[BostonBMW]

Fellas, I recognize that I will get some flack for this one. Particularly since most of us have strive to avoid getting a chica pregnant at all costs. I fully agree with that except recently.

I've been with this chica whose got a lot of things going for her: cooks, cleans, listens to what I have to say, I smash every time I see her, is pleasant to talk to etc. She's on the pill plus I pull my condom move (start raw, wrap it up a bit later).

Recently, while hitting it, I have had this desire to blast inside her, not once but pretty much every time I have started out raw. Not only that, I have actually don't mind if I knocked her up (male version of entrapment?). She loves babies, but is not looking to have one because of school. I, on the other hand, see her as a good potential mother. She's got that caring gene and is beautiful, intelligent= my offspring with her would be have upgraded genes.

So having said all of this: I am still a logical thinker and I am not interested in bring a child out of wedlock into this world. Besides, as much as I like things with her, my main focus is hustling towards financial stability (money over bitches) which is why I have been with her (as my top girl) in the first place.

Any advice? Should I start wrapping it up all the time?

[Moma]

How long have you known here? Wrap it up until you are 110 percent certain of her character (as much as one can be without being a soothsayer) because women can change once they have a child. They go through stages in life. They can be sweet one stage and extremely conniving in the other stage.

Check her out thoroughly. What's her mother like? Did she have a good relationship with her father? Any evidence of obvious mental disorder in the family? Any major family dysfunctions?

Remember, unless you are a walkaway dad, that you will have to see her for a following 18-21 years to correspond with your child.

If she passes all the markers, well...

[BostonBMW]

(10-29-2012 08:12 AM)Moma Wrote:  

How long have you known here? Wrap it up until you are 110 percent certain of her character (as much as one can be without being a soothsayer) because women can change once they have a child. They go through stages in life. They can be sweet one stage and extremely conniving in the other stage.

Check her out thoroughly. What's her mother like? Did she have a good relationship with her father? Any evidence of obvious mental disorder in the family? Any major family dysfunctions?

Remember, unless you are a walkaway dad, that you will have to see her for a following 18-21 years to correspond with your child.

If she passes all the markers, well...

Thanks Moma. I'll break it down:

I have known her for 8 months, see her 1-2 times a week. She's been pretty down to earth, no drama, always dresses up to see me, and just a quality chica. I am concerned about the stage issue too.

Believe it or not she's got a great relationship with her father (he's a big time surgeon) and is not a fan of her mother (she finds her overbearing an intrusive) but loves her. Her mother (haven't met her) but is a MILF in photos. She looked like a dime piece back in the day. No mental issues in the family, just a weed smoking brother (can't hate on that).

Basically I can't help myself with this one. I know its messed up and fully realize that I need to hold back. I have spent entire days in bed, smashing it 4-5 times. By the fifth time, I am running on empty yet I still want it.

When I don't see her, my friend gets hard thinking about her, my porn preferences have shifted to match pornstars that look like her. Shits getting weird. My other chica doesn't even get the same type of attention any more. I stop by her crib, bust a nut or two and bounce.

[bacon]

good luck brah. but if you think marriage validates love you are misinformed. if you like your chick thats cool but signing on to a legal contract only benefits the breadwinners spouse.

[Moma]

Boston, are you talking marriage here or are you just talking baby mother? If marriage, can you break down her background? What race is she? Did she grow up in America?

Even if you aren't talking marriage, I think you should just play it safe and hold out until you've seen her for 2 months.

Are you thinking of her just for gene propagation or you think you would like to be 'kind of' in her life?

If it's just gene propagation, I would say, scrutinise her for about 2 years. You've been watching her for 8 months so you have another 16 months to go.

If it's for the long haul, I would say watch her like Colombo. Go on a small trip with her, see how she acts outside of her comfort zone.

Because some lizards are very sweet in the preliminary stage and they turn into Komodo dragons after.
Not saying that to discourage you, I am just asking that you appeal to your male logic. Vet her as a doctor that is interested in switching to being an attorney (solicitor) would.

[BostonBMW]

(10-29-2012 08:35 AM)bacon Wrote:  

good luck brah. but if you think marriage validates love you are misinformed. if you like your chick thats cool but signing on to a legal contract only benefits the breadwinners spouse.

Maybe I'm losing it. Basically, been grinding at work and doing side projects to raise capital for investments. This has led me to cut down on gaming. I am down to this top girl + a FWB.

[bacon]

(10-29-2012 08:44 AM)BostonBMW Wrote:  

(10-29-2012 08:35 AM)bacon Wrote:  

good luck brah. but if you think marriage validates love you are misinformed. if you like your chick thats cool but signing on to a legal contract only benefits the breadwinners spouse.

Maybe I'm losing it. Basically, been grinding at work and doing side projects to raise capital for investments. This has led me to cut down on gaming. I am down to this top girl + a FWB.

in my opinion any guy who puts bmw in his username has got some unresolved shit.

[BostonBMW]

(10-29-2012 08:42 AM)Moma Wrote:  

Boston, are you talking marriage here or are you just talking baby mother? If marriage, can you break down her background? What race is she? Did she grow up in America?

Even if you aren't talking marriage, I think you should just play it safe and hold out until you've seen her for 2 months.

Are you thinking of her just for gene propagation or you think you would like to be 'kind of' in her life?

If it's just gene propagation, I would say, scrutinise her for about 2 years. You've been watching her for 8 months so you have another 16 months to go.

If it's for the long haul, I would say watch her like Colombo. Go on a small trip with her, see how she acts outside of her comfort zone.

Because some lizards are very sweet in the preliminary stage and they turn into Komodo dragons after.
Not saying that to discourage you, I am just asking that you appeal to your male logic. Vet her as a doctor that is interested in switching to being an attorney (solicitor) would.

My biological urge is impregnation+gene propagation. But the societal shit like marriage comes into play (as in my middle eastern parents will kill me, no joke, with a knife, if I got some lizard pregnant and didn't marry her). I think this is like having that dessert that you know is not good for you/having that one extra drink that will send you over type of situation.

She's white, born and raised in the USA (red flag I know).

I appreciate the real talk. You're definitely right about the 2 years + a few trips with her to see whats up. I'm going to start having to wrap it up again from jump.

Thanks for pulling me back from the brink, boss. I needed to have some parameters. Give her 2 years and see whats up.

[presidentcarter]

Yeah you need to do more "research". I was with a broad for 3.5 years and she pulled some shit that made me basically not know who she was anymore. She shape-shifted and ended up not having any of the values or integrity that I spent years thinking she possessed.

Just be careful. It sounds like you're enamored with her, which can cloud judgement. Remember thinking with feelings is a female trait, you need to stay analytical and rational.

[blackglasses]

(10-29-2012 08:05 AM)BostonBMW Wrote:  

Fellas, I recognize that I will get some flack for this one. Particularly since most of us have strive to avoid getting a chica pregnant at all costs. I fully agree with that except recently.

I've been with this chica whose got a lot of things going for her: cooks, cleans, listens to what I have to say, I smash every time I see her, is pleasant to talk to etc. She's on the pill plus I pull my condom move (start raw, wrap it up a bit later).

Recently, while hitting it, I have had this desire to blast inside her, not once but pretty much every time I have started out raw. Not only that, I have actually don't mind if I knocked her up (male version of entrapment?). She loves babies, but is not looking to have one because of school. I, on the other hand, see her as a good potential mother. She's got that caring gene and is beautiful, intelligent= my offspring with her would be have upgraded genes.

So having said all of this: I am still a logical thinker and I am not interested in bring a child out of wedlock into this world. Besides, as much as I like things with her, my main focus is hustling towards financial stability (money over bitches) which is why I have been with her (as my top girl) in the first place.

Any advice? Should I start wrapping it up all the time?

Honestly it is your life. But understand that once you have a child there is no turning back. Since you have stated your goals. DO NOT DO IT. The things that you are describing that you want will only be more difficult with a kid. just use a condom

[Samseau]

She's on the pill? What's the problem man, blast away.

[Dr. Howard]

(10-29-2012 10:46 AM)Samseau Wrote:  

She's on the pill? What's the problem man, blast away.

She's on the pill...here's the problem. Dated a girl, on the pill, no kids, really into me, really good at girl game but I wasn't moving in the direction she wanted.

I already have a kid from a previous marriage so I was getting a vasectomy, I had a consult and SUR FUCKING PRISE 'something' went wrong with her birth control and she ended up pregnant, and now having her as a live in maid that I bang is cheaper than forking out child support and hiring a separate cleaning service. Mind you I also won the lottery as her body was unaffected from pregnancy (a black upside of premature birth), she's attractive, never misses a trip to the gym, likes to cook, clean and look after the family and is only as emotionally manipulative as any other hot tan blond american woman out there. Things could be a whole lot worse but I still got gamed.

SO! Thats the problem if she's on the pill, she's in control, wear a condom, especially if she's really into you and thinks you might leave her.

PS, I got my vasectomy before the baby even came home, same hospital complex.

[Mujeriego]

Blast away and get it out of your system. Personally the novelty wears off after I do it once or twice. There's some girls who hit all of the right buttons and fill you with a primal urge to cum in them. I hate kids but recall thinking to myself "I wouldn't even be that mad if I got her pregnant" as I slipped the dress off of this stunner.

[Samseau]

(10-29-2012 12:16 PM)wiscanada Wrote:  

(10-29-2012 10:46 AM)Samseau Wrote:  

She's on the pill? What's the problem man, blast away.

She's on the pill...here's the problem. Dated a girl, on the pill, no kids, really into me, really good at girl game but I wasn't moving in the direction she wanted.

I already have a kid from a previous marriage so I was getting a vasectomy, I had a consult and SUR FUCKING PRISE 'something' went wrong with her birth control and she ended up pregnant, and now having her as a live in maid that I bang is cheaper than forking out child support and hiring a separate cleaning service. Mind you I also won the lottery as her body was unaffected from pregnancy (a black upside of premature birth), she's attractive, never misses a trip to the gym, likes to cook, clean and look after the family and is only as emotionally manipulative as any other hot tan blond american woman out there. Things could be a whole lot worse but I still got gamed.

SO! Thats the problem if she's on the pill, she's in control, wear a condom, especially if she's really into you and thinks you might leave her.

PS, I got my vasectomy before the baby even came home, same hospital complex.

While what you say is true, there are practical workarounds to prevent that sort of abuse. It's very simple:

1. Have her take the pill

2. WAIT until she misses her first period

3. Once she's confirmed with you that she hasn't been bleeding when she should be, you are 100% safe at this venture... she is temporarily infertile. Blast inside all you want.

4. After this one-week of freedom passes, go back to the pull out method, and wait until she misses her next period before you blast inside again.



By only blasting inside when she's missed her period, you'll make sure she's not gaming you. If at any time she bleeds you know you've got a woman who "forgets" to take her pill.


And don't use a condom, use the pull out method. It's just as effective and 10x the pleasure.

[scorpio]

sounds like dude is falling in...

to a dark pit.

[Dr. Howard]

(10-29-2012 02:29 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

(10-29-2012 12:16 PM)wiscanada Wrote:  

(10-29-2012 10:46 AM)Samseau Wrote:  

She's on the pill? What's the problem man, blast away.

She's on the pill...here's the problem. Dated a girl, on the pill, no kids, really into me, really good at girl game but I wasn't moving in the direction she wanted.

I already have a kid from a previous marriage so I was getting a vasectomy, I had a consult and SUR FUCKING PRISE 'something' went wrong with her birth control and she ended up pregnant, and now having her as a live in maid that I bang is cheaper than forking out child support and hiring a separate cleaning service. Mind you I also won the lottery as her body was unaffected from pregnancy (a black upside of premature birth), she's attractive, never misses a trip to the gym, likes to cook, clean and look after the family and is only as emotionally manipulative as any other hot tan blond american woman out there. Things could be a whole lot worse but I still got gamed.

SO! Thats the problem if she's on the pill, she's in control, wear a condom, especially if she's really into you and thinks you might leave her.

PS, I got my vasectomy before the baby even came home, same hospital complex.

While what you say is true, there are practical workarounds to prevent that sort of abuse. It's very simple:

1. Have her take the pill

2. WAIT until she misses her first period

3. Once she's confirmed with you that she hasn't been bleeding when she should be, you are 100% safe at this venture... she is temporarily infertile. Blast inside all you want.

4. After this one-week of freedom passes, go back to the pull out method, and wait until she misses her next period before you blast inside again.



By only blasting inside when she's missed her period, you'll make sure she's not gaming you. If at any time she bleeds you know you've got a woman who "forgets" to take her pill.


And don't use a condom, use the pull out method. It's just as effective and 10x the pleasure.

yep on pullout, simpler. The other proposal involves believing what the woman is telling you or monitoring her cycle like an obstetrical ninja.

[Prophylaxis]

You CANNOT trust a woman with birth control. Period. It goes against their very nature.

Also there are pill methods which do allow a period monthly and is still 'safe'. The fundamental problem is that the ~99% safety assumes the woman will take the course correctly and not 'miss' any days.

To the OP - Moma has great advice. Take her out on a spontaneous holiday and see how she copes. How old are you btw?

[Kaizen]

If u believe she is on the pill blast away. That's what I do...

[Roosh]

Your genes are about to sabotage your life.

[Nineteen84]

Prepare to be enslaved.

[Tuthmosis]

[Way Cool Jr]

I hope we will see a "male pill" in the future, and that this will happen before the next 20 years.
Unfortunately for what I know we are still quite far from having it.

[3rdmilleniummen]

Make sure you don't go beta when you start think you've found the one you want to settle down with. Read and re-read Heartiste's 16 Commandments of Poon. Then go marry her. If you want kids, marriage is the best thing possible for them.

E.g. THE well-being of Australia’s children and young people has declined alarmingly in the past decade – and plunging marriage rates are partly to blame, a major study has found. Growing rates of child abuse and neglect, of children being placed in foster care, and of teenage mental health problems, including a rise in hospital admissions for self-harm, are rooted in the rise of one-parent families and de facto couples, violent and unstable relationships, and divorce, the report says. http://3rdmilleniummen.wordpress.com/201...-marriage/

[Fatless]

Nobody mentioned trusting a woman on an IUD - it's not like she can "forget" to keep that thing inserted? I was seeing a girl with one and it was excellent. Blast off every time.

[oldnemesis]

(10-29-2012 10:46 AM)Samseau Wrote:  

She's on the pill? What's the problem man, blast away.

That's how we got our second kid. Be careful.