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'+ w/small cock or 5'8 or less with big cock?
10-12-2012, 01:22 PM
Damn this thread just won't quit... LOL... I don't know man, having a big dick is definitely an advantage, just like being handsome, tall, and buff is an advantage, but I don't think it's as important as a lot of guys make it out to be. I'd say as long as you aren't under 5 in. you are probably all good.
Not to brag, but as I've mentioned before penis size is one realm that I appear to have been blessed in, I'm not the tallest, buffest, or most handsome guy, but I'm 8 in. in length and above average in girth. Nevertheless, I'm not some kind of local porn star stud that has girls lining up to fuck me.
Having a big dick doesn't give me a confidence boost, but maybe it should, I need to start repeating to myself before an approach, "you have a huge cock, you'll fuck the shit out of her, and she'll love it..." I can see how having a very small penis could fuck with your confidence and inner game, knowing that you can do everything right, up to the point where you pull your dick out, only to have a chick lose attraction for you in the most crucial moment. However, for that to happen you'd have to be really small like under 5 in.
I think laying the pipe well is probably as important or more important than the size of your pecker. I mean really just cause a guy is well endowed doesn't mean he will be good in bed, if you have a hard time staying erect, are out of shape and have poor stamina/cardio, or ejaculate pre-maturely, a woman isn't going to get off, even if you're packing a thick 9 incher.
Having a big shlong and plowing the hell out of a woman, can keep her coming back if she loved the sex, but with the hypergamous nature of woman, and how flakey they are, there are NO guaruntees.... Shit I remember a couple years ago, I fucked the hell out of this Native American chick, I'd consider it one of my best sexual performances... We had two sessions, the first lasted probably 20 mins, and the second session probably more like 30 mins, of me straight pounding away on her, she was moaning, groaning, screaming,... I made her squirt like 3 times that night, that was the only time I have ever made a chick squirt, and I'm talking full on squirting that left my bed sheets and blankets totally soaked... Well, what's the point of this anecdote? I thought I had that chick sewed up, I felt like a sex God and thought for sure she was going to be a regular fuck buddy, only when I hit her up to hang out a few days later she flaked on me...
I was totally stunned and like a beta I asked her why she didn't want to see me again, we had such a good time together, well it turns out that she was seeing another guy and was "more into him" than me. Maybe the other guy had a 10 in. dick and threw it down better than me, or maybe he was taller, more handsome, charismatic, etc... Who knows, the point is that having a huge dick and throwing it down won't even ensure that a chick will want to come back to keep fucking you.
So as long as you don't have a tiny pecker (under 5 in.) and know how to use it, you are all good, no need to be all self-concious and feel inadequate about your size. Sure you'll come across women who have larger pussies or are used to fucking black dudes with 8 inchers, and maybe your size won't pleasure them as much as they are used to. In situations like that, you got to charge it to the game, and target women who are more petite or are Asian. Whenever I watch Japanese porn I'm always surprised by how small the guys' dick is, I mean he's in porn so you would think they are selecting guys who are larger than their normal, yet the guys in Japanese porn all look like they are 5 in., or maybe 6 at most. If that's the case an American guy with 5 in. will be more than adequate over there.
At the end of the day we all want to improve on something or wish we could be taller, stronger, smarter, more talented, handsome, etc. All we can do is work on improving the things that are within our control, and coming to terms and making peace with what we cannot. While this thread is about height vs. penis size, I still think height is more crucial... As a guy who is packing it, I really cannot say that I've gotten laid directly due to having a big dick, women simply do not know, and if they have been told by their friends that I have fucked, it's not like they have been coming around, wanting to fuck me based on what they've heard. Whereas I have a bunch of tall friends and see tall guys who get hit up by chicks all the time, and for sure have gotten lays directly related to their height. I'd rather be tall and get more ass and easier ass, than being an introverted guy with a huge dick who still has to cut his teeth trying to pick up women.