Quote: (12-01-2012 01:05 AM)basilransom Wrote:
If I get swindled by a business partner once, does that mean every potential business partner is a con man? No. If you get duped by a raging whore, does that mean every other girl is a raging whore? No. This is just irrational paranoid thinking. The people who react with the most fervor, and get the most paranoid, are often the people who started out as the biggest saps. If you went in with a cool head, conscious of the risks, you're less likely to get duped. And even when you do, you don't become a paranoid mess.
I'm not talking about the OP, he's got his wits about him. This is directed at the 'OMG All girls are raging coke whores dying to get gangbanged' crowd. I myself never expect much, but am always open to finding quality. Low expectations, yet open-minded, ready to be pleasantly surprised. This is an ideal approach - you're not put off by shitty girls, but you're open to appreciating the better ones (whatever that is to you).
Sorry, this is an absurd argument. You are doing here what weak arguers often do -- assert that the extremes are what others think, and then stating that they are obviously extreme positions. In other words, your conclusions assume your premises. You are creating a false choice argument -- the favorite among sleazy politicians particularly.
Look, it's all a matter of degrees. Sure there are babes out there you can rope into your harem who might stay "faithful" to you even as you pursue and conquer fresh pussy. But chances are she has banged someone else in the near past. Chances are she will bang, or is banging someone else, when she is banging you. That doesn't make this hypothetical babe, to use your words, "a raging coke whore dying to get gangbanged."
No, what it makes here is your average sexually active woman in the feminist-laced social atmosphere of the early 21st Century.
Quote: (12-01-2012 01:05 AM)basilransom Wrote:
Quote: (11-30-2012 11:25 PM)tenderman100 Wrote:
If she is fucking you, the chances are close to 100% she is fucking someone else. The real question is this. Are you REALLY fucking her or are you the BETA guy she wishes she really WASN'T fucking. I never want to be that BETA guy. That's why I fuck married women. I am never the BETA guy.
This is like saying, 'I only fuck hookers. And I know they're banging 20 other dudes. Why do you think non-hookers are any different?' Uh, because they're not hookers. Lol, if you honestly think this way, you're a chump too.
Come on! Again, another argument that is a crock, asserting that what I do is equivalent to this extreme vision that you have in your head.
Think about it this way -- I don't know how many babes you have banged, but let's assume 25 in the last year or so. Of those 25, I bet at least 5 have banged a half a dozen guys in the last 18-24 months. So the next time you're plowing one of those 5 babes -- who indeed may be faithful to you in this phase of your and hers life -- remember you are going where 6 other dicks have been not too long before. Sure, sure, she's been a serial dater -- maybe you are too. But she hasn't been a nun until she's met you. She's been getting her rocks off as well.
In my situation, I know what I am getting. The odds are close to 100% that my married babes in my little rotation harem are only fucking me on the side. They tell me about their husbands. They tell me about their sex life with them, or the lack of it. They may have had a distant history of cock riding, but the current situation, or the situation over the last year or so, is obvious. It's the great fuck from me, and the obligatory non-exciting fuck from their husbands.
In other words, I know what I am getting into. You, on the other hand, are banging babes whose recent pasts, and perhaps even their current situations are unknown to you (unless the babe is living with you full time). And the next girl you pick up at the club, or with daygame, or from a social circle will, once again, start as -- and perhaps remain as -- a mystery to you.
Who is the chump then?