Quote: (07-27-2012 06:53 PM)basilransom Wrote:
Quote: (07-27-2012 06:36 PM)Timoteo Wrote:
I agree. If I had a daughter, I wouldn't discourage her from engaging in any sport she chose. Volleyball is also one of those "girl" sports that tends to attract feminine girls. Of course, tennis has attractive women also, as does track and field. If only because it would keep her in shape, that's a good enough reason. And girls that were athletic tend to want to maintain that longer - they take a certain pride in their bodies.
With all due respect, no, it isn't. I lived in the beach volleyball capital of the world. It was far far far from an oasis of femininity. That said, if you like statuesque blonde girls, it's pretty good. Pretty much any team sport is masculinizing, because competition is masculinizing. The most feminine girls don't naturally enjoy sports, unless it has an element of the theatrical.
Better options are pursuits that are solitary or 'showy.' In the latter category, I'd put dancing and some gymnastics. In the former, I'd put things like rock climbing, weight lifting, running. The solitary ones might or might not bulk a girl up, but they wouldn't have the corrosive mental effect that team sports would. I haven't studied it, but they seem to have the same effect that any hard hobby would, like playing the violin.
There is also indoor volleyball. In all my years in school, it's the sport that more girls were okay playing than any other. I don't mean that in practice that the sport is soft, but for some reason feminine girls chose it over many others. Even as an adult, there are corporate volleyball leagues that women like playing in. It's also one of the sports for women that doesn't carry stigma - namely, you won't be assumed a dyke for playing it.
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