[topdog]

Regarding porn, watch european porn. They are often more about the technique than the spectacle.

Don't go down, it could give you cancer:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-...umour.html
(hat tip Danger & Play)

And read this:
http://krauserpua.com/2012/12/24/how-to-be-a-sex-god/

[Hades]

(07-31-2012 08:58 PM)Athlone McGinnis Wrote:  

Step 1: Read this thread-this discussion has been done before, and it could be useful to you.

Step 2:

(07-31-2012 01:25 AM)Hades Wrote:  

General consensus is watch porn, take some mental notes, give it a shot.
I can't tell if the girls in porn are faking it, but I doubt all of them are.

Do not do this. The vast majority of girls you see in mainstream porn are faking it. Scenes do exist in which the girl is genuinely getting off, but they are the exception, not the rule. For most porn girls, their scenes are merely a job, and they treat it accordingly. This work often actually precludes genuine orgasm because they are a) not seriously attracted to some of the men they're fucking, b) not fucking in environments they are comfortable in and c) not allowed to fuck in the positions/methods that they find most erotic, instead working to try and get angles for the camera.
Mainstream porn is a show put on for the viewer, designed to appeal to his (and, occasionally, her) fantasies. It is largely useless for gauging sexual realities.

The fact that so many guys are trying to use it for this purpose may explain why so many guys have no idea how to lay it down.

If you must use some form of porn, you are going to need to tailor it to just a handful of sources and the vast majority of the mainstream stuff will be excluded. Stick to amateur (several high quality tube sites out there have authentic video with real people, not actors, genuinely enjoying each other's company) and some pro-am (Pierre Woodman's castings are a good start). From these more authentic videos you may be able to glean what actually works. Do NOT use mainstream porn.

Step 3: Familiarize yourself with male kegels, get some solid lower-body core workouts going, and work a little high intensity cardio for stamina.

I've read some sex god method and checked out that thread.

My only rebuttal is that a lot of girls (especially the slutty ones) are watching the same porn and have come to expect the crazy shit that goes on.
Other than that I agree with the gist of what you have here, watch amateur porn, apply that sort of thing, do kegels. Most guys also aren't packing a nine inch cock so some of the maneuvers they use in porn aren't feasible.

[Gmac]

I have to disagree with Athlone, that's bull. Trying out porn scenes you've seen is the best thing you can do for your sex life (within reason you sickos). Fuck kegels, once you've mastered not being a "quick-shot" all you need is passion and multiple positions. Almost all the maneuvers are feasible, that's why you practice. Passion is hard to fake, and when you aren't in love with a chick it takes a special kind of seasoned player to pull off.

[Que enspastic]

dominance, leadership, foreplay.

i find it easier to come on top, girls often come easier when they're on top, and if you're both sitting up the girl is most likely to have your dick hitting her g-spot.

slap the ass too, they like that.

[MidniteSpecial]

That bitch was on mad xtc getting fucked in that video. See the way she's rubbing her face.

Also dude failed to take off the underwear with the pants. Rookie mistake. She had to do it for him.

[topdog]

I've tried this, great results:
http://www.askmen.com/dating/player/paris13.html
(the pillow move)

And this, from doggie to lift her from her shoulders giving you an angle to hit her g-spot works wonders:
http://www.askmen.com/dating/player_150/...games.html
Just don't go down on her.

[Lothario]

(06-04-2013 10:09 PM)Gmac Wrote:  

I have to disagree with Athlone, that's bull. Trying out porn scenes you've seen is the best thing you can do for your sex life (within reason you sickos). Fuck kegels, once you've mastered not being a "quick-shot" all you need is passion and multiple positions. Almost all the maneuvers are feasible, that's why you practice. Passion is hard to fake, and when you aren't in love with a chick it takes a special kind of seasoned player to pull off.

G-mac, Can you expand on not being the Quick-Shot thing .....

[topdog]

@Lothario: I think Gmac means on not cumming too fast. It can be achieved by focusing on her rather than yourself.

I remember watching a reality show made by PRIVATE (the porn company) and the guy who in the end won said: "Well, I understood that to last in a scene, you just can't enjoy the pussy you are fucking".

For the true sex-gods or masters this may not be valid, but for the intermediate guys, focusing on the rest of your body while making your girl orgasm like crazy is fun. In the end you have the freedom to command her to any position of your choice.

[the Thing]

Haven't seen this thread before but nice topic. Reviving.

Correct me if you think I'm wrong.. but in my experience, 80% of fucking a girl good, happens before you even get to the bed.

I mean, I'm a simple man, I eat her out.. Start missionary then doggy style, I see her ass cheeks clapping. I reach around to grab her titties. I cum.

But girls are VERY emotional creatures. Who could ever know what's going on in her mind at the time, except her of course.

Instead of reading kama sutra books, read into her. Not on an intellectual level but rather on an emotional and (also) at the primal level.

If it's a new girl, fool around with the new hardware. Figure out in what way; what you say, where you touch, how you look at her, how she looks at you, how you hold her, how you grab her, how you flick her hair, how you breathe, how she breathes, how you treat her overall; makes her tick.

Hit the right switches in her primal mind.. in the right order, and keep going at it for the entire duration of interaction = time of her life.

Giving it to a girl good is best left to passion.. Release your primal instinct since making love is what it's there for..

The opposite of this would be.. paying an Amsterdam Red Light prostitute 50 bucks to fuck her for 15 minutes.

It will be the worst sex of her life, no matter how much kama sutra or PornHub scenes you try on her..

[Fortis]

Hit it hard.

When you smash a girl so good she's a quivering, moaning wreck of nerves on your bed, she will be coming back. I think it's just instinct. A dude who smashes hard and good communicates that he's good breeding material. That sort of fucking makes even battle-hardened thots start looking at you dreamily.

I'm not all that seductive or interesting, but when I lay it down in bed a lot of girls find a reason to sit around with me drinking beer and watching b horror movies in my shabby apartment.

If you turn her on a lot but you're not good in bed, she'll still have that nagging feeling of not being satisfied. I've definitely snatched girls from guys with stronger game than me but who lagged behind me in bedroom skills. Sometimes I'll peep a girl's texts for lulz. You'd be surprised at how willing a chick is to let you see texts from other dudes if you legitimately don't give a shit.

I notice that a lot of dudes in Asia talk sweet and that's cool, but she'll just keep you on the line texting while getting rawdogged by some chad who gives it to her good.

There's something about giving a girl a good, brutal smash that short circuits their brains.

As Roissy said, "fuck her profligately."

[BlackHussar]

For a ONS or a short-term girl, I definitely agree with Fortis and The Thing. Just smash her hard and she'll keep coming for more.

What I like to add into the mix in a LTR is some passion, but not in the pussy way we see in chick flicks, romantic comedies and similar bullshit movies. I'm not talking about listening to Beethoven's symphonies or Barry White. Hear me out.

When you really like the girl, psycho-physically, the sex will usually be better than in a ONS. You'll establish an emotional connection.

The thing is, I alternate wild, primal with slower, but still hard fucking.

Missionary - slow down, thrust slowly but hard, grab her hair and pull, bite her neck, grab her tits, take her hand and fix it with yours above her head. Look her in the eyes. When she gives you the puppy look of submission and moans, smirk dominantly. Gets them even more wet. When she tries to kiss you, move away and bite her earlobe or her shoulder. When she starts going really crazy, do a wild French kiss - and now is a good time to speed up and again turn to fucking her fast and hard.

Doggie - again, slowly thrust into her, grab her hair, smell it, breathe into her ear and down her neck, spank her, grab her by her chin, kiss her hard, bite her lips, then push her head into the pillow and again start fucking her like a caveman.

Cowgirl - allow her to ride you slowly, look into her eyes, grab her tits, move your hands all over her. Sit up, embrace her and kiss her. Then lie down, pull her down with you, and... you know the drill.

When you combine these two modes, after sex she'll just be catching her breath for 2 minutes, then she'll lay on your chest and whisper how much she loves you and how it was so fucking great.

[Mizo1234]

Read the sex god method book

[maharajj]

(07-31-2012 12:35 PM)Noir Wrote:  

how to finger properly/good foreplay, how to hit the g-spot, hit the gym so you can translate that performance into the bedroom. Practice makes perfect.

This has been very good for me – https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?v...=165182754

[BlackHussar]

Damn Maharajj, my brother showed me that video just yesterday! Pretty solid

This one's also good

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?v...1174233123

[subterfuge]

I don't think there's any secret technique you can do with your cock to make her cum or anything. Every guy always brags about being amazing in bed and better than the next guy etc, but I tend to think that everyone fucks the same basically. It's just a cock! You can't make it spin around like a helicopter inside of her or anything. I don't think there's any 'secrets'.
I think ideally your cock will be decent sized, and you don't cum super fast. That's basically 'it' lol.
I've kind of had this confirmed by girls that i've spoken too as I used to be super confused when guys would tell me that they are 'amazing in bed and great at fucking' and how they 'know tonnes of tricks', but girls confirmed that basically everyone bangs them the same. Makes sense! There's only a few variables!

I think in terms of eating her out, then there ARE more differences, but again, it only takes 2 seconds of research online to be as good as the next guy!

When I lost my virginity, the girl (a fair bit older) genuinely assumed i'd banged loads of girls even though I didn't have a clue. I just copied what i'd seen in porn and thanks to being nervous, I was able to last like 40 mins lol! She clearly enjoed banging me and some weeks later a friend of hers was interested in me simply based on her review of my performance lol.

I also agree that lots of it is mental for the girl. Little things like grabbing her neck and deep eye contact etc can make sex 'good' even though it had nothing to do with your cock or your angle of penetration and all that stuff!

So, long story short, i'm not convinced that there's much too it at all so don't worry about it!

[BlackHussar]

When you're decent at something in life, at anything, it's natural to you and you can't comprehend how could anyone not be good at it - it's so easy, after all!

You know how to drive, you can't understand how certain people can't parallel park in 17 attempts.

You can grill a good steak, you can't process how your cousin always burns his steaks so they look and taste like car tires.

It's the same with sex - there are no tricks, you just need to make an effort and not be half-assed about it. Of course, there is also confidence, experience and other things that come into play, but the main thing is simply to get the job done correctly.

I talked to more than a few girls I know intimately (cousins, lifelong girl friends, etc.), and I've heard quite a lot of horror stories about guys acting all alpha, and then having sex and lasting for three minutes, or guys fucking them in retarded positions they saw in hardcore porn because they think they're cool.

But most often, I hear about guys fucking for 5 minutes, foreplay included, and that's it.

I mean, some of those girls I talked to are really hot - what kind of a lame ass fuckwit do you have to be in order to charm this beautiful 8.5 and fuck her for FIVE FUCKING MINUTES?! You have this beautiful piece of human bioengineering in front of you, you've spent time, money and energy seducing her, she's yours for the night, you can enjoy her gorgeous body and the closeness and the sensations, you can lose yourself in the moment and make that moment last for hours...
Then you cum in 5 minutes.
What are you? Are you so fucking lazy, how can you not exploit the enormous potential you have right before your eyes? Do you not want to be happy and satisfied?
I never understood that.

There are no secrets or tricks, for starters, just make it last at least 20 minutes, enjoy yourself, might as well make sure she enjoys herself.

TL;DR: don't be a dumbass