A buddy and I hit up a lounge in Toronto this past weekend. Out of 100+ people, we spotted maybe three 2-sets of girls in the entire venue. The rest was comprised of big sets - either big mixed sets of guys and girls hanging out as friends, or big groups of 4+ girls, and a bunch of thirsty dudes on the prowl.
Clearly, this is a common enough phenomenon for an internet meme to have gone viral:
We wondered why there are so few 2-sets at bars and clubs nowadays, and attributed it to Facebook and online dating. Whereas single women in 5-10+ years ago went to "singles bars" actively looking to meet new men, today they're sitting at home in their PJs on Facebook and POF/OKC searching for Mr. Right/Mr. Right Now. Do "singles bars" even exist anymore?
So girls go out in big groups to "party", get attention/validation/free drinks for the night, go home and discreetly booty text their FWB/fuck buddy/ex BF, and get some good sex for the night. Why go home with a random creeper and look like a slut in front of all your friends when you've got dick on tap 24/7 via your smartphone?
This is even more true for smartphone-addicted college girls with vast social circles. And this is also why tourists, cougars and "new to the city" women are easier to pull - they don't have access to vast social circles with dick on tap.
All this leads to far fewer guys pulling from a pure cold approach today than in 2002. Not because guys today have shitty game, but because the number of single women at bars and clubs actually looking to hook up has gone way down. And all due to the explosion of social networking, online dating and smartphones in the past decade, giving girls constant attention, validation and access to an infinite supply of dick.
Thoughts? Particularly interested in hearing from the older 30+ American/Canadian cats if they've also witnessed this change over the years.
Clearly, this is a common enough phenomenon for an internet meme to have gone viral:
We wondered why there are so few 2-sets at bars and clubs nowadays, and attributed it to Facebook and online dating. Whereas single women in 5-10+ years ago went to "singles bars" actively looking to meet new men, today they're sitting at home in their PJs on Facebook and POF/OKC searching for Mr. Right/Mr. Right Now. Do "singles bars" even exist anymore?
So girls go out in big groups to "party", get attention/validation/free drinks for the night, go home and discreetly booty text their FWB/fuck buddy/ex BF, and get some good sex for the night. Why go home with a random creeper and look like a slut in front of all your friends when you've got dick on tap 24/7 via your smartphone?
This is even more true for smartphone-addicted college girls with vast social circles. And this is also why tourists, cougars and "new to the city" women are easier to pull - they don't have access to vast social circles with dick on tap.
All this leads to far fewer guys pulling from a pure cold approach today than in 2002. Not because guys today have shitty game, but because the number of single women at bars and clubs actually looking to hook up has gone way down. And all due to the explosion of social networking, online dating and smartphones in the past decade, giving girls constant attention, validation and access to an infinite supply of dick.
Thoughts? Particularly interested in hearing from the older 30+ American/Canadian cats if they've also witnessed this change over the years.