What do you guys ask/talk about during a 1st date?
09-15-2012, 10:04 PM
Here's a list of conversation topics I stole from a bodybuilding.com forum. May be helpful
Conversation Topics
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Hobbies
So in my free time I? I feel like you like to? (Insert weird hobby)
Music Instruments
Sports
Weird Hobbies (collecting rocks, counting grains of salt, etc)
Talents (cooking, Drawing, Dancing, Instruments, etc)
Favorites
Movie
Actor/Actress
Genre of movies
Music
Concerts
Autographed stuff
The song that makes you feel amazing? Why?
The song that gets you up when you are down
Color
Color psychology
Favorite color to wear
Color of? (car, socks, iPod, laptop)
Car
Clothes Designer
Brand of? (soft drink, ice cream, computers, etc)
Academic subject
Food (Dessert, Pasta, Candy)
Cocktail
Club/Bar
Pets, Animals Etc.
Dog or Cat?
Childhood pets: hamsters, fish, insects in a jar, chia pets
Which animal do you identify with? (insert 3 animals game)
Have you ever eaten (dog, rat, insects, etc)
Scared of any animals?
Would you ever?
Consider doing a dangerous job (lion trainer, roller coaster tester, secret agent, professional thief, etc)
Do a dangerous activity (bungee jump, car racing, sword fight, parachuting, paragliding, etc)
Skinny Dipping
Streaking
Go camping in a far away forest
Sneak out of your house
Do karaoke
Role Playing/Fantasy
Travel to exotic places
Do amazing activities together (go on a hot air balloon, go up Mt. Everest, go on a submarine, etc)
School/Work
Don?t ask specifically, ?what do you do?, instead, introduce it indirectly. For asking about college majors, try and guess based on her personality. As Mystery suggested in his book, this thread is best introduced via a story.
?As a child I always had interest in the stars, when I was 15 I bought my first telescope, when I was 17 I met Einstein, then I went to college and became an Astronomer?)?
Talk about the future (life after graduation)
Specific interests
What do you want to accomplish in life?
Where do you see yourself in 10 years?
Ideal job
You own ideal business
What?s appealing about your major/career? Why are you studying this?
Relationships/Sex
Most romantic experience (DHV story about the romantic dinner/trip/evening you gave to an ex-girlfriend)
Weird relationships (with weirdo?s, stalkers, freaks) (DHV story about how you helped out an ex-girlfriend get out of her bad circumstances)
First Kiss
What are the top 3 things you look for in your partner? (find commonalities here)
Would you rather find true love or win the lottery?
Sex Differences
Who is flirtier?
Who lies better?
Girls go to the bathroom together, guys go solo.
When girls say ?lets just be friends? they really mean it; when guys say it, they just mean they don?t want to pay for dinner anymore, but still want sex.
Why are there so many guy comedians, but no girls? Are guys funnier?
Who dances better?
Who dresses better?
Guys fist fight, girls spread rumors.
Read 10 Things You Didn?t Know About Women for a few more ideas
Money
Love or wealth? (Would you rather find true love or win the lottery?)
If you were a Homeless person, and you find a briefcase with 1 Million dollars, what would you do with it?
If you could buy one thing, anything, what would it be?
Would you rather earn little at a job you really enjoy, or earn lots of money at a job you hate?
Work or do your own business?
What would you do with a million dollars?
Childhood
I bet you were one of those girls with millions of stuffed animals on your bed!
Favorite childhood animated movie? (Aladdin, Little Mermaid, 101 Dalmatians, etc)
Spoiled?
Childhood dream: What did you want to be as a kid when you grew up? Princess? (I wanted to be a robot!)
What was the greatest mischief you did as a kid? (Tell your own story of that time you painted the dog with red paint!)
Favorite toys as a kid
Did you go to Disney?
Were you afraid of the dark?
Travel
Countries you have visited (Insert DHV story of your Euro Trip, etc)
Countries you want to visit
Have you gone camping?
Greatest vacation ever
and don't forget to throw in some sexual stuff. Have to be playful, too...also, form in the phrase of a question.