Gentlemen,
I have a theoretical question as well as an anecdote that I would like advice on as well:
I picked up this girl during orientation week; skinny, brunette, big brown eyes, etc. etc. - a nice piece. She's an astute christian and makes damn sure she makes it to church at least once a week. This obviously having to do with the way she was raised would lead me to believe that was why she was a virgin up until your protagonist (cruisenchubby) entered in on stage left.
The first night I hung out with the girl we ended up watching a movie in her dorm (a single). She was easy to talk to and we clicked. Her body language was a bit awkward, not in a sense that she was closed off to be, but more in an inexperienced way. As it got later, I summoned my sexual gumption and made things happen.
Naturally, things got a little messy (her bed though; not my problem). There was a little more beard on the clam than I would prefer, but I doubt she anticipated gettin' mowed that night anyways. Sorry, that's neither here nor there.
So here are the facts in question: 1) she lost her virginity to me; 2) When we hang out, there is undeniable chemistry; 3) She will always refer to me as hun, babe, etc (relationship like terms) when texting.
The part that throws me off though...is that this girl is playing typical alpha game. Our back and forth gaming is a ping-pong like courtship, long and dragged out, more difficult than need be. But, weirdly enough, it's working for...well...both of us.
If she texts me at noon, I will wait text back an hour later. She will then text me back 2 hours later. I will wait 5-6, etc. This goes on to the point where it will be days between texts. If I call her and she doesn't answer, then she calls me back, I won't answer either. So we play butt hurt phone tag all day.
I won't get into every specific but this happens in almost every aspect of our dalliances. Even meeting up when we're out at parties:
Her: "Hey, it's [Friend's name] birthday party, you should come!"
CC: "We're having people over at our house tonight, text me later if you venture out."
Her: "Okay, I will. But I really want you to come here."
etc. etc. ad nauseum.
I'm still spinnin porcelain as a young man should be, but I can't help to take a liking to this girl. Call it beta or needy if you must, but I don't see it that way. Sometimes it's just nice to have a fun connection. Even goes to show me that our own game can work on us.
My question is: If a girl is using your game (whether it be on you, or just to counter yours)... What do you do?
I can crank up the aloofness and disappear for a month; text her friends; walk down the isle during a sermon in a devil's outfit; etc.
or...
I could simply eliminate the bullshit. I could text her back right away, go to her venues, cave and tell her I miss her too, etc.
Comments and advice well anticipated.
Thanks as always,
-Your Chubby
I have a theoretical question as well as an anecdote that I would like advice on as well:
I picked up this girl during orientation week; skinny, brunette, big brown eyes, etc. etc. - a nice piece. She's an astute christian and makes damn sure she makes it to church at least once a week. This obviously having to do with the way she was raised would lead me to believe that was why she was a virgin up until your protagonist (cruisenchubby) entered in on stage left.
The first night I hung out with the girl we ended up watching a movie in her dorm (a single). She was easy to talk to and we clicked. Her body language was a bit awkward, not in a sense that she was closed off to be, but more in an inexperienced way. As it got later, I summoned my sexual gumption and made things happen.
Naturally, things got a little messy (her bed though; not my problem). There was a little more beard on the clam than I would prefer, but I doubt she anticipated gettin' mowed that night anyways. Sorry, that's neither here nor there.
So here are the facts in question: 1) she lost her virginity to me; 2) When we hang out, there is undeniable chemistry; 3) She will always refer to me as hun, babe, etc (relationship like terms) when texting.
The part that throws me off though...is that this girl is playing typical alpha game. Our back and forth gaming is a ping-pong like courtship, long and dragged out, more difficult than need be. But, weirdly enough, it's working for...well...both of us.
If she texts me at noon, I will wait text back an hour later. She will then text me back 2 hours later. I will wait 5-6, etc. This goes on to the point where it will be days between texts. If I call her and she doesn't answer, then she calls me back, I won't answer either. So we play butt hurt phone tag all day.
I won't get into every specific but this happens in almost every aspect of our dalliances. Even meeting up when we're out at parties:
Her: "Hey, it's [Friend's name] birthday party, you should come!"
CC: "We're having people over at our house tonight, text me later if you venture out."
Her: "Okay, I will. But I really want you to come here."
etc. etc. ad nauseum.
I'm still spinnin porcelain as a young man should be, but I can't help to take a liking to this girl. Call it beta or needy if you must, but I don't see it that way. Sometimes it's just nice to have a fun connection. Even goes to show me that our own game can work on us.
My question is: If a girl is using your game (whether it be on you, or just to counter yours)... What do you do?
I can crank up the aloofness and disappear for a month; text her friends; walk down the isle during a sermon in a devil's outfit; etc.
or...
I could simply eliminate the bullshit. I could text her back right away, go to her venues, cave and tell her I miss her too, etc.
Comments and advice well anticipated.
Thanks as always,
-Your Chubby