The line between (indifference/aloof) and (engaging a chick to build attraction)
12-10-2012, 02:16 AM
This has puzzled me for a while.
I get the whole needing to be aloof/indifferent/unpredictable in order to really get the hamster to spin in your favour.
But, being aloof/indifferent only works if you have built up the attraction.
I'm a regular guy, so chicks don't seem interested in fucking me straight off the bat, so I have to build attraction. In order to build attraction, I have to engage with chicks, make them laugh etc, which is the opposite of aloof/indifferent. And by that time, I've usually been friendzoned.
So how do you guys play this? do you act aloof/indifferent from the start or switch up at a certain time?
I get the whole needing to be aloof/indifferent/unpredictable in order to really get the hamster to spin in your favour.
But, being aloof/indifferent only works if you have built up the attraction.
I'm a regular guy, so chicks don't seem interested in fucking me straight off the bat, so I have to build attraction. In order to build attraction, I have to engage with chicks, make them laugh etc, which is the opposite of aloof/indifferent. And by that time, I've usually been friendzoned.
So how do you guys play this? do you act aloof/indifferent from the start or switch up at a certain time?