[blackglasses]

how do women expect us to respect them. I am motivated by sex and will openly acknowledge it. Even in the moment of passion I have the presense of mind to stop if I choose. Women are fucking weak and blame things things on their emotion. I am tired of dumbass women saying "I usually dont do this". At only 19 I feel like i literally want to hate-fuck all the girls i meet because of how annoying and stupid they are to deal with..

I read the threads of the girls that cheat with you guys only to go have their bf's pick them up. I fucking will never trust any bitch in my life. I learned the hard way what placing value on women does and I do not want to relive that hell. I am treating them solely as toys for my enjoyment. I will not buy a girl anything. I actually have the idea of playing super nice guy and banging a girl that will make me wait months and fall in love only to just bang once and NEVER CONTACT again. I actually hate dealing with women besides sex.

[Pappy]

There is hope my friend. You can look for a foreign woman who is well raised with a good family who protected her. Even in western worlds you can still find some traditional women in the country side, who are family oriented and who have never been in a bar in their life. They are more rare nowadays but it's possible. My best friend from high school found his wife when he was young and he's still with her. I don't think she would cheat on him because then the entire village would know

[blackglasses]

(10-13-2012 07:01 PM)Pappy Wrote:  

There is hope my friend. You can look for a foreign woman who is well raised with a good family who protected her. Even in western worlds you can still find some traditional women in the country side, who are family oriented and who have never been in a bar in their life. They are more rare nowadays but it's possible. My best friend from high school found his wife when he was young and he's still with her. I don't think she would cheat on him because then the entire village would know

sadly foreign traveling isnt feasible but ill look into it after graduation. Even seeing the girls in college causes me to have little faith in humanity

[el mechanico]

Read my thread on finding foreign girls on US soil..
http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-10664.html

About your rant..Would you be happy hanging with dudes all the time? Going out with no pussy on the table sucks. I've become a serial dater in the last few months/years I think. I agree some girls are retarded but that's nothing a couple shots of Vodka and a bowl toke wont fix. Just do your time it will get easier.

[cat_a_clysm]

(10-13-2012 06:42 PM)blackglasses Wrote:  

I feel like i literally want to hate-fuck all the girls i meet because of how annoying and stupid they are to deal with.

Sounds like a good plan

[blackglasses]

(10-13-2012 07:13 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Read my thread on finding foreign girls on US soil..
http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-10664.html

About your rant..Would you be happy hanging with dudes all the time? Going out with no pussy on the table sucks. I've become a serial dater in the last few months/years I think. I agree some girls are retarded but that's nothing a couple shots of Vodka and a bowl toke wont fix. Just do your time it will get easier.

i actually dont hang with dudes at all. all my time is spent on targets. Maybe that is my problem

[iknowexactly]

(10-13-2012 07:43 PM)blackglasses Wrote:  

(10-13-2012 07:13 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Read my thread on finding foreign girls on US soil..
http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-10664.html

About your rant..Would you be happy hanging with dudes all the time? Going out with no pussy on the table sucks. I've become a serial dater in the last few months/years I think. I agree some girls are retarded but that's nothing a couple shots of Vodka and a bowl toke wont fix. Just do your time it will get easier.

i actually dont hang with dudes at all. all my time is spent on targets. Maybe that is my problem

In people your age (19) [the chemical process known as] depression often manifests as anger and irritability. Because you are still forming a masculine identity of being hard, having unshakable mood; you aren't "allowed" to be sad, or feel pain, any of that "weak" stuff.

That's one possibility. Also, you might just be facing how self-centered people are. That's not the same as them being evil, or actively wanting to harm others. It's important to be understanding about human frailty, just because someone isn't perfect doesn't mean they're garbage.

[worldwidetraveler]

You're a little young to be hating yet. Wait until your first divorce. haha Seriously, don't let their nonsense affect you in such a way. Brush it off, leave the country or become a monk.

[R Smoov]

I get that feeling all the time too man. haha.
Shit gets like that sometimes.

[TheWolfHowls]

I definitely understand your anger topic creator. The nights that suck I feel that way, UNTIL then you do get to meet girls who are ideal and aren't poisoned by so much BS. Thank god for them.

[Saladin]

(10-13-2012 06:42 PM)blackglasses Wrote:  

how do women expect us to respect them. I am motivated by sex and will openly acknowledge it. Even in the moment of passion I have the presense of mind to stop if I choose. Women are fucking weak and blame things things on their emotion. I am tired of dumbass women saying "I usually dont do this". At only 19 I feel like i literally want to hate-fuck all the girls i meet because of how annoying and stupid they are to deal with..

I read the threads of the girls that cheat with you guys only to go have their bf's pick them up. I fucking will never trust any bitch in my life. I learned the hard way what placing value on women does and I do not want to relive that hell. I am treating them solely as toys for my enjoyment. I will not buy a girl anything. I actually have the idea of playing super nice guy and banging a girl that will make me wait months and fall in love only to just bang once and NEVER CONTACT again. I actually hate dealing with women besides sex.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mo0d10Tl_...ture=g-u-u

Watch that video.

Women do what their emotions tell them do.

Their emotions can vary wildly, which is why they'll do something and they'll regret it etc.

Getting angry at women is like getting angry at the rain. Its pointless, a waste of time, and counterproductive. I know how you feel, younger women(especially in the West) are stupid as shit but you gotta be zen about it.

Another good video on the topic of BS-

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RcjY1o4Q6...ture=g-u-u

Trying to make sense of girls is a waste of time. Stop resisting it..... Western girls especially are ADD as shit.

[TheWolfHowls]

^Very well said TorontoKid.

[Stitch]

Quote:

I learned the hard way what placing value on women does

You're only 19. Have you lost half your net value because your now ex-wife got a vagina tingle from another man? Then you learned the easy way. Trust me on this.

Having said that, at twice your age I've found and been seeing a really very wonderful woman for a year, and unfortunately am so burned that I feel unable to trust her in the long term. And that sucks, because it means that bad women cause men to distrust women in general, so the good ones (there are some) get burned and the cycle continues.

Basically, I blame the legal system. If it was just embarassment and loss of face when women act irrational, hey fine; roll your eyes and press on. When they can carve chunks out of your net worth when they act irrational, then you have to be really careful.

[iknowexactly]

(10-14-2012 02:51 AM)torontokid Wrote:  

Women do what their emotions tell them do.

Their emotions can vary wildly, which is why they'll do something and they'll regret it etc.

Getting angry at women is like getting angry at the rain. Its pointless, a waste of time, and counterproductive. I know how you feel, younger women(especially in the West) are stupid as shit but you gotta be zen about it.

Trying to make sense of girls is a waste of time. Stop resisting it.....

THIS-- They are in-the-moment; and generally pretty incapable of rationality beyond "Here's a light switch, if I push it up-- the LIGHTS ARE ON!"

They cannot turn off or ignore their emotions.

These things are also what make the women that aren't Feminism-Infected fun and more optimistic than men. They forget, like children, that life is doom, they're crazy enough to want to have KIDS and put SOMEONE ELSE through all this shit....they get more joy out of the everyday...

Also, in their defense, their emotions carrying them away are softer than mens'-- which is why women do much less murdering than men do. Statistics indicate women commit far, far less violence than men. Even though these stats are probably off because of white-knighting even for hoodrats, since they say is's about 6-1 or 7-1 M/F ratio for violent crimes, it's probably true.

http://bjs.ojp.usdoj.gov/content/pub/pdf/wo.pdf

And as an old guy, I think old-school hater feminism has [started to] jump the shark in Murka. Guys are so tame young women can't see why older women are so pissed off at them anymore.

[Spike]

See a shrink. It's not normal to hate on anything at that age. You should be a happy carefree young guy with his whole life in front of him.

Quite frankly you need to do something about this or you will end very bad. It is known that most serial rapists/killers were all women haters at very young ages or had major problems regarding them.
Having so much hate inside of you over girls is not normal. Get help.

[xsplat]

On the internet, you can find a clique of guys to commiserate with who are stuck in any of the stages of grief.

Anger especially.

When you seek out and surround yourself with peers who all share your stage of grief, it starts to look like a normal adaptation to a sick environment.

It is normal, but it's not healthy.

Go all the way to acceptance. It's the only way you'll have inner peace and happiness.

And that's what you want. Right?

[sixsix]

Stupid girl fucking a badboy: I wish my boyfriend was a nice guy. Nice guy left in the rain to masturbate to fatty porn.

You going after hot girls: I wish girls were trustworthy and loyal. Loyal, but perhaps homely girl stays oblivious to you.

See the similarity?

Girls are girls. Often very emotional and going up and down, left then right, just like their hormones. You know what? Same for guys. People are hormonal. Your anger is just a denial of your own failure to induce the qualities you want from a girl. It's normal and I felt the same when I was your age, but it is gay as fuck anyway. Unchanneled anger and bitterness are not emotions of a self directed and therefore attractive man.

Reading new age buddhist bullshit really helped me with that.

[Neo]

No reason to hate women man. I think this is a stage that a lot of guys go through when they get into the game.

How can girls cheat?
How can they be so disloyal?
She has a boyfriend and she fucked another guy, wtf?

What's happening is there's a disconnect between the beliefs that society taught you and actual reality. This is causing anger and conflict.

The thing to realize is that we are all humans capable of making lots of mistakes, men and women.

What's happening though is that you are overgeneralizing. While our biology and basic behavior are ingrained, not all women are getting raw dogged by multiple men. Some girls are content having one guy and having regular sex with him for life. Take things on a case by case basis.

Also as men we need women in our lives one way or another, can't avoid that. Might as well have fun with them and not take things too seriously.

[blackglasses]

(10-14-2012 07:39 AM)Neo Wrote:  

No reason to hate women man. I think this is a stage that a lot of guys go through when they get into the game.

How can girls cheat?
How can they be so disloyal?
She has a boyfriend and she fucked another guy, wtf?

What's happening is there's a disconnect between the beliefs that society taught you and actual reality. This is causing anger and conflict.

The thing to realize is that we are all humans capable of making lots of mistakes, men and women.

What's happening though is that you are overgeneralizing. While our biology and basic behavior are ingrained, not all women are getting raw dogged by multiple men. Some girls are content having one guy and having regular sex with him for life. Take things on a case by case basis.

Also as men we need women in our lives one way or another, can't avoid that. Might as well have fun with them and not take things too seriously.

I understand but after learning game. I have seen a pattern of girls saying that i am an asshole and still hooking up with me. They wonder where the nice guys have gone but they are rewarding "assholes". I am getting laid but it almost pains me to hear this stuff.

[blackglasses]

(10-14-2012 02:48 AM)TheWolfHowls Wrote:  

I definitely understand your anger topic creator. The nights that suck I feel that way, UNTIL then you do get to meet girls who are ideal and aren't poisoned by so much BS. Thank god for them.

I cannot wait till that day. Hopefully I can travel to some of those countries you guys on the forum mention where traditional gender roles still exist

[Timoteo]

Don't let yourself hate women. If anything, pity them because they really can't help how they are. Game is all about navigating past the nonsense and getting what YOU want. Don't hate fuck (well...and occasional hate fuck is okay...HA HA!), but let yourself stay in a place where you're really enjoying each bang. Even letting a little momentary affection slip in while you're pounding out one of these tricks isn't a bad thing. Then move on to the next. Let it all be a game, a game that YOU'RE winning. If a bitch is making you feel like you hate her, move on from her.

[TheWolfHowls]

(10-14-2012 11:43 AM)Timoteo Wrote:  

Don't let yourself hate women. If anything, pity them because they really can't help how they are. Game is all about navigating past the nonsense and getting what YOU want. Don't hate fuck (well...and occasional hate fuck is okay...HA HA!), but let yourself stay in a place where you're really enjoying each bang. Even letting a little momentary affection slip in while you're pounding out one of these tricks isn't a bad thing. Then move on to the next. Let it all be a game, a game that YOU'RE winning. If a bitch is making you feel like you hate her, move on from her.

+1 rep easy! I think the anger is a good thing. It motivates us to really achieve that end goal, to where when we do...it'll feel that much sweeter.

In reality, when we say we hate women...we don't literally hate them. Its more on the lines of just extreme fustration with them making it hell for us.

And your definitely right, being at the place where you can enjoy the bangs. No point going to places where the chicks are just not down and want to make things impossible. Its like what happened last night. Was at a cougar bar. Quite a few of the girls didn't want to do much of anything. I felt the hate because they didn't even want to dance or talk. But then i randomly bumped into a girl that was my type who was having a good deal of fun and what not and was all receptive. Was a huge shocker. That was a reminder that we just need to target the right places and be at the right place. But the benefit of having to deal with alot BS is that it levels us up to where when we are at the right place, we have so much experience that we can take full advantage vs back when we first started.

[Veloce]

careful with that axe, eugene...

[blackglasses]

(10-14-2012 01:36 PM)TheWolfHowls Wrote:  

(10-14-2012 11:43 AM)Timoteo Wrote:  

Don't let yourself hate women. If anything, pity them because they really can't help how they are. Game is all about navigating past the nonsense and getting what YOU want. Don't hate fuck (well...and occasional hate fuck is okay...HA HA!), but let yourself stay in a place where you're really enjoying each bang. Even letting a little momentary affection slip in while you're pounding out one of these tricks isn't a bad thing. Then move on to the next. Let it all be a game, a game that YOU'RE winning. If a bitch is making you feel like you hate her, move on from her.

+1 rep easy! I think the anger is a good thing. It motivates us to really achieve that end goal, to where when we do...it'll feel that much sweeter.

In reality, when we say we hate women...we don't literally hate them. Its more on the lines of just extreme fustration with them making it hell for us.

And your definitely right, being at the place where you can enjoy the bangs. No point going to places where the chicks are just not down and want to make things impossible. Its like what happened last night. Was at a cougar bar. Quite a few of the girls didn't want to do much of anything. I felt the hate because they didn't even want to dance or talk. But then i randomly bumped into a girl that was my type who was having a good deal of fun and what not and was all receptive. Was a huge shocker. That was a reminder that we just need to target the right places and be at the right place. But the benefit of having to deal with alot BS is that it levels us up to where when we are at the right place, we have so much experience that we can take full advantage vs back when we first started.

So what you are saying is my venue selection might be the reason for my issue. The problem is I take 18 credits and work so free time is limited. The only approaches I have done are in the cafeteria/class. I find it still difficult to cold approach.

[Excelsior]

Hatred is a part of the transition to the red pill. This stage will pass.