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12-06-2012, 06:27 AM
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12-06-2012, 08:07 AM
I like where Rich's head is at.
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12-06-2012, 11:39 AM
Women's arguments against this practice are predictable. Especially the whole abuse angle. There have been some horror stories regarding these women being brought here by men and turned into virtual slaves - forbidden to leave the house, and even murdered. But don't try to sell that as the norm, because it isn't. Don't try to assume that most of these women are unhappy and afraid to step forward.
I also love how that author tries to sell cultural differences as being the greatest problem with couples. Bullshit - money issues are. Some people seek out cultural differences. Why don't these bitches talk about the con artists that get a man to bring them here, stay married to him for the minimum amount of time required, then divorce him or simply disappear? I'll bet their response to that is the man deserved it. Sure, this is more prevalent in countries where there is poverty. They want out of that situation because the US represents a better life, and there no hope to get out of it if they stay where they are. That's self-preservation. They aren't being kidnapped and dragged here against their will. A man wants a woman that is attractive, feminine and attentive to his needs, and she wants the better life he can provide. Period. The average American woman, that's "fought long and hard for independence," doesn't give a fuck about a man's needs, or for only as long as it takes for her to get her needs taken care of.
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12-06-2012, 12:04 PM
I watched a show on this not too awfully long ago. The lady that owned the mail order bride service said most guys that use the service are losers that can't get girls in the U.S. It show footage, and most of the Russian girls show obvious disappointment during the meets, and wouldn't even stand from their chairs. It was an interesting perspective.
I've talked to girls in SEA, that REALLY thought America was Hollywood. Bringing a girl like that back to the U.S. would probably end up in diaster.
My opinion is if a man wants to wife in another country, they need to spend 6-12 months in said country to understand the culture, learn the language, and see their options with the women. The problem with "mail order" is a lot of guys spend maybe a month with the girl, bring her back on a 90 day visa, then marry. It simply takes more time to find out if you are compatible. The rush, IMO, is what make so many of these marriages fail.
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12-06-2012, 12:59 PM
who gives a rat's ass what these broads think !
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12-06-2012, 01:09 PM
Quote: (12-06-2012 12:59 PM)kdolo Wrote:
who gives a rat's ass what these broads think !
It's these hateful old cunts that have nothing better to do than lobby congress until senseless laws are passed, thereby protecting their monopoly on pussy in the U.S.
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12-06-2012, 01:30 PM
Quote: (12-06-2012 12:04 PM)Aliblahba Wrote:
My opinion is if a man wants to wife in another country, they need to spend 6-12 months in said country to understand the culture, learn the language, and see their options with the women.
They should also, if at all possible, consider relocating there instead of bringing her here. Once she is fully immersed in this, the very same culture he sought to escape in order to find her, all bets are off.
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12-06-2012, 02:00 PM
Quote: (12-06-2012 01:30 PM)Athlone McGinnis Wrote:
Quote: (12-06-2012 12:04 PM)Aliblahba Wrote:
My opinion is if a man wants to wife in another country, they need to spend 6-12 months in said country to understand the culture, learn the language, and see their options with the women.
They should also, if at all possible, consider relocating there instead of bringing her here. Once she is fully immersed in this, the very same culture he sought to escape in order to find her, all bets are off.
100%. If I had to marry RIGHT NOW, I'd be looking in (no particular order):
1. Japan
2. Germany
3. U.K.
4. OZ
5. Brazil (?)
6. Other W. Euro countries.
The point with these places is:
1. Middle class and up girls will suffer less from cultural shock if moving to the U.S.
2. These countries provide me a far better chance of relocating there, obtaining a work visa, and making decent coin, especially the OZ.
I've also noticed that guys marrying out of industrialized nations tend to stay married longer.
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12-06-2012, 03:57 PM
Implicit in the American woman's criticism is that foreign women are just all gullible and naive victims that these big bad men are taking advantage of. Sorry, Russian women in general are nothing like this. American women on this show equate material wealth with intelligence; they have it so they are smart, these Russian girls are poor so they are dumb.
Another factor, common to many women AND men, is the idea that the US is the be-all and end-all of everything worth having. Like your life could not possibly be any better in any other country in the world. Of course we know better. Yeah, if you want 2-day free delivery of anything imaginable to your door then the US is #1. But quality of life? Deep, meaningful friendships? Not #1 by a long shot.
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12-07-2012, 12:00 AM
I don't think its always a great idea to bring a foreign woman back to a country like the USA or Canada, from what I've seen, a lot of these third world cities aren't really as bad as people may imagine, especially Thailand and even Colombia, honestly I see more fucked up shit in the run of a day in my city of Edmonton, Canada than I see in Chiang Mai Thailand, I"m not exaggerating at all.
A few years back I dated a girl from Medellin who was studying in Edmonton (this was the main reason I eventually went to Colombia years later), and she would always say "I expected Canada to be a lot nicer than this", it wasn't until I actually went to Medellin and I saw for myself what she meant.
Obviously their experience will depend highly on where they are from and what city you bring them to.
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12-07-2012, 09:26 AM
This is actually a huge thing over in Sweden, which has the highest concentration of Thai brides in the world. They've even got the government involved in it, lol.