Posts: 196
Threads: 0
Joined: Feb 2012
Reputation:
0
So I just got this text
09-24-2012, 05:39 PM
Went on date with her, kissing no bang
Advice?
Hit her up a few days later, was going to get her out again.
"whats up..."
Her response: "hey how was your flight mister....
"And don't take this the wrong way but I'd rather be just friends if that's ok.. Ur super cool! But as u know I am a man hater right now lol"
Posts: 1,832
Threads: 0
Joined: Sep 2013
Reputation:
35
So I just got this text
09-24-2012, 05:45 PM
Huge ass red flag that says "too much work". On to the next one.
"...it's the quiet cool...it's for someone who's been through the struggle and come out on the other side smelling like money and pussy."
"put her in the taxi, put her number in the trash can"
Posts: 233
Threads: 0
Joined: Sep 2012
Reputation:
7
So I just got this text
09-24-2012, 05:54 PM
i think a girl saying straight up she'd rather be friends means you should forget that you ever met her and move on
Posts: 58
Threads: 0
Joined: Aug 2012
Reputation:
0
So I just got this text
09-24-2012, 05:57 PM
If you do decide to be friends, meat her friends asap.
and that's meat with an A
Posts: 5,822
Threads: 0
Joined: Oct 2011
Reputation:
72
So I just got this text
09-24-2012, 05:59 PM
I agree with President Carter as to the red flag but if you have time on your hands, invite her casually to some friend thing 'hey my friends and I are going to have some drinks at...you should come' Fabricate the event completely.
You'll know if she has any interest whatsoever if you get a text asking for details or where you were or 'missed you at'. Even if she does show interest, cancel due to a change of plans that you got asked out to movie, dinner or something obviously 'date'.
That may create enough jealousy for you to get back in, but this is all a far reach to begin with and is probably only worth it if you are looking to practice text game some more.
Quote: (09-24-2012 05:39 PM)Manystyles Wrote:
Went on date with her, kissing no bang
Advice?
Hit her up a few days later, was going to get her out again.
"whats up..."
Her response: "hey how was your flight mister....
"And don't take this the wrong way but I'd rather be just friends if that's ok.. Ur super cool! But as u know I am a man hater right now lol"
Why do the heathen rage and the people imagine a vain thing? Psalm 2:1 KJV
Posts: 196
Threads: 0
Joined: Feb 2012
Reputation:
0
So I just got this text
09-24-2012, 06:09 PM
I'm not really reading into this too much but on the date she mentioned its been awhile since she had sex. I'm taking the friend thing as friends with benefits. I just dont know how to respond.
Posts: 8,774
Threads: 0
Joined: Feb 2011
So I just got this text
09-25-2012, 01:40 AM
Completely ignore it and get her full of alcohol on the next date.
Posts: 1,268
Threads: 0
Joined: Sep 2011
Reputation:
20
So I just got this text
09-25-2012, 05:17 AM
i'd say the door is not quite closed just yet
the fact that you kissed the last time you met up means she has some attraction for you
i've had a similar situation not so long ago where a girl 'wasn't sure' about me, despite having thrown her tongue down my throat the last time we met
so i got her out, few drinks, some good fun conversation that got her relaxed and closed the deal
that said, if things were not looking good for me, i was all set to end things on a good LJBF note, keeping my frame and not showing i was disappointed (even if i was)
this is key, and it might mean the door i mentioned earlier is kept ever so slightly open for you to sneak your foot in at a later point
but in the meantime, obviously go out and meet other women, even if things do go well with this one, keep your options open, at least for the moment
Posts: 6,399
Threads: 0
Joined: Nov 2010
Reputation:
209
So I just got this text
09-26-2012, 02:08 AM
Text "yeah whatever, so let's meet for a drink at xxx bar round 5" If she goes it's on, if not then drop it. Manhating is the worlds strongest aphrodisiac.
Posts: 2,212
Threads: 0
Joined: Sep 2011
Reputation:
95
So I just got this text
09-26-2012, 05:10 AM
i'd not respond to the text, ignore it completely and just proceed as usual. when i see she's not comfortable with me making moves then it's real. actions speak louder than words.
Posts: 6,695
Threads: 0
Joined: Mar 2011
Reputation:
146
So I just got this text
09-28-2012, 08:11 PM
Quote:Quote:
I'm just playing it cool, probably will fuck
Not the way I see it. You need some more practice with text game. I'd avoid the textspeak, "lol's, and direct answers. Don't tell a girl you're trying to bang what you were actually doing. Treat her like a child, aka not any of her questions seriously. You blew it with your first text response and I'd move on personally. She wasn't that into you or you would have made out with her.
Vice-Captain - #TeamWaitAndSee
Posts: 11,055
Threads: 0
Joined: Mar 2011
Reputation:
152
So I just got this text
11-15-2012, 06:37 PM
That's about the worst I've seen here yet.