Quote: (09-19-2012 11:48 AM)playa_with_a_passport Wrote:
Quote: (09-17-2012 02:22 PM)xsplat Wrote:
The girl who is living with me now had to be physically forced during the sexual act. It took a month of seduction and a few times of breaking up with her for her sexual reticence, but even after she had verbally agreed, her body just couldn't say yes.
Rape is difficult. A girl can squeeze her legs together, and if you use both hands to pry them apart, she can use her hands to cover her pussy. And the whole time she can knee you in the balls.
But I got her virginity, and also her heart. Two years later she's still head over heels in love.
Was that rape?
Nobody - not even a husband on her wedding day - could have got that girls cherry. Some girls give a major shit test, and only want to fuck a man who is exactly that dominant.
And don't pretend that this is dangerous information that is going to confuse someone and cause a real rape. We all know what a real rape is. But if you think that the examples I just gave are actual rape, then explain.
If I even get even a hint that a lizard(specially White ) is uncomfortable I stop, charged it to the Game and on to the next one..
Uncomfortable? I'm not sure a girl has ever been uncomfortable. Resisting escalation, yes. But clearly enjoying herself and wanting to be there. There is a clear difference that doesn't require Amazing Kreskin mind reading skills to discern between a girl who wants you who is enjoying the seduction process but resisting her own urges, and a girl who does not want you and does not want your advances.
See, you've described perfectly the mindset that has a difficult time internalizing this sexual dynamic. You've soaked sexual dominance in fear and negativity. "Making the girl uncomfortable".
That's been nothing like my experience.
But maybe it was a casual word choice. Sexual tension does include an edge to it - no doubt.
When the sexual tension increases, either the girl is going to comply right away, without any last minute anti slut defenses or resistance to any of the 1000 things that aren't perfect about you, or the tension is going to be there and will dissipate as soon as you stop advancing kino to the next stage.
Sexual tension can't be all about "we're such good friends now. Now I'm really comfortable enough to be naked with you and kiss you with love and trust".
That's not how women work, and that's not how fast seduction works.
And if you're worried about false rape claims, set up video and audio recorders in your place. My place is covered with them, and everything is automatically recorded. Except for the kitchen.
Girls who comply with no resistance have been known to make the false rape claim. I wouldn't be surprised if they do so at a higher rate than those who put up moderate resistance. Even girls who initiate threesomes will make false rape claims.
Seduction through sexual escalation is just part of the job description of seduction. If you don't want that part of the job then you have a half assed attitude towards both the job and girl.
Girl: "No!"
Guy: "Aw shucks. Ok then."