IMO this is bollocks.
Confidence is application specific. A Navy SEAL is going to be very confident clearing a room in Afghanistan, but probably not so confident when it comes to conducting a Japanese Tea Ceremony.
Confidence with girls is borne from success with girls, period. Naturals have confidence ergo they succeed. Structured pickup is "fake it till you make it", designed to manufacture just enough success vis-a-vis contrived devices to eventually get you said application-specific confidence.
Cliffs: Learning to make coq au vin will not get you over your AA. Get out of your house and talk to girls.
Confidence is application specific. A Navy SEAL is going to be very confident clearing a room in Afghanistan, but probably not so confident when it comes to conducting a Japanese Tea Ceremony.
Confidence with girls is borne from success with girls, period. Naturals have confidence ergo they succeed. Structured pickup is "fake it till you make it", designed to manufacture just enough success vis-a-vis contrived devices to eventually get you said application-specific confidence.
Cliffs: Learning to make coq au vin will not get you over your AA. Get out of your house and talk to girls.
DISCLAIMER: I don't know what I'm talking about and my posts are opinion, not advice.
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