Quote: (08-30-2012 05:03 PM)Big Nilla Wrote:
If I said to some Polish/Ukrainian/Russian girl that obviously liked me enough to have sex without me saying anything about all this... lets get married, have some kids, we'll live in a $750,000 house/estate in a tourist area on a beach with nice weather year round, you'll get a new car, you won't pay for anything, once or twice a year you/we will go back to Poland, you mom/family can visit and stay with us for part of the year, a couple of other trips, and to top it off I'm going to give you $1,000 a month for 18 years ($225,000) just to stay home and watch the kids... you're telling me a Polish girl won't go for that offer today?
That's not the offer.
Quote: (08-30-2012 05:03 PM)Big Nilla Wrote:
in 2 years when the Polish economy is collapsed like the rest of Europe?
Who says this will happen? The Internets? The things may go down to various degrees, but these are cyclical events, and the general quality of life in EU can not collapse overnight in foreseeable future.
Quote: (08-30-2012 05:03 PM)Big Nilla Wrote:
Obviously most Polish women who were into me (I'm not trying to buy their affection, I'd wait to throw this at them after I could tell they had some sincere interest in me) would take that offer in a heartbeat.I'm just taking it a step further by saying, but you won't be alone.
Watch her interest in you evaporate like magic dust once you read her the fine print (from being enamored to going "eww what a creep"). For quick exercise, do a role reversal. You meet a chick you want for your baby mama. She tells you she is divorced, already has two kids, and wants to have six more with three more men with whom she wants to live in a same compound, free to fuck and socialize with any of you in the compound whenever she wants. Oh and you won't be able to work, but you can knit together with other men in the compound. Still interested?
Quote: (08-30-2012 05:03 PM)Big Nilla Wrote:
It's the other women/kids part that is my obstacle.
In business slang this is called a dealbreaker.
Quote: (08-30-2012 05:03 PM)Big Nilla Wrote:
What you guys who are hung up on the $1,000 a month seem to be missing the point on is that THESE GIRLS WON'T BE RICH.
Exactly
Quote: (08-29-2012 06:24 PM)Big Nilla Wrote:
$1,000 a month. That's just a small part
Exactly
Quote: (08-30-2012 05:03 PM)Big Nilla Wrote:
The $1,000 a month is spending money. Much like the hangers-on of famous people. They get the lifestyle, not the wealth.
Hangers-on of famous people get to enjoy the benefits of real wealth. You on the other hand are projecting the illusion of it because you are not wealthy enough to be hit with an exit citizenship renunciation tax. Women have supremely calibrated antennas for those things, and will eventually figure it out.
Quote: (08-29-2012 06:24 PM)Big Nilla Wrote:
California/southern France... I'm not catering my location to what you perceive THEY want, I'm locating where I want to be.
But where you want to be is where they don't want to be (in combination with all other factors), and since you are the one creating this offer in order to fulfill your fantasy, you need them more then they need you (for the purposes of this fantasy). Back to square one.
Quote: (08-29-2012 06:24 PM)Big Nilla Wrote:
I don't see how a Polish girl would see me as a tax-evader, which I wouldn't be anyway.
You can live in Panama without renunciation.
Quote: (08-29-2012 06:24 PM)Big Nilla Wrote:
I don't even want them to know how wealthy I am to begin with. I just want them to sense that, hey, this guy seems to have a lot of money and leave it at that.
Women never ever "leave anything at that". They will spend their entire free time figuring you out and getting to the bottom of your finances. The more money they think you have, the more they think they deserve in return. They will never "leave it that" because in their minds it could mean they are leaving money on the table. And that shit eats them up inside. It's called domestic hypergamy
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Their neurons are frequently firing, "Am I getting my fair share out of this relationship?"-type of thoughts. And since you are indeed sharing them with other women, that "fair share" motive will constantly be at the forefront of their minds.
Quote: (08-29-2012 06:24 PM)Big Nilla Wrote:
You make it seem like I'm some old loser that will be a father figure to these girls.
If you're in your mid 30s, and she's 18, you are a father figure to her, certainly and especially if she never had one. It doesn't mean she sees you as her father, but that in her subconscious you may represent a substitute for one. You can disbelief this all you want, but it won't make it go away.
Quote: (08-29-2012 06:24 PM)Big Nilla Wrote:
A girl right out of college is probably the ideal target
Makes no sense at all. Educated girl has more professional and social options, or thinks she does. Educated also implies some degree of smart-ness, and analytical skills. So she will forever analyze her life and how everything fits in it. This further decreases your chances of her agreeing or putting up with your arrangement for long.
Quote: (08-29-2012 06:24 PM)Big Nilla Wrote:
it seems the eastern European ones are more calculating and logical.
You should see how logical they will be when evaluating your offer. Or how calculating they will be with that 1k per month. Or eventually that attorney's office down the street.
Quote: (08-29-2012 06:24 PM)Big Nilla Wrote:
since she'll be getting smacked with the reality of how hard life is going to be.
You really underestimate how tough and resilient the EE people are. They lived through some of the most unimaginable things and periods in history, and not only survived, but thrived. Poland today is in its most prosperous period in terms of standard of living. And so is the rest of Europe, and most of the world for that matter. So you are completely disregarding that for a simple Internet hearsay that life in the 1st world EU will be so bad in two years that the young, regular Euro hotties (not gold-digging whores) will clamor to get on the harem bandwagon as if they are some characters from folk tales in One Thousand and One Nights? Women love to feel owned true dat, but not shared. And young women are notorious for flaking, and even taking them to an apartment in other part of town will more often than not result in their change of mind. And that flight to Panama is long.