[Lukecan]

I dont know what to do, I'm speechless. Saw him secretely talking with someone, so I got suspicious when he went to the bathroom and had a look at this phone, hes exchanged like countless messages with some bitch.

The fact that he's cheating on my mom pissed me off a lot, I dont know whether I should tell my mom, I really dont want my parents to go through a divorce since my brother is only 12 years old I dont want him to experience something like this. What the hell do I do now?

[allgood]

(11-05-2012 05:21 PM)Lukecan Wrote:  

I dont know what to do, I'm speechless. Saw him secretely talking with someone, so I got suspicious when he went to the bathroom and had a look at this phone, hes exchanged like countless messages with some bitch.

The fact that he's cheating on my mom pissed me off a lot, I dont know whether I should tell my mom, I really dont want my parents to go through a divorce since my brother is only 12 years old I dont want him to experience something like this. What the hell do I do now?

God no, don't tell your mom. If anyone is going to tell her it has to be your dad. Talk to him and see what he has to say about it. You might be jumping to conclusions.

[Lukecan]

(11-05-2012 05:26 PM)allgood Wrote:  

(11-05-2012 05:21 PM)Lukecan Wrote:  

I dont know what to do, I'm speechless. Saw him secretely talking with someone, so I got suspicious when he went to the bathroom and had a look at this phone, hes exchanged like countless messages with some bitch.

The fact that he's cheating on my mom pissed me off a lot, I dont know whether I should tell my mom, I really dont want my parents to go through a divorce since my brother is only 12 years old I dont want him to experience something like this. What the hell do I do now?

God no, don't tell your mom. If anyone is going to tell her it has to be your dad. Talk to him and see what he has to say about it. You might be jumping to conclusions.

I'm 100% sure its an affair, the content says it all, its 18+

[Samseau]

Listen man, until you can pull of a marriage without getting bored of your wife, don't judge your father.

[Tengen]

Is she hot?

[Titan]

Dude, don't fucking say anything unless you want to ruin your lil bro's life.
Just get over it, i bet you have or will do the same thing in the future.

[presidentcarter]

That's some heavy shit but you're thread title made me laugh.

[allgood]

(11-05-2012 05:28 PM)Lukecan Wrote:  

I'm 100% sure its an affair, the content says it all, its 18+

Your dad might be a member of this forum. Don't deny him the same things you're looking for out of life. He's a man and he's taking what he needs. Don't ruin his life. If he wants to tell your mom and get a divorce, that's up to him. Go talk to him and try to understand his point of view.

[Wool Suit]

I'm going to tell you something that my grandad told me shortly before his death. He admitted he cheated on my grandma multiple times. He'd been married 50+ years to this woman and I knew he loved her.

Shocked me at first but then I realized she was the happiest lady I knew up until the day she passed. Moral of the story: pussy on the side doesn't mean anything. It's not a betrayal of the heart or anything so dramatic. Man just wants some ass.

If you do anything, confront him. Don't fuck up your family over something nearly everyone does.

[Kickb]

I suspect about my dad might be. I don't really care though.

Don't tell you mom, that's bitch behavior.

[megatron]

(11-05-2012 05:41 PM)Wool Suit Wrote:  

I'm going to tell you something that my grandad told me shortly before his death. He admitted he cheated on my grandma multiple times. He'd been married 50+ years to this woman and I knew he loved her.

Shocked me at first but then I realized she was the happiest lady I knew up until the day she passed. Moral of the story: pussy on the side doesn't mean anything. It's not a betrayal of the heart or anything so dramatic. Man just wants some ass.

If you do anything, confront him. Don't fuck up your family over something nearly everyone does.

Yep. Men aren't like women when it comes to getting some on the side. Men can screw around but still come home to their wives and treat them and the kids well. Women can't do this. If they have an affair, they get almost always get emotionally attached to their lover and loses all love and respect for her husband.

[Lukecan]

(11-05-2012 05:38 PM)allgood Wrote:  

(11-05-2012 05:28 PM)Lukecan Wrote:  

I'm 100% sure its an affair, the content says it all, its 18+

Your dad might be a member of this forum. Don't deny him the same things you're looking for out of life. He's a man and he's taking what he needs. Don't ruin his life. If he wants to tell your mom and get a divorce, that's up to him. Go talk to him and try to understand his point of view.

Dude, its different, I'm a bachelor he's married.

[Lukecan]

(11-05-2012 05:41 PM)Wool Suit Wrote:  

I'm going to tell you something that my grandad told me shortly before his death. He admitted he cheated on my grandma multiple times. He'd been married 50+ years to this woman and I knew he loved her.

Shocked me at first but then I realized she was the happiest lady I knew up until the day she passed. Moral of the story: pussy on the side doesn't mean anything. It's not a betrayal of the heart or anything so dramatic. Man just wants some ass.

If you do anything, confront him. Don't fuck up your family over something nearly everyone does.

I hope it turns out like this I'm gonna confront him tomorrow.

[Lukecan]

(11-05-2012 05:50 PM)Lukecan Wrote:  

(11-05-2012 05:41 PM)Wool Suit Wrote:  

I'm going to tell you something that my grandad told me shortly before his death. He admitted he cheated on my grandma multiple times. He'd been married 50+ years to this woman and I knew he loved her.

Shocked me at first but then I realized she was the happiest lady I knew up until the day she passed. Moral of the story: pussy on the side doesn't mean anything. It's not a betrayal of the heart or anything so dramatic. Man just wants some ass.

If you do anything, confront him. Don't fuck up your family over something nearly everyone does.

Edit..

[Tuthmosis]

You're going to cockblock your own father?! It's not he's cheating on you with another son. Have you learned nothing in your 71-posts-in-4-days?

[vinman]

Let it go.

[Caligula]

?

Your mother probably doesn't even want to know about it. As long as he's a good father and taking care of business, why the hell does it matter?

By all means talk to him about it if you feel the need, but keep in mind his perspective and don't do anything rash or stupid.

Yet another reminder not to snoop because you WILL find out shit you'd rather not know. Sane girls know this and will never snoop.

[Tuthmosis]

I can just see it now:

Tuthmosis as an Old Guy: "Where did you learn to cockblock like this? Answer me! Who taught you how to do this?"

Disappointing Beta Son: "You, alright! I learned it from watching you, dad!"

[el mechanico]

Did the OP say he's in Turkey and his dad is a diplomat? I bet the girl is delicious and that's a dream players job he has so it's his duty to our country to plow down the finest he can there. He's a true Patriot and a visionary paving the way through foreign lands one piece of tail at a time. If you can ride his coat tails.

[MikeCF]

The OP is either a troll or he needs a blankey to snuggle.

If it's the latter, don't worry, bro, there's a cure for being a punk-ass bitch.

Shut up for a while about your dad. Hang out here for a while. Then revisit the issue in a month.

[scorpion]

This is what happens when you start sticking your nose where it doesn't belong.

What made you feel like you had a right to go through your father's phone?

That's what snooping women do.

Here's some advice which will serve you well for the rest of your life, when it comes to avoiding not just situations like this, but many others with potentially negative consequences:

Mind your own fucking business.

[MikeCF]

Imagine having a son who narcs you out to your wife...

[soup]

Shit, I'd be proud if my dad was still able to pull at his age..

On the other hand, I'd be mortified if I found out my mom was cheating on my dad. But it doesn't matter because they divorced when I was an infant. I'd be angry that my dad allowed himself to get cuckholded, and that my mom was a slut.. a lot of shame.

But, the reverse is actually healthy- Dad with game, and a pure mother.

[MikeCF]

(11-05-2012 06:39 PM)soup Wrote:  

Shit, I'd be proud if my dad was still able to pull at his age..

On the other hand, I'd be mortified if I found out my mom was cheating on my dad. But it doesn't matter because they divorced when I was an infant. I'd be angry that my dad allowed himself to get cuckholded, and that my mom was a slut.. a lot of shame.

But, the reverse is actually healthy- Dad with game, and a pure mother.

An Italian wife (in front of her husband, who laughed too), "To cheat is Italian. To cheat and get caught is American."

Hell my mom is old and my dad probably doesn't want to fuck my mom. If she's getting it elsewhere, that's probably a relief to my dad. One less thing he needs to worry about.

This obsession with fidelity just fucks everything up.

Being old is hard enough as it is. Why deprive old people of sex, too?

[Timoteo]

If it really bothers you, find an opportunity to ask your dad about it. It isn't your place to confront him about it though. Ask, then sit and listen. Learn and understand. This can be some really valuable man shit. If you yourself get married later on in your life, you could find yourself in the very same place. If your dad were slapping your mom around, I would be all for you stepping in and protecting your mom. Not with this though. You really shouldn't have gone through your father's phone, but what's done is done.