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10-28-2012, 03:35 PM
Anyone ever have girls tell them this or that they need to man up? Last night, a girl told me Im not a man because I wouldnt date a pregnant girl
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I just think its funny and weird when I hear it which seems to happen more often than years ago...
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10-28-2012, 03:52 PM
Maybe the guy who got her pregnant should date her instead.
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10-28-2012, 03:56 PM
So annoying. Sometimes it can be a positive though. Way back last year I was walking around with a girl I was banging. We were trying to find somewhere to eat. She was getting hungry and moody. I wasn't really hungry so I was doing the whole "wherever you want, i dont care, just pick something" She told me that a real man would just tell her where to eat. Its true women enjoy not having to make choices such as what to eat "we're getting thai food at __" Another time I was talking to a friend of a friend at this club (2 years ago) I was making fun of dudes who would stumble around and try to grind on every girl they saw. She says, 'yeah its creepy but at least they have the confidence to take what they want, thats what a real man does"
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10-28-2012, 04:11 PM
That's crap that people say to get you to do what YOU know that you shouldn't do. A confident man would ignore it.
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10-28-2012, 04:58 PM
My mother tells me that about once a week or some paraphrasing of that. Yet she expects me, although she claims not to, to help her when I leave next month for good. Part of me wants to cut her off for a few years and the other wants to continue to support her even though I know it's probably no good, now that she has 3 failed marriages behind her.
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10-28-2012, 05:49 PM
Just look at her derisively and say, "Well you're two women." Then give her the backturn. No point in trying to interact with that.
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10-28-2012, 06:00 PM
The moment you start taking any advice from a women as a grown man you should throw yourself off a cliff. That's the kind of attitude you need engrained in you when women say shit like this.
I would let her in on my inner monologue, "Haha, silly woman and her big ideas."
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10-28-2012, 06:05 PM
A similar/analogous harangue is the whole "mid-life crisis" accusation (for those that are around that age). What it really means is that you are spending too much time/money on things you enjoy and on yourself when you should be spending it on me i.e. the woman.
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10-28-2012, 06:15 PM
Just laugh at her! Fuck that bitch!
I would have been laughing hard as fuck saying "You're not a woman!" with a smile.
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10-28-2012, 06:22 PM
Quote: (10-28-2012 03:56 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:
So annoying. Sometimes it can be a positive though. Way back last year I was walking around with a girl I was banging. We were trying to find somewhere to eat. She was getting hungry and moody. I wasn't really hungry so I was doing the whole "wherever you want, i dont care, just pick something" She told me that a real man would just tell her where to eat. Its true women enjoy not having to make choices such as what to eat "we're getting thai food at __" Another time I was talking to a friend of a friend at this club (2 years ago) I was making fun of dudes who would stumble around and try to grind on every girl they saw. She says, 'yeah its creepy but at least they have the confidence to take what they want, thats what a real man does"
The flip side of this is that while women want men to make the plans/decisions, they often want to criticize or make changes to what you've done after the fact. They want it both ways. They don't really know what they want. They only know what they don't want after trying it out.
"The best kind of pride is that which compels a man to do his best when no one is watching."
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10-28-2012, 06:25 PM
Women always think men should overlook their mistakes, faults and poor decisions. The only benefit to "dating" a chick that's pregnant with another man's spawn is that you can skeet away raw, and know you can't get her pregnant. And then once she really starts showing you can't even get that...
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10-28-2012, 06:35 PM
The best thing about fucking a pregnant girl is you get pussy and head at the same time.
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10-31-2012, 07:24 PM
I just don't respond to people who say stupid shit like this. Literally just act as if they've said nothing. If they challenge me on it I just say "don't worry I heard you" then continue whatever I'm doing.
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10-31-2012, 08:59 PM
At the OP: so she a WOMAN thinks she knows better than you, a MAN how to be a man. Next thing you know she'll be telling you that urinating while sitting down is better than urinating standing up. These women have a lot of nerve. She needs to mind her own business and like RioNomad said, maybe the guy who got the girl pregnant should date her.
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10-31-2012, 10:27 PM
I actually have a few blue pill friends tell me this... Because for them a MAN is someone from a billboard, with qualities one cannot possibly possess...sad
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11-01-2012, 01:26 PM
Women have no idea what manhood is. Unfortunately, neither do many men.
I can't help but laugh when a girl says something about what it means to be a "real man" or that someone needs to "man up."
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11-01-2012, 01:33 PM
Some feedback is good, usually the kind that people won't say to you and you somehow overhear.
That feedback you got from that girl is bleh, whatever, don't take it to heart.
Depending on the type of mood I was in I woulda answered honestly (fuck that, I know as a man I could never raise someone else's kid for him) or teased her (would you date a man with 2 kids, with 4 kids, what if he was married too?).
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11-03-2012, 05:02 PM
This term of being "a real man" ends up being very elusive. Seems like everyone has their own theory of what a man is and how he ought to act. I think that rule nr.1 is to do your own thing and not care what others think. If you abide that rule, you will instinctively laugh when someone tells you something as ridiculous as "you're not a man".
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