Quote: (10-14-2012 02:51 AM)torontokid Wrote:
Quote: (10-13-2012 06:42 PM)blackglasses Wrote:
how do women expect us to respect them. I am motivated by sex and will openly acknowledge it. Even in the moment of passion I have the presense of mind to stop if I choose. Women are fucking weak and blame things things on their emotion. I am tired of dumbass women saying "I usually dont do this". At only 19 I feel like i literally want to hate-fuck all the girls i meet because of how annoying and stupid they are to deal with..
I read the threads of the girls that cheat with you guys only to go have their bf's pick them up. I fucking will never trust any bitch in my life. I learned the hard way what placing value on women does and I do not want to relive that hell. I am treating them solely as toys for my enjoyment. I will not buy a girl anything. I actually have the idea of playing super nice guy and banging a girl that will make me wait months and fall in love only to just bang once and NEVER CONTACT again. I actually hate dealing with women besides sex.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mo0d10Tl_...ture=g-u-u
Watch that video.
Women do what their emotions tell them do.
Their emotions can vary wildly, which is why they'll do something and they'll regret it etc.
Getting angry at women is like getting angry at the rain. Its pointless, a waste of time, and counterproductive. I know how you feel, younger women(especially in the West) are stupid as shit but you gotta be zen about it.
Another good video on the topic of BS-
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RcjY1o4Q6...ture=g-u-u
Trying to make sense of girls is a waste of time. Stop resisting it..... Western girls especially are ADD as shit.
That first video is great, a must watch. Here is an embed:
He's completely on about his "why so serious?" stance.
To further contextualize this, here's a status I saw from a female on facebook today:
"Never regret anything because at one time it was exactly what you wanted."
This is how they think, especially in the west. Emotions are the waves to be ridden, and they determine what action is worthwhile and what isn't. If she felt right about it then, it was right, and she can rationalize it as such in the future regardless of what she did. If she didn't feel right at the time, then it wasn't right. Sounds simple...
...but then perhaps she'll decide tomorrow that what was right before is wrong now, simply because she feels differently at this particular moment (hint: the girl who authored that status has not always expressed such a viewpoint, and could change it tomorrow).
Or she could decide that what was wrong then is right now, because her feelings have changed and what felt wrong then feels ok now. And maybe she'll come back around the next day and switch things up again because a change "just feels right" for her at "this stage" in her life, and its exactly what she "needs"...but then next week she feels out of place, so her change was wrong and needs to be curtailed for something that "feels right"...and so on, so forth.
I haven't even mentioned all the crazies that you, as an American male, will undoubtedly have run into already and will certainly continue to run into as time passes. They will make even less sense than what I mentioned above, and will generally be much less predictable.
This is a key to male sexual frustration: too much logic with women, too little understanding of their emotions. Let it all go, and you'll find yourself in a much better place, both romantically and spiritually. Quit fighting the emotional waves and holding them accountable to your own preconceived standards (which, as the video above outlines, should only be applied to men anyway). Instead, learn to either ride them or just let them flow.
Like I said, this stage (the rage) will pass, and that's coming from someone who spent some time there. It is just part of the growth process.
Know your enemy and know yourself, find naught in fear for 100 battles. Know yourself but not your enemy, find level of loss and victory. Know thy enemy but not yourself, wallow in defeat every time.