. You seem to meet these requirements and have the kind of reputation that tends to be most successful in this environment. In short, you're precisely where you need to be.

Girls may occasionally throw some hate at you because you don't seem to want to invest too much in any one of them. This is normal, and should cause you no concern at this stage of your life. There are legions of men on your campus (and on all others) who are very much concerned with more than just "getting a nut", and are so willing to invest in a girl they like that they'd never attract the kind of rep you have. You do not want to be one of those guys.

The men who get the most attention from the kind of women you're dealing with are the same men who they complain most loudly about. They're not chasing after the kind of men who instill in them no emotion and give them nothing at all to be concerned about. That's a fact of life-the uncontroversial, utterly dependable, consistently available and heavily invested dude simply isn't in high demand. He's "boring" and generally left on the margins of the college dating scene. Do not try to mimic him-you're doing things correctly right now.

[philly22]

In my experience if a girls friends tell her that you're a "player" it can work against you.

[AlbertoDelMuerto]

Being known as a "Player" can actually work to his advantage. A lot of women just wanna get fucked by the player.

[Sketness]

(12-14-2012 03:47 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

(12-14-2012 03:13 PM)Sketness Wrote:  

So Im in the greek life social circle at my school, I have gotten a rather scandalous reputation ( just from hooking up with certain girls, and being forward with my intentions with girls) According to one girl "he just wants to get his nut" My question is, how much does reputation play in me getting future bangs in this social circle. Or will my "bad boy" image attract females

Wait, Sketness, I remember you.

You have been on here forever.

Didn't you used to post questions about "how to swoop at college" and stuff when you were mad young?

Now you got a huge rep at school?

Ha.

I love seeing my little brothers grow up.

Good work.

I have learned a lot in the last year. Thanks to guys like you and Roosh. I appreciate it. Its kind of funny though, one sorority specifically told all of their young girls about me. So im curious to see what what effect this will have for me next semester.

[WesternCancer]

(12-14-2012 09:52 PM)Sketness Wrote:  

(12-14-2012 03:47 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

(12-14-2012 03:13 PM)Sketness Wrote:  

So Im in the greek life social circle at my school, I have gotten a rather scandalous reputation ( just from hooking up with certain girls, and being forward with my intentions with girls) According to one girl "he just wants to get his nut" My question is, how much does reputation play in me getting future bangs in this social circle. Or will my "bad boy" image attract females

Wait, Sketness, I remember you.

You have been on here forever.

Didn't you used to post questions about "how to swoop at college" and stuff when you were mad young?

Now you got a huge rep at school?

Ha.

I love seeing my little brothers grow up.

Good work.

I have learned a lot in the last year. Thanks to guys like you and Roosh. I appreciate it. Its kind of funny though, one sorority specifically told all of their young girls about me. So im curious to see what what effect this will have for me next semester.

When you were scared of the boogey monster as a kid you still peeked out from under the covers. Same goes for the big bad cockmonster the freshmen hear about.

[Samseau]

Dude laugh it off. Tell them you were sent by the Devil to break all of their hearts.

[Screwston]

(12-14-2012 10:19 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:  

When you were scared of the boogey monster as a kid you still peeked out from under the covers. Same goes for the big bad cockmonster the freshmen hear about.

Hey man, it's better to be known as a playa or even just assumed to be one by how you look. I've had so many girls ask me or tell me I'm a hoe, but that didn't stop them from getting blessed by my dick.

[XXL]

Being known as a popular guy is great and very beneficial. Being known as player fucks things up a lot. What is the difference? The first person is social cool flirty guy who happens to attract girls in general while the second person is the blatant pickup guy who appears to want to fuck anything with a vagina.

[snoop]

(12-14-2012 09:52 PM)Sketness Wrote:  

(12-14-2012 03:47 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

(12-14-2012 03:13 PM)Sketness Wrote:  

So Im in the greek life social circle at my school, I have gotten a rather scandalous reputation ( just from hooking up with certain girls, and being forward with my intentions with girls) According to one girl "he just wants to get his nut" My question is, how much does reputation play in me getting future bangs in this social circle. Or will my "bad boy" image attract females

Wait, Sketness, I remember you.

You have been on here forever.

Didn't you used to post questions about "how to swoop at college" and stuff when you were mad young?

Now you got a huge rep at school?

Ha.

I love seeing my little brothers grow up.

Good work.

I have learned a lot in the last year. Thanks to guys like you and Roosh. I appreciate it. Its kind of funny though, one sorority specifically told all of their young girls about me. So im curious to see what what effect this will have for me next semester.

I'm curious to hear how it works out for you. IME this kind of thing in college created situations at the extremes. half the girls will wanna mess with you b/c they were told not to, the other half will be so stand offish you won't get anywhere with them.

[Kabal]

Both. It is simultaneously a DHV and something that will trigger female ASD and bitch shields with greater rapidity and intensity--which one is more salient will vary from girl to girl.

(12-15-2012 02:26 PM)XXL Wrote:  

...Being known as a popular guy is great and very beneficial. Being known as player fucks things up a lot. What is the difference? The first person is social cool flirty guy who happens to attract girls in general while the second person is the blatant pickup guy...

Yes. I even tried to manage this in my senior year, but I was too late--the ship had already set sail on that one, genie was out of the bottle.

By senior year, I had become reputed as a caustic player who was arrogant about pump and dumping girls. However, this reputation did help me maintain an NSA LTR with one of the more sought after girls in the Greek Community (one of my fraternity brothers actually asked her out to formal after I graduated even though he knew I was still freelancing that) and net what was essentially a free bang (a sorority girl told one of my pledges she wanted a piece of their pledge educator--me--and it ended up eventually happening one night), but who knows how many opportunities it cost me.

Oh well.

The junior-year prime alone was well worth it.

No regrets.