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12-03-2012, 02:48 PM
Language is a crucial part of game. I believe that understanding what, how, and why people say things and communicate is key towards improving. In fact, when people dis me for what I do and call it PUA, or other pejorative terms, I explain that all I'm doing is trying to get better at communicating with women.
I believe that game can be understood as an attempt to achieve a direct communication with girls. In this light, all the failures and rejections are seen essentially as miscommunication.
So, I'm creating this thread to discuss language/linguistics.
First topic that I've been thinking about is why do gay guys imitate the way women talk. This made me think, why do women talk like that in the first place?
My theory is that it's not that gay guys are imitating women; I think that both women and gay guys talk with the accent a of a submissive.
That nagging, slight lispy sound has an almost childlike quality.
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12-03-2012, 03:04 PM
Gay guys do it for attention pure and simple. How many of those flamers sounded normal the first 20 years of their lives and the second they come out of the closet they magically develop a lisp. Oh and not to mention bent wrists.
I guess as soon as you decide to be openly gay your brain has a mild stroke and you no longer talk normal or have any ligament or tendon strength in your wrists
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12-03-2012, 04:26 PM
On the other hand, there are butch dykes who take up "masculine" ways of speaking. This usually has a more laconic, dismissive tone.
I guess this just means that masculine is dominant and feminine is submissive.
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12-04-2012, 12:53 AM
I've only met a small handful of women who actually talked in that irritating tone. Not surprisingly, all of them had a large network of girly gay friends.
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12-04-2012, 01:24 AM
It is a submissive, non threatening tone AND it is definitely optional.
I've known gay guys who are "bottoms " don't speak like that.
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12-04-2012, 02:28 PM
Quote: (12-04-2012 11:59 AM)Technics Wrote:
Did it ever occur to you that maybe these guys know that they sound like a flamer if they allow themselves to speak natural and so they suppress that style of talking until they come out of the closet?
Quote: (12-03-2012 03:04 PM)BIGINJAPAN Wrote:
Gay guys do it for attention pure and simple. How many of those flamers sounded normal the first 20 years of their lives and the second they come out of the closet they magically develop a lisp. Oh and not to mention bent wrists.
I guess as soon as you decide to be openly gay your brain has a mild stroke and you no longer talk normal or have any ligament or tendon strength in your wrists
Is that even possible ? To have a lisp and hide it by talking properly ? I wonder if Jeff Garcia has been playing us all for fools all these years.
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12-04-2012, 03:15 PM
Yeah etymology is really interesting. It's strange sometimes how words are absorbed into languages and fascinating at the same time.
For example when the Normans dined at the table in England they would eat mouton, porc and boeuf. When the cook prepared the meal to him it would be sheep, pig and cow. Eventually over time these words got anglicised.
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12-04-2012, 03:16 PM
Anyone.. here pic up french as a second language. I mean actually fluent.
I am going to start studying soon.
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12-04-2012, 03:49 PM
Yes, Elabayarde, PM me if you're interested in suggestions for how to start off.
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12-05-2012, 12:57 AM
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12-05-2012, 02:53 AM
Hey Technics, would you mind sending me what you sent elabayarde, I'm trying to pick up French as well. Thanks.