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12-03-2012, 02:55 PM
the worst thing that can happen to a newbie player (in my opinion), is to get a crush. This can depend on life experiences, but for me this thing gave me a false start on the game, kept me from learning the game, and the worst part is that I never really got a notch from that girl to. Fortunetly I got over her and kind of changed my perspective.
So, what's your take on this guys when it happens to you (suppose it does)?
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12-03-2012, 02:59 PM
Don't let it happen. For some, this may be hard to do if you've never gotten severely fucked over by a girl (cheated on in LTR type of thing) which allows you to create this emotional shield to prevent it from happening again. If you're one of those guys that hasn't been fucked over and has trouble preventing falling for a chick, it may just be a matter of time...unless you can discipline yourself and your psyche. Oneitis is also usually caused by not gaming enough and having a dry pipeline.
"...it's the quiet cool...it's for someone who's been through the struggle and come out on the other side smelling like money and pussy."
"put her in the taxi, put her number in the trash can"
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crushes
12-03-2012, 03:08 PM
Quote: (12-03-2012 02:59 PM)presidentcarter Wrote:
Oneitis is also usually caused by not gaming enough and having a dry pipeline.
This. The more girls you hit on, the less you will give a shit about each individual one.
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12-04-2012, 12:58 AM
If you're treating girls like you're treating this forum...Then I sense a very dry future for you young Skywalker.
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12-06-2012, 05:27 AM
Girls are commodities. A 7 is a 7. An 8 is an 8. The important thing to remember, is that an 8 isnt a 7. It's like money. Is one 100 dollar bill just as valuable as another 100 dollar bill? Absolutely.
Change the target of your "Crush" from a particular girl to "an 8". Will any 8 do? Absolutely.
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12-09-2012, 03:39 AM
what does your crush look like? does she have blonde hair? brown hair? blue eyes, green eyes? A way I got over this problem and could keep moving on is really liking a type of girl, like a girl with brown hair and blue eyes and approach everyone I see that I like. That way you can get rid of the scarcity mentality.
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12-11-2012, 02:59 PM
I agree with the guy who says you need to get your heart broken a few times. I am slowly learning this the hard way, and for sensitive souls I feel its the only way.