Quote: (10-23-2012 03:58 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:
Quote: (10-23-2012 12:43 PM)hamburgerandbeans Wrote:
Quote: (10-23-2012 09:35 AM)Nudge Wrote:
Yeah dude if your stressing out about one little reply to a text then you care wayyyyyyyyyyyyy too much. Caring too much is needy and desperate, which is the number 1 turn off for girls. Please go and read Rooshs text messaging guide or re-read it 5 times over if you have already. I cant tell you how much it helped me out in the newb stage.
When your a beginner its best to text as little as possible and keep them short and to the point so you minimize your mistakes. Once you improve you can start getting more creative.
Ok well I will read it again but even though I am kinda desperate, when I am sending the text messages I am trying to do it in a way that does not seem desperate.
Quote: (10-23-2012 09:50 AM)Samseau Wrote:
If you aren't going to do exactly as I say, there's no point in helping you. I suspect you're a troll but if not then you're hopeless. Enjoy losing your girl
Ok well thanks for the help anyway. I do appreciate it but I have got to make my own decisions sometimes too. And I promise I'm not a troll. I don't think I would lose her. She is clearly very attracted to me otherwise she wouldnt have said i was hot when i first met her, then SHE wouldn't have tried to start a conversation with me, SHE wouldn't have asked for my number, SHE wouldn't have shown me her tattoos that were around the top of her legs/ass area, SHE wouldn't have said to me 'lets dance' etc.
You can lose her very quickly if you overkill with the texting, as mentioned before you will say too much or the wrong thing.
She has given you easy shit tests and you did not give the right answer.
I also get the impression you could have fucked her the same night, all this other stuff is wasting time and your about to drop the ball.
Set up a date at a pub and take it from there.
Trust me she will like you more if you stay aloof and quiet, not if you text every minute like a desperado.
Ok I let her send the last text and I haven't bothered texting her since then (that was yesterday at around 2pm and it is now 12:06 the next day). I'm not going to send any more texts but I am going to create a facebook event for a nightout and invite her to it on November 10th.
I want to take her home but there are a few things:
1) I don't want to come off as too desperate in person. I don't want to be like 'can i just come round to yours'?
2) My mate is giving me a place to stay for the night. I am pre-drinking at his house beforehand, I am taking all my stuff into his house like clothes for the next day a sleeping bag for the night etc. His mum is expecting me to be at his house. I don't really want to be rude to him and say 'i am coming out but not staying at yours'. Also last time I was making out with this girl, he briefly saw me kissing her and just went mad. He later apologised but i think he was jealous and if I stayed at this girls house this would make him even more jealous. If I tell him that I am staying at this girls house, he may be pissed off but also tell his mum that I won't be round because i am staying at hers and then there is the possibility she tells my mum and :/
3) If she says 'no', then things will be super awkward because I actually KNOW her and she is likely to tell all my school friends who are also my mates.
4) I've got a small dick (yeah i just admitted it on the internet) and shit could get embarrassing. Especially because she knows me and all my mates so she may start saying some embarrassing stories.
5) Her family would probably all be round her house. So it would be weird to have sex with her when her brother is there, her mum, dad etc. I have never met her parents either so they probably wont be happy if a random person comes home with her after clubbing (it is kind of obvious to her parents what we will be doing).
What was I meant to say to the easy shit tests?
I think she may have given me another shit test as well before. She said 'I love how we both haven't mentioned the kissing yesterday yet!' and then after a few more texts back and forth she said 'i've kissed a lot of the *name of school* people now... all have been when i am pissed LOL'. And I sent one back saying 'oh really. who have you kissed?'. She said 'don't even go there haha'. I said 'I bet it is steve williams lol. Cmon tell me who you kissed, i wont mention it to *name of school* people'. Btw steve williams is this super ugly, weird kid! She said 'NOOO haha i do have some standards! alex, kyle, u, jack etc'. I'm not sure if that convo was another shit test from her (specifically when she said 'don't go there')?
And she isn't really a very clever girl lol. She isnt mega slaggy but at the same time she probably just thought it was completely normal to pull up her skirt to show me her tattoos.
One other thing... at the beginning of the night she was taking pics with this guy (he's not a good looking guy at all so she wasnt interested at all). I was right next to him but I was having a conversation with someone else. Then she said 'ben! lets have a photo' so she took a pic. The next day I noticed she uploaded all the pics she had taken that night onto facebook and instagram apart from the photos I had been in with her. Not sure what to make of this really..?