[soup]

Met this bitch offline and we had sex, but she wouldn't go down on me "on a first date".

I don't understand why it's OK to have sex on first date, but BJs are taboo. Maybe it's because there's no condom.

I decided to treat it like any other barrier that comes up in the game. I slowly and persistently out-willed her. Little by little, she crumbled and eventually took my dick in her mouth.

Here's what I did:

Made sure to plow her well in sex. After, we were hanging, but she wanted some more dick. She kept jerking me off and telling me that she wasn't going to go down. She told me that she wanted to, but wanted to leave something mysterious for next time, so she wasn't going to do it. I made it clear that I wanted her to go down and I didn't think it was such a bad thing for her to do etc. She kept resisting until I flipped the script.

I told her, "you're right, I don't want you to do it. I want you to go down on everything but it."

So, she went down and started kissing/licking around my groin and my balls etc. I could tell that she was trying very hard to resist taking it in her mouth. Then she came up.

I told her "I really want to fuck you. Give me a preview"

She wanted to really bad, so I didn't do anything after that.

She realized what I was doing, and said "you're going to make it hard for me."

I told her something like she missed a spot around my stomach or something. So, she went down again and kissed my stomach etc., but this time she was grazing the shaft with her mouth. She REALLY wanted to suck it.

We stood up and started getting ready to fuck and I kept persisting that she do it.

Eventually, she did and said "There's your preview."

I didn't nut in her mouth, but instead decided to reward her with a pussy rogering.

[Joseph_Dantes]

ASD I reckon.

Sex can just happen, blow jobs are on purpose.

[HiFlo]

What difference does it make if she fucks but doesn't blow the first time? Some strange bitches have hangups about blowjobs but not sex for ONSs.

[thebassist]

(09-30-2012 11:13 PM)soup Wrote:  

Met this bitch offline and we had sex, but she wouldn't go down on me "on a first date".

Weird, usually it's the other way round- blowjobs but resistance to actual penetration.

[Pappy]

If you don't care about the girl, force her. Once I was on first date with a girl in a park at night, and we were in the bush. We were kissing half naked and were pretty far into it and about to fuck, but I had no condom so I didn't want to do it. I told her to close her eyes, kissed her and touched her some more, then mounted her quick and put my dick in her mouth. She was surprised and didn't like it much, but it still did the job.

[ZonZon]

Quote:

"Sex can just happen, blow jobs are on purpose."

Awesome line!

More to the point, why would you want to force it? I hate indecision in a woman! But, then again, I hate pretending I am selling a used car when I am honry and with a woman where we should ALREADY BE BEYOND THIS POINT. I think it is childish. I prefer a little DOM in my girls. Otherwise, they can just keep that golden pussy for the next "lucky guy."

One thing you can't forget ... God made ALOT of women. There are good fits everywhere, perfect sometimes.

[Smitty]

(09-30-2012 11:13 PM)soup Wrote:  

Made sure to plow her well in sex. After, we were hanging, but she wanted some more dick. She kept jerking me off and telling me that she wasn't going to go down. She told me that she wanted to, but wanted to leave something mysterious for next time, so she wasn't going to do it.

I wonder if it's only in America where women will let you ravage their pussy a few hours after meeting for the first time, but want to save oral and anal sex for a special time.

[Samseau]

(10-01-2012 02:45 AM)thebassist Wrote:  

(09-30-2012 11:13 PM)soup Wrote:  

Met this bitch offline and we had sex, but she wouldn't go down on me "on a first date".

Weird, usually it's the other way round- blowjobs but resistance to actual penetration.

This has been my experience.

I think I've had maybe one girl who wouldn't give me a BJ. She was one of the oldest girls I've banged at the ripe old age of 29.

[RandalGraves]

Girls I've been with have been hit or miss with liking BJs... mostly hit, though, as I think the modern trend is to be into it.

One girl I was hooking up with in my car refused to go down on me. But immediately after, she agreed to the backseat and we had sex. Strange the way girls think sometimes.

[TennisPlayer]

I feel your pain

[soup]

I've heard this from at least four different girls this year that I've fucked:

"I don't go down on the first date"

It must be some kind of meme that's floating around. Most of them acquiesced regardless.

[HiFlo]

Just out of curiousity, are you manscaping?

If you're a hairy best around your genitals, maybe she doesn't want to go down on that?

[soup]

(10-01-2012 12:27 PM)HiFlo Wrote:  

Just out of curiousity, are you manscaping?

If you're a hairy best around your genitals, maybe she doesn't want to go down on that?

Manscaping is a west coast thing.

[j r]

When I was younger it wasn't uncommon to find Jewish girls who sucked a lot of dick, but wouldn't fuck and Catholic girls who fucked, but didn't suck dick. Lately though, I haven't encountered any woman who won't suck dick.

The last chick that I can remember who didn't want to go down was a Polish chick who said something to me like, "you really want me to give you this French love?"

[chyamor]

I can easily find a women who sucks, finding a girl who swallows is like winning the lottery.

[Timoteo]

Supposedly with the advent of hook-up culture, even young girls are as quick to suck dick as they are to kiss. Knob polishing has been reduced to a casual act. A couple of years ago I encountered a chick that wouldn't resuscitate my dick, but she was REALLY strange. She wouldn't even touch it with her hands. Other than her, most chicks hit it without me even having to coax them. They just grab and go...

[soup]

Not-swallowing is another new trend I've noticed. I think we should all write to congress about getting some legislation passed on this already:

If you are going to slob the knob, then you must finish the job

[Wargasm]

(10-01-2012 06:46 PM)soup Wrote:  

Not-swallowing is another new trend I've noticed. I think we should all write to congress about getting some legislation passed on this already:

If you are going to slob the knob, then you must finish the job

i've had the opposite occurring recently. Every girl who's sucked my dick since I graduated high school has swallowed. I'm in my early 20's though and all these girls have been the same age to a couple years younger.

[MrXY]

Recently, I've had a lot more girls who wold fuck me but not blow me the first time.

As for swallowing, I've had maybe one third who will from the start, another third who will eventually, and the rest never will.