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10-10-2012, 03:00 PM
I suppose it depends on the rejection. If a girl says no or is rude in a club I just keep trucking, usually I walk up to another girl immediately in view of the first one and complain about how crazy that first chicka is. Gotta keep it funny and happy, don't let people spoil your vibe. Bad vibes lower lays.
If I took a girl home and she rejected me there it's a bit tougher, but normal freeze out or steps back and reset game until she leaves or you get bored.
I think if you took a girl home and she rejected you cause she hated your dick(too big, too small), or if she rejected you in a needlessly loud and vocal way in public ('Fuck off you creep', or 'I don't want to talk to you pervert') it'd probably take a while to get over it, hell at times it might be better to just call the girl a cunt and change location.
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10-10-2012, 03:05 PM
it is base on when I meet the next 8 or 9...they tend to erase the memories of others girls quickly...7's don't erase the memories of other chicks to well.
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10-10-2012, 03:19 PM
I treat rejection like a Sienfeld episode....Dude is always having chicks blow out on him after something he says or some crazy shit that offends them.
The chick is grabbing her purse and jacket all huffing and puffing and he's standing there with his arms out and he's like " Wuh...?....wait,..where are you going? With a faint half smirk on his face.
And she's like "you are DISGUSTING!....sick sick sick!...and storms out the door.
....and then Jerry sticks his head out the door into the hallway and yells "I'll call you"
I treat every rejection exactly like that.
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10-10-2012, 07:54 PM
Quote: (10-10-2012 11:47 AM)soup Wrote:
2. Meet girl for tea, we go to the pier, come back here.
3. Meet a girl in the middle of the day for tea.
4. Met a girl at closing time on a Saturday night. It takes all of three minutes of convo and we're in a cab headed back to my place
5. Meet a girl for a drink on a weeknight. She doesn't drink booze,
Are these are all first dates from the internet? Let's put things in perspective here. You are great at finding dates and getting them back to your place. Betas would complain about this shit happening on the tenth date. In reality you saved a lot of time with cold fish who were not into you or who have low sex drive.
You seem to have great logistics, but are pushing a lot of tough situations. Two day dates, and one girl who doesn't drink. Is anyone regularly nailing first dates in the daytime without booze! You spend three minutes with one girl at closing time and can't complain about bad use of time.
But if the time is valuable then you need to screen for sluttier dates and spend more time forging a stronger connection.
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10-10-2012, 11:03 PM
I don't care if I get rejected. Zero fucks given. It just doesn't register. I'm really a very, very callous person.
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10-10-2012, 11:33 PM
Just remember you're not really getting rejected at any discernable level unless they know your personality and who you are. If it's just some chick online she's rejecting your profile and what you showed her not you.
Also try to think of it as something wrong with them. The harshest rejection I ever got was in a semi crowded bar/restaurant. This table of girls kicked me out and started screaming like children. Sure I said some assholish stuff, but walking out of there I was thinking "what the fuck is their problem, whatever I'm gonna go home and get a good night's rest"
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10-11-2012, 01:53 AM
If he hit them up online and got them back to his place he is getting rejected. Why, I really don't know other than I kinda think his place is turning them off. Online has little to do with it once they agree to go to your place. Usually that means they are DTF in a big way.
At the same time, online broads I make sure are warmed up and good to go before I ever meet them via text. No brag here, but I will claim a 90% close rate on online broads I meet. I don't hurry things though. I play a lot of text game to make sure they are sufficiently warmed up.
Like I say, I think his place may be the issue. Not saying a guy needs a pimped out pad, but a shithole will turn them off.
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10-11-2012, 08:22 AM
Thats the type of rejection that annoys me. Reason number one why i use lots of sexual verbal game with western girls, this way they know what i want before they get to my house.
Whats interesting about your case is that you are taking these girls home on the same day you meet them and then they dont want to release the pussy. I would say that after the kissing, you should whisper very sexual stuff in their ears such as "i want to lick your pussy till you come in my mouth babe", if you have a defined body you should also take off your tshirt to make it more sexual. Samseau had other great points on this.
If it was just one girl, i would find this normal but you took many girls to your home in the last few weeks that you didnt close, there may be something you are doing wrong or something wrong with your place as the other user said.
I usually get over rejections pretty quick but some rejections are just pretty stupid, reason number one why i think women are really silly beings. I went to see this girl from the pharmacy that i approached the day before(i shared this on the other thread), when i was walking inside the pharmacy and she saw me, she started hiding, i thought to myself wtf, who does this dumb ass shit, bitch you are in your early 30s and you dont have the confidence to tell a man that you are not interested or at the very least lie to him that you have a man and case closed. I think is immature to ask a guy to go to your workplace and then start hiding.
I had a friend that used to get pretty mad at girls who directly told him that they were not interested (he used to cuss them right there and then), i had more respect for these type of girls then girls that give you their numbers and then flake on you.
Also some girls are just pretty stupid, i had this bitch that came to my place not too long ago and didnt want to fuck and she told me "oh, i thought you only wanted me to be your friend", i thought to myself "WTF".
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10-11-2012, 08:41 AM
soup, describe your pad. Is your pad clean? Does it have lizard friendly decor?
The only reason I ask about your pad is cos mine was rubbish and I KNOW it cost me bangs.
If it's the kiss, maybe you are not a good kisser? Remember, lizards won't say anything but it's how they behave that's the question.
It has to be something, a lizard expects to fcuk if she goes to your place. You've already won the battle. For the finishing move not to occur, you must have done something to fcuk things up.
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