I've been seeing this girl for about 4 weeks and we've been on about 6 dates together (we had sex for the first time last week). Everything is going well and she's very much into me. I'm into her too and while I'm still going out, getting numbers, etc., I am thinking that this might turn into a longer-term relationship.
So.. she makes a lot of comments like "you're such a player, aren't you?" and other things about how I must get with a lot of girls. I don't try to convince her otherwise and I don't give her straight answers when she asks.
Last night I was out with her and she kinda surprised me with this question as we were kissing outside in a park: "why do you like me?" and then she walked off on her own for a bit. I didn't run after her or anything and we met up a minute later. The night continued normally, although she was a little colder when I dropped her off and she didn't invite me up to her place.
I wasn't really sure how to answer it, so I said that it was a ridiculous question and left it at that (figuring it was just a test). Now, I'm not so sure..
I'm wondering if she's worried that I just want her for sex and she's afraid that I'll bang her a few times and disappear.
How do I show her that I actually do like her as relationship potential without coming off weak or beta? I feel like I should say something to put her at ease.. is that just my old beta mindset leaking out? I want the relationship to proceed but I don't want to do something that's going to deflate all the attraction I've built up in the last month.
So.. she makes a lot of comments like "you're such a player, aren't you?" and other things about how I must get with a lot of girls. I don't try to convince her otherwise and I don't give her straight answers when she asks.
Last night I was out with her and she kinda surprised me with this question as we were kissing outside in a park: "why do you like me?" and then she walked off on her own for a bit. I didn't run after her or anything and we met up a minute later. The night continued normally, although she was a little colder when I dropped her off and she didn't invite me up to her place.
I wasn't really sure how to answer it, so I said that it was a ridiculous question and left it at that (figuring it was just a test). Now, I'm not so sure..
I'm wondering if she's worried that I just want her for sex and she's afraid that I'll bang her a few times and disappear.
How do I show her that I actually do like her as relationship potential without coming off weak or beta? I feel like I should say something to put her at ease.. is that just my old beta mindset leaking out? I want the relationship to proceed but I don't want to do something that's going to deflate all the attraction I've built up in the last month.